how is it that when a woman has sex with 10 different guy shes labeled a HOE, but when a guy has sex with 10 different women hes label a PLAYER!!!
2007-09-16 14:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because women are more of a challenge to get into bed so its considered a conquest whereas a woman can get just about any guy into bed with her with no problem.
2007-09-16 14:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are jealous or just don't get as much play as the women they label a hoe. I personally don't care what a guy thinks because I know most men do the same thing and I'm not going to feel bad about it.
2007-09-16 21:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by latoyaevon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing, because women are compared to other women, and men are compared to other men. That only makes sense, right? If you saw a grape the size of a ping pong ball you wouldnt compare it to a water mellon and say its small. You'd say its huge!
For a more in-depth understanding of attitudes regarding sex, study evolutionary biology. A woman who sleeps around is viewed as bad by males because a male who pairs up with her can never know if the baby he's raising is his or some other guy's. Females dont have that problem with guys obviously.
2007-09-16 21:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hanging out with the wrong people. This is a double standard, but not everybody (like hippies) shares it. Another group that doesn't share this double standard is Deadheads, rave fans, the B&D crowd, and so on.
2007-09-16 21:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that a double standard?!
there both equal I think...
I label a player when he;s trying to
get with 2 girls at once....if he does 10 girls hes a mannnnn whooooreeee woooo lol
2007-09-16 21:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question. Double standards. Society chops it up to boys will be boys. I think this is remnant from times when a man was permitted to have a mistress but the wife was only allowed to have contact with her husband.
2007-09-16 21:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can care less.
10 15 20 people lie anyway
2007-09-16 21:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IDK. In my opinion, nobody should be having sex with that many different people. Especially now days. There's too much risk involved. I wouldn't call them Hoes, or players, I would call them stupid.
2007-09-16 21:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree except that will NEVER call a lady any disparaging names --- its only idiots that have such a distorted view on life ---- add the one that a lady MUST be virgin when married and a guy can "sow his wild oats"
2007-09-16 21:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you dont know what "double standards" are?
Player - guys (BAD)
Hoe - girls (BAD)
2007-09-16 21:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋