Singles & Dating - 13 September 2007

when a girl who is loving him says that i will not live without you....if i cannot live without you i will die

2007-09-13 23:33:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if someone you were dating/getting to know told you they'd used cocaine and meth..started bragging about what a great high it was and how much they liked it.Would you find them interesting/exciting or would you be turned off?

2007-09-13 23:28:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a guy that I used 2 like 4 four years.. his cousin used 2 love me (his my X)and his best friend 2... the one I like he got engaged to my best friend.. I did never show him that I like him once... he left my friend cuz he don't love her but she does.. they got engaged bcuz she adores him and he thought that she's better than alot of girls.. he asked me 2 go out as we usually do but that time we had a move we were at night sitting on the beach we kissed and he looked at me saying (I LOVE U) from the 1st day I saw u and I want u not anybody else and I couldn't come and tell u so before cuz of everything.. I don't want 2 know anybody else.. ""will u marry me""... I want him to but the problem is my friend his friend and his cousin my parents his parents... but finally the guy I like came to me. he wants 2 do anything for me just 2 get married. I dunno what am I suppose 2 do. to stay with the one i always love him or my best friend and for his friend and his cousin.

2007-09-13 22:32:48 · 2 answers · asked by N.G 1

I'd really like to meet someone special. But the internet dating thing (match) hasn't worked for me. I'm 26 years old and I've never been in a relationship. Just never met the right person, and I've never wanted to have a boyfriend just for the hell of it. But I'd really like to find true love at this point in my life.

I'm an attractive girl. I tried the internet thing, because I don't like meeting people at bars or clubs. I'm not into clubbing because people are never genuine. I only go to bars to hang out with my friends. Not to get laid. And generally men seem to hound you down at clubs and everyone is trying to get laid. So I stay away from places like that.

How can I meet some genuine? Without internet dating...and without being hunted down by sexual predators on a night out.

2007-09-13 22:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by Nothing's Forever 2

Do they really like it if you come on strong or tease him a bit coz i think he is hot, and i found out through the grapevine he likes me to like i could thought about giving him a little bait so he could be comfortable, like he told me had a interview i told him good luck he said thanx and smiled..

2007-09-13 22:21:47 · 9 answers · asked by latora_king 1

Afriend of mine-Trust(not her real name) introduced me to her coursemate-Asume(not her real name) while in Universty.We left Universty at diferent tyms me being d 1st 2leave so Inever knew much of Asume.3 of us live several kms from each other.Last mnth Trust askd me 2acomadate Asume coz she was comin to aply to work in acertain Orgn in ma town.Isaid it was ok for the sake of Trust and coz it was only 1nite.2days ago Asume caled sayin she was in Town n comin 2 c me.Again Iwasnt in d mood of welcomin her but did it knowin it would b only 1nite.She went 2 c d Manager of d Orgn dfollowing morng and caled me in d a/noon sayin was told 2start d followin day.Am pissed abt d whole thing,she throws thngs abt d room in adisorderly maner,tolks in her sleep,Idont lyk cookin and when she does Idont like it either.She's not showin any sign of leavin yet Iocupy only 1room.We dont get romantic wen Ivisit ma bf coz he stays wit his parents.He vists me vry often n thats when we have tym 2do al we want.

2007-09-13 22:17:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love 7 years ago wiv a girl I met at Uni. I was 19 n she was18, as a kid I went to church n was told 2 respect women/girls as equals, as every1 u lust after is some1s sister, daughter, mother etc. This really rang home wiv me as I would hate for some1 to mistreat a member of my family/friends n we r all people wiv hearts. I was always unlucky wiv girls, Id make good friends with some1 I liked then ask them out and get rejected(I am quite overweight). Til I met her-she was my 1st love-I think! We spent all r time 2gether,laughing- she was beautiful n said we were soulmates which I believed? I told her I loved her - more than a friend she said she felt the same--but had a b/friend! We kissed that was it, but I wanted 2b wiv her- she said theyd split up-'soon'! Then she said she only liked me as a mate- i couldnt accept it. It ended badly-I was heartbroken. Cocaine, Marijuana, Alcohol, Balder and Fatter 26 now. Stopped the drink n drugs, will I find real love again? or just f*#k

2007-09-13 22:00:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever looked at a girl and knew you shouldn't ask her out but you do anyway. what is the attraction i mean iv'e ended up with girls who stalked me girls who went off their birth control pill and didn't tell me because they got paranoid i was gonna leave them (i wasn't but did after that, thank god she didn't get pregnant) Anyone ever had this problem Girls guys anyone?

2007-09-13 21:25:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going out on a date tomorrow. I asked him. I want to know how to tell if a guy wants a hug at the end of the date, or what should I look for so I know not to. I like to hug other people, I'm just friendly and outgoing but I really like this guy. I wouldn't want to kiss him because I think that's going way too fast.

2007-09-13 21:21:12 · 11 answers · asked by auroraangel2004 2

this is like the second part of my first question.
just to remember you, no i'm not having sex with my girl cause i love her, and i respect her, i completely understand that by having sex with her, i'd ruin my life, and hers, so i'm the kind of guys that thing about waiting till marriage...i'm 100% sure about waiting, but i still don't know if i'd get in trouble here in oklahoma if i date her...can i???

2007-09-13 21:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 1

Personally, I would want a beautiful woman. I would want her due to my own admiration, and for the production of physically attractive children, with good genetics. However, people say that it is a man just wanting to show her off like a crown. Not me at all. It's just only what I'm attracted to. Do average men want beautiful women for this reason? Is this common? I do not make up the majority of men by any means.

2007-09-13 20:41:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it use before sex or after sex?

2007-09-13 20:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by Shai 1

So, I went out with this guy tonight. So, cute and sweet. He met my parents before we went out and they said they loved him so that's a plus. I don't know though, I kind of ended the night with an embarrassing hug. I didn't want to kiss him ,well I do, but I would like to wait till the second date or third. To make sure I like him. Anyways, so, my hands were full, so I kind of gave him a awkward, butt out, half a hug. Kind of rested my head briefly on his shoulder and then let go and he said he would call me tomorrow. I feel really embarrassed though. I can't believe I did that and I can't stop thinking about how embarrassing and dorky I was. So, what do yall think? Do you think he noticed? Think it was a turn-off for him?

2007-09-13 20:29:30 · 13 answers · asked by Lilly 3

2007-09-13 20:26:22 · 16 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2

Im 20 and shes at the least 15 shes in the 10th grade and Im in college
She's a blue belt in my karate class and Im a black belt, Im sure shes just handling this professionally or maybe I could be wrong, We've been getting really close I think, um sometimes were arguing during break or teasing each other or making fun of one another And after class alot of us stay after and do Jujitsu well last week her brother had to miss practice and me and Her did Jujitsu after class and it was just me and her and we wore ourselves out to the point of when one of us tapped we rested on each other..lol and there were some awkward moments as usual in that but yeah. A couple of times before she was tickling me with her feet and then it stopped for a while and now well we got in each others face you know like that What!? look yeah I was like this looks wrong she said you have no idea I can't just turn what im feeling, and no idea why she acts like that and I know its illegal for me to like her arrgh

2007-09-13 20:20:29 · 29 answers · asked by dudewheresmycar86 2

is meeting someone from online weird

2007-09-13 20:03:30 · 20 answers · asked by z88 3

There's this girl I like and I have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. However, as time goes I feel that some things have changed, and she sometimes shows some interests. But yesterday, for the first time in few months, I saw her talking to this boy who likes her too! They were talking about a bowling plan, and they seemed to talk more than usual (they also talk like five months ago but it ceased). That guy and his pals ask her and pals on a bowling plan, but the first time they declined. The second is cancelled due to a clashing schedule though. She seems to talk to him more though, but she also tries to evade him sometimes and I don't think she makes any attempt to be with him. I'm a more shy person and hence I can barely start conversation, although sometimes she would teases me, but today we were having a group dinner, and I seem to be more quiet (also due to the shock yesterday) and she rather grumbles asking more people to speak more. She also teases me and laughs at the comments that my friends made about me. And she also talks to her friend about me (one of her friends is really angry with me, I don't know why), I think it's like asking her to forgive. But I DIDN'T start a conversation, although a couple of times she show some interests, like teasing me and helping me a lot.

And now I'm thinking of 'asking her out' by texting like, "Hey, let's watch ... movie some day..." and see what goes on. Would it work? Is it too late? But looking at her talking to him and his friends about the bowling plan - somehow it rather stops me from chasing her? It seems that she talks to him more and more interested - but she doesn't seem to want to spend more time with him! But, besides the moment when he starts a conversation, she doesn't seem interested in him. Does she like him or a 'just friends'?

2007-09-13 19:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2

I tend to attract them at my work (which is, at a bank). But I am very aware of their status and don't flirt with them. I am in my twenties and look younger than my age (baby-faced to say the least). I am not interested in dating them at all! One of them even asked me for my phone number (which I refused to give him), and after he realized I found out he was married, he began to act angrily everytime he came into the bank, even sitting down at an empty employee's desk before getting up and storming out. Does being vulnerable-looking attract these types?

2007-09-13 19:16:42 · 14 answers · asked by purringout 3

I like this guy whos kinda like the big man on campus at my highschool. He wants to hang out but hes kinda full of himself so I want to play hard to get to make him want me more. How do I do that ?

2007-09-13 19:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't get what is going on! My boyfriend of 6 months did me wrong last weekend. He said he would call me and didn't. I called him and tried to make plans for the next day and he never answered my text until the next night when he wanted to hang out. But because my reply wasn't prompt he said "maybe next week." I was mad but didnt say anything. I was trying to figure out how I was going to handle it. Then Monday at work he shows up sick. I was already mad so I wasn't very nice to him. I wasn't really mean, either. He went home sick and I haven't heard from him until about 30 mins ago. I sent a text at 9 to ask if he was better and at 1:30 he says he's better, thanks for asking.

What is the deal? Is he done with me or what? I feel so hurt by him. I've put so much effort into our relationship and he treats me life this? I don't know what to do. Any help???

2007-09-13 19:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by sweetie_cakes 2

ok, like I said I knew he didn't want to be in a relationship but he treated me like his girlfriend. He would invite me over for dinner, I met his moms side of the family, he would hold my hand and kiss me in front of his parents and would invite me to baseball games with him and his family...anyway I figured he changed his mind and realized that he wanted to be with me. But then he all of a sudden changed his mind and only called me periodically a few times a week and stopped inviting me over. He said he wanted to take things slow and stuff...after I thought it was over for good after not hearing from him in 2 weeks and not seeing him for a month he calls me tonight and leaves me a message about missing me and that he's been thinking of me all week and his phone getting disconnected. I just want to know why he's back. I wasn't being clingy, I just feel like he led me to believe that the relationship was more than it was. what should I do now?

2007-09-13 18:39:50 · 1 answers · asked by Summer 2

Currently at the job I am at I can barely afford a car. But I want to pay off my debts 100% and get my next raise before I buy a car. So for about 6 months I will ride the bus to work. The bus to work doesn't bother me, and it is a minor inconvience not to drive around myself because my friends have cars.

But dating is another situation. I can't do much exciting on dates because I am taking taxis to get around, and long trips are impossible. I could date someone with a car, but I like to drive as the man.

This question is for women, would you work around your boyfriend being car-less, or am I just too much of a loser?

2007-09-13 18:37:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

On im less then a year ago we were both talking about bf/gfs, what we would like in a particular person, etc. I really like him and need tips to see if he likes me back. I talk to him regularly on im, but i still need to know, without getting hurt if he says "no".

2007-09-13 18:25:08 · 7 answers · asked by A person... 2

It hurts!! He said he loved me. One day it happened after only a few weeks of dating him. When I was sitting right there, he stared at a pretty blonde in the sunlight the same way he stared at me the first time he saw me. He stared at other girls all the time. One time at the mall, I noticed a girl walking by who looked flattered and was smiling at him because he was looking PAST me and watching her!!! Men with chivalry and women who don't tolerate this, please comment!! I need to remind myself why I broke up with him...

2007-09-13 18:18:17 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 6

ok long story short I had been seeing this guy who I knew was emotionally unavailable lol aka didn't want to be in a relationship and even though I am looking for a relationship right now I went for it anyway. He told me not to get attached to him and stuff like that after about a month and it hurt me a lot. So he said he wanted to take it slow, he would call me every other day for about a week and then he slowly stopped calling. I called him once and he never called me back after that. I thought that was it, it was over, and he had just used me and didn't want to talk to me ever again. Well just a few minutes ago, after 2 weeks of not talking to him and a month without seeing him he called me and left me a message saying that he's been thinking about me all week and something was wrong with his phone...blah blah blah. He's calling me back tomorrow what should I do? What do you think he wants?

2007-09-13 18:01:53 · 20 answers · asked by Summer 2

I ve been with my girlfriend for a little ove a year and i think shes is very interesting and loving person. when i met her, her exs were always callin her on her phone trying to get back with her a few months ago she got a new phone and number and her exs call her on that phone too. I ask her why she feels she need to talk with them and basically what she said she was trying to make them feel guilty for cheating on her. She talks to other guys she messed with wh o treated her very very bad an she talks to them too. she also has a private myspace where she wont add me but i know she has most of her exs as friends cuz i seen her on their page. ive been asked to stop but she dont and i know if me exs were callin and i talked to them she get all mad i dont have no girls who are friends. .Anyways im a good bf and im tired of this all i ask is that she dont talk to her exs wat should i do and plz yall dnt give me no **** about how there is no ring on her finger and she can talk to whoever

2007-09-13 17:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-13 17:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I'm a student at the University of Ottawa and I have never done a drug and only get drunk every once in a while...I'm very optimistic and I'm planning on attending law school. When I do party I have alot of fun..I love watching hockey and even playing sports...I run cross-country too... Now would guys typically be more interested in me or a rebel?

2007-09-13 17:42:04 · 15 answers · asked by Kristeen 1

Look, i dont care how old i am, like many of you will most likely say "youre too young to think that" and the truth is i dont care.

But im all paranoid right now because of my girlfriend. I mean she changed my life....she changed it drastically for the better....
And i dont know what id do without her, i feel lost just thinking about losing her.

to you this is just gonna sound stupid and unmeaningful, but to me,, im sitting here putting emotion into it just so it can be passed and never read.

But recently somethings happened, and some dude has come between me and my girlfriend, i dont get to talk to her half as much as i used too, and when we do talk its like shes different.

I fell in love with this girl and our official anniversary just passed, but i cant help but feel im losing her.

I was the bigger man and decided to step down and let her choose whats right because thats all i want.....i want HER to be happy no matter what

My Q is....Whats going to happen? with us

2007-09-13 17:41:57 · 26 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4

Or is it just the thought that they may do all of the cooking?

2007-09-13 17:37:31 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous