My ex and i were together for 3 yrs. it ended badly, i'm glad we're broken up. but we were best friends....and it's weird not having each other to talk to.
we're trying to keep in touch, to keep the friendship at least. but every time we talk, i get SO irritated.
he will leave me messages online and say hi-- that's it. and if i say anything back, he completely ignores me. just doesnt respond, even if he's there.
or he'll call me and tell me a story quick and then be in a rush to get off the phone-- doesnt ask how i am, anything. he always says "i just wanted to say hi, i didnt want a conversation"
i geuss i get so angry bc thats why we broke up....bc he put NO effort into the relationship. i wanted to maintain a friendship here but is there really any point???
2007-09-16 14:27:47 · 25 answers · asked by autumn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there was no effort in the relationship, and seemingly no effort in a friendship, then stop wasting your effort on him.
2007-09-16 14:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by jeff k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it doesn't sound like there is a point. It seems pretty one sided. He's got you as a friend to listen to him but what do you have? I'd ignore his "hi's" online and not answer the phone when he calls or just tell him, this isn't working for me , I care about you but I think it's time for us to just let go. If he gets ticked then just sock him with the truth, he's an inconsiderate self absorbed jerk! Sounds like you can do way better! Good Luck!
2007-09-16 21:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Desiderata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point at all. This is no friendship, just as what you had previously was no relationship. Anyone who irritates you that badly cannot be a friend, and won't be a lover for long. Release yourself from this.
2007-09-16 21:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal! Get over it and him! You broke up! Time to move on! There are a thousand fish in the sea! Get a new one this guys just stringing you along!
2007-09-16 21:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by REALLY? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound like much of a point to any of that. Sounds like he is just out right not interested in you. I say try as hard as you can to get over it. Realize you're better than this and you're worth more. There's plenty of people out there who are better worth your time and who don't make you furious.
2007-09-16 21:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a jerk. If you take away all of the focus you have on him and put it someplace else I'm sure you'll find someone that's right for you - as a friend, or even more.
Seriously, he's not worth the time if you aren't worth his.
2007-09-16 21:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Snuggles! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you two are the best of friends anymore. He's not interested in keeping up the friendship so let it go...
2007-09-16 21:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He seems like an uncaring jerk. It's sad when people change. But I have to wonder if he's like covering for something...did something happen in his life? Is he under a lot of stress?
2007-09-16 21:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really doesn't want to be your friend, he's just being cordial. He's not stringing you along. He probably wants to move on and you just won't go away. Find something else to do with yourself and your life.
2007-09-16 21:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that sounds very irritating. Sounds like there's no point in it ... he's too immature. Don't let him keep giving you the brush off like that ... say you have to go, before he does.
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2007-09-16 21:36:54 · answer #10 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋