plzzzzz help me.....tomorow i will go to the mall and i want to have girlfreind ..........and im ......little........shy
so what to do plzz help me and thanx
2007-09-13 08:33:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the mall is not the best place to meet girls they giggle and play, as well as flirt at the mall but normally they are not looking for anyone serious. If you want a girl friend you need to look at the places you are most at home, if its sports, the gym, a chess club or church you will have the best time with someone you share something in common with.
If you have a group of friends that you normally hang out with you should look among them for a girl friend.
2007-09-13 08:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mall is maybe not the best place to meet someone that can potentially become your girlfriend. It depends though, maybe going with a group of friends is a better idea.
Shyness is not a problem. Depending on the girl, it could be a good factor. Nevertheless, push yourself to pay a simple compliment. That can work wonders. Just be yourself, that is the most important part. When you meet someone new, try to get to know her. Ask her questions about her interests etc. Approach it as if you were to a friend and put aside that fact that you are shy or that you are looking for a relationship. Focus on enjoying the moment getting to know this new person. Take it slowly and build up your confidence by only saying or doing what you keeps your comfortable. It's a step by step process, but you can do it!
2007-09-13 08:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girl's point of view, be yourself, and if u see someone u think is amazing, go for it! Start a conversation, but don't ask her for too much personal information at first. Compliment her. If you see her smiling and laughing, and playing with her hair and jewelry a lot, and its genuine, you'll know that she's into you. When its time to go, and you want to see more of her, be clever, say something like "I don't think i have ur number." or just be simple and say, "can I get ur digits (number) " or "I'll call u" and she'll give u her number. If she doesn't, don't be dscouraged, giv her ur number. That's usually a surprise for most girls. And if she asks you for ur number first, then its a good sign, a girl making the first move, always signals that she's outgoing and not afraid to ask a guy out.
I hope u get what u need!
2007-09-13 08:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by The Girl With Kaleidoscope Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy or not should have nothing to do with getting a girlfriend. If you are trying to meet a girl going to the mall that is great... but try to be realistic that you won't get a girlfriend just by talking to a girl once at the mall.
If you already have a specific girl in mind that will be at the mall that is more likely possible (if she knows you will be there to talk to her or meet her), but don't expect her to fall for you just because you talk to her.
I was a shy girl... and I always liked the phone. I would suggest getting a girls number and talking to her on the phone for awhile before asking her to be your girlfriend.
Be yourself and have fun... don't expect a girlfriend over night.
2007-09-13 08:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by crissygirly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a girlfreidn is not that easy lol. In my experience a bf is hard to find especially a good one. Dont just go there to meet girls cause that will make them feel kind of wierd. Also when you talk to a girl act your self. Dont give any dumb lines. I am also shy when it conmes to guys and I have to push my self to talk to them some guys are easier to talk to then others and thats the same with girls.
2007-09-13 08:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mall is a stupid place to meet girls, at least the ones that hang out there. Very shallow. But if you are under 16, go for it. Introduce yourself and talk about school, sports. Ask questions...don't worry about trying to talk about yourself. Let them ask you questions too.
2007-09-13 08:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, before you get a girlfriend, might I suggest asking one out on a date first. (Or 2 or 3) A girlfriend comes after going out on multiple dates that go really well. The best pick up line is "Hi, my name is..., what's your name?" If that doesn't work, try it again. Most girls just like it when guys notice them and try to get to know them.
2007-09-13 08:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Christopher B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over your shyness, don't think about getting a girlfriend. That's too much pressure. Just think about finding some girls, and being friends with them. Then after a while, if you start to develop romantic feelings for one of them, make your move. You have to be friends FIRST before she will be a GIRLFRIEND.
2007-09-13 08:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man be your self. If you put on an air to get a girl you will have to keep it up. You don't want to do that. Look nice, always be a gentleman. You will draw them. Good Luck. Oops! don't stir at the girls that will turn them off
2007-09-13 08:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by askme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You expect a girlfriend by tomorrow? LMAO!!!!! lol, ok just be yourself, and don't go for girls that are in groups!! We tend to attack. . . . If needed. . . . . . . Oh and don't go to the mall looking for a girl! We don't like to be bothered while shopping. Go to a popular place, like a park or something, idfk
2007-09-13 08:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋