Singles & Dating - 13 September 2007

I find my self constantly caring what people think of me, and even when derogatory comments are not directed at me exactly, like one about americans or whites, I find myself dwelling on it making absolute sure that I know its not true and people don't think that about me, its gotten to the point that I don't like talking to anyone except my fiance and I don't like going out at all, and I will be starting college soon so I really want to find a way to get past this.


Sometimes I don't even want to check my email or youtube because im just so worried some one will have said something mean and ill have to dwell on it for 2 days.


Also whenever I find myself in a verbal confrontation, I very quickly try to avoid an argument by making it a physical confrontation. I feel much more confortable with physically intimidating some one into leaving me alone than having them insult me and shake my confidence.


I really just want to stop caring what people think, what should I do?

2007-09-13 10:53:58 · 1 answers · asked by morgan m 2

I like one of my guy friends and i think i'd like him to go with me to our high school's homecoming dance. Any advice?

2007-09-13 10:52:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I figure one way not to be crushed by love is to not fall in love and that can be accomplished by being alone, but being alone is also undesirable. I just want to know is it ok to have a few female friends that u can consider potential girl friends if you are talking to one and she just drops you like its nothing. I mean its nothing worse than having someone mean the world to you and then finding out that you mean nothing to him/her.

2007-09-13 10:49:34 · 1 answers · asked by Ronell B 1

He's 26, I just turned 18 yesterday.
He's a famous tattoo artist. I'm an accountant.
We're together for 3 months already.
He doesnt call me at all?
He doesnt text me at all?
when i probed him, he said he was really busy and keeps apologizing.
We meet once a week? i would stay-over at his place.
He works in the day, has lion dance in the night.
Totally no time for me.
But what i dont get is, not even the time to text me!
He doesnt have any other Gfs.
What is he thinking?

2007-09-13 10:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

are there any shoes that girls are more likely to kick guys in the balls with? If so, which ones? How hard would you kick a guy if you were real mad?

Do you have any funny stories?

2007-09-13 10:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used to like this guy but it never worked out.. we we're freshmen last year & both shy and never really talked.. but now im over him and kinda starting to like someone else.

now its a new year!!!! anyway the new guy i like is a freshman (im now a sophomore). and i have one class with him, uumm i was at the sotre like last week and he wa sthere too and he kept looking at me an dsometimes he would be in the same isle as me.. he also looks at me when i pass by him in the hallway..


btw we have a school dance tomorrow but idk if hes going.

so the question is, should i go for it, i dont want it to end up like it did last time with the other guy.

2007-09-13 10:12:55 · 46 answers · asked by umm hey 1

I wasn't single last year at college (but have been for 6 months now) and this guy would playfully tease me about being in a certain place all the time. College has started back and the first coupla days he kept making eye contact and giving me a funny look/smile. I started commenting him on myspace and he was replying back immediately, and sent me a picture/gift thing on my page and said he took ages to pick it etc. but he has now stopped but still comes online?
At college he never makes eye contact now and is more quieter than usual (he was usually always joking around) but still playfully teases a bit and i caught him looking over from the far side of the room at me then he looked away quickly and he was looking over at break the other day....
Does it sound like he likes me? He's not shy so i don't get why he's kinda 'avoiding' looking at me when i pass etc
What can i do? I'm not gona comment him again incase i seem desperate....

2007-09-13 10:09:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are your expectation towards her? What she should/shouldn't do?

2007-09-13 09:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by ann3lizz 3

ok, so homecoming is coming up...again...and i am so far dateless...again...how do i go about working harder to find a date??? i know...you dont need a date to have a good time...blah, blah, blah...but i want a date...and i am going whether i find one or not...but i want one...and so background on me...im not hideous (at least i hope not)...but its not like im a walking goddess or anything...and ppl do tell me im pretty occasionally...and not just my parents...im not a fat person or anything (not to sound rude)...in fact im pretty dang petite...im not a social reget, but im not exactly a member of the "in crowd" either (i dont exactly want to be)...i hope i have a good personality...some ppl tell me i can get annoying...but i do have friends that like me for who i am and all...what am i doing wrong? an how can i try harder?

2007-09-13 09:53:49 · 28 answers · asked by solemlyswearimup2nogood 2

Is Five months a long time to wait for someone?
I have been going out with this girl for the same amount of time 5 months and we have both said we wanted this long distance to work.
I think there is an added factor and that is I Love this girl and mean it and she in return can only like me a lot.
do i wait for her or is this too much for one person?
She has a guy who texts her a lot from back home (writing flirty messages)and i am worried she might be wanting him back even though she told me she has no more feelings for this guy. I asked her to let this guy know that i'm her boyfriend but this is hard for me. Would a girl actually want two relationships at once? i told her if that was the case to break it off with me and she said she did not want that. What could i do or ask her to find the truth?

2007-09-13 09:53:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i am 23 and never been on a date. the same thing always happens to me with girl. I will meet them some how it starts with just friendly chatting then she will start to get more flirtly with it. After awhile i will ask the girl out to dinner and a movie, I again have never been on a date so dont know any better ideas. They never say no they will say sure but then cancel on me at the last minute. Then i will see them again, not bring it out but they will still flirt and hint at going out. then when i ask again they will say they have plans that night. I then think that they are just really busy and dont have time. I am a nice friendly guy we will be talking on the phone through out all of this and then they will just stop answering their phone. Now my question do i always fell for this ****. is it my fault, are they just jerks. i try to get insight from my female friends and they all dont know why I am single.

2007-09-13 09:50:49 · 1 answers · asked by Jon G 7

because they always say no

2007-09-13 09:50:19 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I WOULD LIKE TO KNO

2007-09-13 09:49:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just asked this question, but only got one answer. Would you go out with a girl who was 15 to 20 pounds overweight if you knew she was nice and fun to be around?

2007-09-13 09:47:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you date a woman, are you affectionate by showing her you like/love her by wanting to kiss, cuddle, hold hands. When do you show that affection right away or wait or being affection is not really your thing? If being affectionate is not your thing and you dislike getting mushy, how come?

2007-09-13 09:46:46 · 10 answers · asked by guardianangel2008 1

There are tons of females who have noticeable dark facial hair. When it comes to mustaches on a girl, do you guys care?

I have some and I'm dark-haired so it's noticeable, without a doubt. They're not thick hairs, though. I think of taking it off sometime, but I think a guy shouldn't care about that kinda stuff.

So, what's the deal?

2007-09-13 09:42:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met a guy 3 years ago got to know him and know I've fallen in love with him, the thing is we're not together and never have been, I'm not very experience in relationships it's been 11 going on 12 years since I last had a boyfriend, I don't know how to act around him and seem confident bcause I'm not I'm soo scared of mucking things up . it's been three years and I don't know what to do say or think anymore, i feel depressed and tired emotionaly. I don't know why he'd ever want me because I'm not like all his gfs he's had in the past, we love the same things and just seem to connect, i don't know what to do, please help me!

2007-09-13 09:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4

I've tried everything!! I've tried accidently bumping him in the hallways, saying hi!! Everything i think of doesn't work!! I don't know why i can't get this guy to notice me!! I feel as though i'm invisible or something!! All my friends talk about their boyfriends and for once i'd like to know what it feels like!! I've never had a boyfriend!! I've been on one date in my life!! So please help me!! Thanks!!

2007-09-13 09:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can never seem to last a long time w. a boyfriend. I recently just got dumped and a couple weeks ago me and another boy ended it. I can never seem to stay w/ one boy for a long time. which is wat i want the most. I get mad sorta easily but i cant help it. i have a lot of anger in me and i somtimes end up geting mad over stupied things. what can i do to end this misery and have a long relationship??

2007-09-13 09:38:48 · 36 answers · asked by Kelli 2

i know this doesn't apply to everyone but some women are so cruel breaking a heart because theyare bored or laughing at men who try hard to impress them, and why do men cheat and lie? i mean some people always blame the opposite sex. not interested in ignorant answers like all Men are pigs or all women are dumb because we all know thats not true/, i am curious as to any theories, i believe it is all how people are raised.

2007-09-13 09:37:06 · 4 answers · asked by lost 2

So...i think the best way people can give me a an answer is if i explain the situation. I met some guy when i was a freshman and he was a junior. Now, three years later...he's back in school because he still hasn't graduated. He's been involved in a lot of deep stuff(drugs, drinking, cops, etc) But now he's got himself cleaned up(that's what he says) He say;s he likes me and i like him too. But not enough to date him. I would rather stay friends. How do i make him understand that without hurting him?

2007-09-13 09:32:55 · 20 answers · asked by ღAmorღ 2

We would never most likely be in a relationship, he's too much of a player for that. But he always makes me feel soo sexy!!! Like one time he grabbed me by the waist at a football game and told me he loved me in front of a bunch of his girl friends. Seriously his hands were all over me. We both are in cross country and track, so thats how we know eachother. So do you think I should ask him??????

2007-09-13 09:19:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what am i supposed to think about that ?.......am i just being insucure?.........y would he do that?

2007-09-13 09:18:38 · 8 answers · asked by greeneyedphsyco 2

You don't have to do anything or any planning or trying to be somebody you are not.

2007-09-13 09:18:10 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 14 year old girl and i really want a boyfriend but i just dont seem to have guys looking at me or anything

2007-09-13 09:16:03 · 11 answers · asked by xrainxdansrxoox 4

A guy in his 30s or 40s...

2007-09-13 09:10:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

On the Yahoo homepage there is an article (Called "Giving up on love") about a woman who never gets asked out. I'm curious to know how many women find themselves in this situation? It is not unusual for men, of course, because men are typically expected to do the asking, so if they are too shy to ask, then they're out of luck. I was a shy man for the first 30 years of my life, so I know what it's like to be socially invisible. But I have the impression that for women the problem tends to be somewhat different. That "finding a guy" is not such a problem, but "finding a GOOD guy" – someone you would really want to spend much time with, can be an seemingly impossible task. I appreciate any enlightenment that anyone can offer on this. Am I just way off base? Also, women, how would you like men to express interest in you? Any tips on how a man can avoid being annoying, while still somehow letting you know that he is attracted to you and would like to spend time with you?

2007-09-13 09:07:56 · 10 answers · asked by eroticohio 5

pretty serious and i liked him a lot and he was very sweet and loving - though his flaw was that he was always talking about how his parents divorced really messed him up and how his relationship with them is terrible and how he felt they've neglected him (he obviously has a lot of psych issues - but i still liked him a lot, because i found that we connected on various levels and he treated me well). At the end of the summer, i was leaving to go away to school - he didn't come see me before i left. i felt hurt - i emailed him later to act like i didn't care (Even tho i did) and he got upset at me for seeming so careless. then i wrote back and said "i actually do care and im upset you didn't come see me". he didn't respond back until a month later, in which he asked me how things at school were going and that he missed me (he didn't mention the fight). i miss him a lot and wanna be with him but i don't want him to feel like he can take advantage of me. i wanna make him go crazy for me.

2007-09-13 09:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like someone who returns my feelings in the same manner. He just recently moved away for college and we only had one date. We keep in touch and talk almost every day. Nothing in our feelings has changed. I recognize the pressures and challenges a long distance relationship can bring. Nevertheless, I think we could both handle it.
We are both very shy about bringing up anything concerning ourselves (as in relationship subjects). He is someone I can completely trust because I've known him for a few years and can trust his character. I'm shy and worried about bringing up the subject because I had a previous bad experience with someone else. How can I bring up the question of whether we are in an actual relationship or not? Should I just be direct and take the risk or just let things continue as they are, with no other reason but that uncertainty to complain of?

2007-09-13 09:03:02 · 1 answers · asked by P 2

I haven't had sex for nine months now. But I saw a handsome guy about 6months ago and I can't seem to get him out of my head. Everytime I think of dating or having sex I think of him. I would like to think that I genuinely like him but maybe I am starving for sex.

2007-09-13 09:01:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous