Singles & Dating - 13 September 2007

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I met this girl and we really hit it off, did loads of fun things together for 3 weeks but then she moved away. She came back to pick up some stuff&stayed with me.I asked her if we could be together properly,but she seemed funny about it even though we'd been sleeping together, said she was bad at talking about things.Eventually she agreed and we been together 2 months now. But last week we were going2sleep &she suffered a panic attack, said it was brought on by something i did but wouldn't tell me what. She also said that she has made the mistake in the past of getting together with people out of guilt, because they pressured her.
Then again, 2day she text me saying she's frightened of actually liking me. What the hell is going on? What should I do?

2007-09-13 08:59:13 · 36 answers · asked by Robert M 1

ok, so im super confused, theres this guy at work, who i think likes me,but im not too sure. at days hes always teasing me, and to make me jealous he tells he how he was talking to "hot babes" al day. when he sees that i get mad or ignore him, he replies, "im just kidding u kno that ur the only girl i like". but that thing he, he flirts, teases me, calls me names, and its hard for me to know if he's serious. i made fun of him, and he replied, "u kno u think im cute'. so, wats the deal ,does he like me? why hasnt he asked me out yet. (i usually flirt back, or call im names, we're very immature).

2007-09-13 08:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend used to be a complete player. Never dated girls, just used them for (yeah, this sounds HORRIBLE) sex & money... I think he needs to feel wanted by girls, and he talks to other girls a lot, and I let him. Is it wrong for him to flirt with other girls, as long as its not physical? Am I stupid for letting him do this? Or is it letting him be himself enough that he'll remain faithful to me but still fulfill his need to feel wanted? I know he's not just using me, cuz I don't buy him things, and he could have sex with anyone, there would be no reason for him to stay with me instead of just being with a few girls and not have to deal with the issues of having a girlfriend. I've met his family and he says he wants to marry me and have kids with me. Do I continue to trust him and let him flirt and call other girls or do I put a stop to it? Will he be driven to cheat if he doesn't feel desired by other girls, or will it make him remain faithful?? Thanks for your help!!!!

2007-09-13 08:48:31 · 1 answers · asked by LP 1

If you liked a girl, but she had a boyfrirend, would you stop flirting with her if her boyfriend called you and told you to? If you knew that her boyfriend could most definitely beat you up? But there's a catch...would you still stop if he went to a different school and you never saw him? Cause I'm tempted to get my boyfriend to call this guy if it'll stop the flirting.

2007-09-13 08:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

met a girl 2 weeks ago or so. we've hung out 3-4 times so far. she's single.

1) asked me if i was single the first time we hung out

2) often gets changed and puts on make-up before we go out together, even if it's spur of the moment.

3) seems comfortable around me, but doesn't tell me about other guys ever.

4) told her friend, very near me, she wanted a "long term relationship" and teasingly accused me of eavesdropping.

5) friday night, she went out with me even though i asked her just a few minutes in advance. we didn't do anything, but i put my hand on her shoulder several times and she never pulled away. sits very close too.

6) also last night, asked if i thought she was "crazy," because she's kind of hyper/scatterbrained sometimes.

not sure if she wants a friend or more. what do you think

2007-09-13 08:43:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

A lot of people on here say they hated their teenage days. I actually miss my teenage days - maybe it's because I've never had a girlfriend. Is it strange that I'm feeling like this?

2007-09-13 08:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by entertainment fan 7

im going on my second date with my gf and we have been talking about doing stuff...yea, and im kinda nerveous cuz i never really done stuff to a girl, but im actually excited yet nerveous, we will be going some quiet, we'r not having sex btw XD
but is there any suggestions on stuff i could do to really please her or anything like that :/ any advice will be nice...thnx

2007-09-13 08:40:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

plzzzzz help me.....tomorow i will go to the mall and i want to have girlfreind ..........and im ......little........shy

so what to do plzz help me and thanx

2007-09-13 08:33:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-13 08:32:02 · 10 answers · asked by TRUTH 1

Say you've been married for a while, and with the kids and both of your careers (meaning no time, or energy), does your sex drive diminish? Do you think about it less if you don't get it??? Or is it on your mind more?

2007-09-13 08:31:06 · 7 answers · asked by annonymous 1

2007-09-13 08:30:20 · 3 answers · asked by Sandy 3

2007-09-13 08:24:43 · 10 answers · asked by Lizbiz333 2

He is cute and single. The only thing I'm worried about is he may be gay! That's my only explanation for why he's single and I want to let him know I'm interested but how! Please help me. I'm not used to asking people out esp. my dr.

2007-09-13 08:24:29 · 19 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

Why do they go all keen on you, persuade you to go out with them and then suddenly stop treating you well once you agree?
Why do they patronise you in front of your friends?
Why are they sometimes really sweet and nice and then other times totally weird and distant?
And how the hell can you tell, amongst all this weird behaviour, if they actually have any genuine feeling for you?
Are there any men who can actually articulate an emotion?
Arghhhhhhh!

2007-09-13 08:16:48 · 38 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

2007-09-13 08:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started liking this one guy at school and i told my friend that i think that he is cute and she knows since 1st grade. she wants to hook us up but i don't really think that is a good idea cuz i want to get to know him better. this week my friend kinda made it obvious to him that i liked him by playing basketball with him and telling him that he was going to bring someone else to play with....me. but i didn't go. he is usually lonely and sometimes with 2 of his friends which are girls. i think he might like one of them. my friend asked him if he liked anyone and he said no. Before my friend made it obvious to him that i liked him he will always be staring at me in p.e. like i would have be having a good time with my friends laughing and then i look up and he is staring at me just smiling and he also does that when i enter school. At lunch i am with my friends and then i see him by us later with his 2 friends and he sometimes smiles at me. how can i be really sure he likes me?

2007-09-13 08:04:49 · 3 answers · asked by .:::.<3 Rosie<3.:::. 2

2007-09-13 08:04:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

O.k as you can see i'm african american and there is this cacusian girl at my school that i have lunch with on certain days. i know where her locker and stuff like that. We talked a couple times and things like that. just havent asked for her number just yet how long should i wait to do this. but the real reason that this paragraph has come up is that my some of my friends are african american and just the other day one of my friends came up to me and said you like that white girl so i'm like o.k thats rude so i said yeah and she walked off. so i catch back up with her and i say what was that all about but still no answer. should i forget about my friends for that one girl that i'm tripping over. or stick with the crew

2007-09-13 08:03:20 · 28 answers · asked by I EAT M&M'S#18 YUMMY 3

2007-09-13 08:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by нαωαιιαи ιcє♥ 2

2007-09-13 07:54:13 · 32 answers · asked by marie 2

My boyfriend and I used to always hang out and do things together. But since we have lived together for 1 year, I guess he needs to hang out with his friends more. But the thing is that when he does, he always comes home at 4 am drunk. Do you think that if a guy is serious about a relationship, he wouldn't have to act like he is still in college (he just turned 27 this month)? I need a guy's perspective on this....

2007-09-13 07:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Mary 1

Do men ever initiate relationships with girls when they're not particularly interested in them emotionally? If so, why?

2007-09-13 07:37:23 · 19 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

I started seeing this guy who I feel in love with. I had a bad day at work one day. I call him told him i quit my job and i was going to the bar to get drunk. Keep in mind this is a long distance relationship. We have been seing each other for 5 years. Any way I met up with a old friend at the bar and the rest is history. I told him i had sex with a old friend. Do you think I should have told him. Now he is mad me. Which I understand but, should i throw away 5 years over 1 night.

2007-09-13 07:30:11 · 1 answers · asked by GIN&SIN 1

2007-09-13 07:25:40 · 12 answers · asked by Savanna 6

I think highly of myself but the other day i approaced the guy that i had been hangin with and he told me he would never date me cause i was cuban. He told me i was drop dead gorgeous but just couldnt do it cause i was cuban! this weirded me out alot because one i wasnt trying to date him we are just friends and two what do you think he means by this?
hes not raciast

2007-09-13 07:17:44 · 5 answers · asked by SWEETONE 1

He works but I seem to pay for EVERYTHING while I am raising my son (not his). Just know it will crush him. Need some advice.

2007-09-13 07:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by suzi J 1

I have found that men say they prefer a certain quality but when it comes to actually chosing..they go for the total opposite....now what is it
blonde or brunette?
another question
long hair or short hair?

2007-09-13 07:02:34 · 56 answers · asked by red_klinik 2

Kissing keeps the heart young.*

2007-09-13 06:58:45 · 1 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

All of a sudden he thinks I'm cheating on him with his friend. When only a month ago he was comfortable with us being friends. He's been living out of town for a couple of months now and he's been acting jelouse, which has never happened in the past 6 years or so. Is he cheating on me?

2007-09-13 06:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by jibber_x 2

I've always had that fear. Instead of asking out the women that I find attractive, I wait until I know a women is attracted to me, and ask them out.
I do know most of it is the thought of being rejected. I'm usually quick witted and fun, but get tounge tied and quiet when it comes to the women I would like to take out

2007-09-13 06:39:17 · 2 answers · asked by david 4