Do men ever initiate relationships with girls when they're not particularly interested in them emotionally? If so, why?
2007-09-13 07:37:23 · 19 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like some bitter women on here.
But from a guys point of view its not always about sex. In fact, if you would make the guy WAIT for sex after initiating the relationship you would be able to tell if he's really able to be committed to you emotionally before you commit to him physically.
I personally start relationships because when I find a girl that is able to RELATE with me, understand where I'm coming from, is able to bring out a side of me that I don't often show with other women, and whom I can treat like a FRIEND as well as a girlfriend, then thats a big plus for me.
A lot of guys might not know where you are coming from. They don't want to put themselves out there because they don't want to be rejected. Guys hate being rejected. It's like getting kicked in the balls. So instead of getting rejected, we wait for the women to make the first step. If sex is your first step, I guarantee you the guy will lose respect for you. The first step would be to relate to him, do something he likes, talk about something that he enjoys, let him know you are there but do not smother him. If he is truly interested in you, he'll have his own stupid way of letting you know.
2007-09-13 07:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons for me would be that I find myself immediately attracted to the girl physically and mentally. Those 2 are priority. Obviously, with time.. you develop the emotional bond that ultimately becomes stronger than the physical or mental one, but that's not the question you asked so.. there you have it.
As for wether men initiate relationships with girls when they're not interested in them emotionally, the answer is clearly a yes. It happens ALL the time. I'm sure there are thousands of pros and cons to this, but at the end of the day it just depends on the type of guy or girl that are in this relationship and wether they're ok with being in a emotionally void relationship. Some actually prefer this..case in point why there are so many "no strings attached" or "open" relationships nowadays. I prefer to be old fashioned in this case.. I want all the perks from being in a fully commited relationship with a beautiful woman inside and out.
2007-09-13 07:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sicilianguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... Alot of different reasons but here's some ,
1.Lonely
2.haven't had sex on a regular bases for a while
3.nice to have someone in your life that loves you, even if you don't
4. weather starts to get cold or holidays are coming
5. this one is women's fault.lol woman seem to always notice
a man in a relationship before noticing the single guys.
I could see why, the man in a relationship in a club is around his woman and her girl friends, maybe out dancing and having fun , but the single guy is against the wall trying to look cool.
So he knows he has a better chance at meeting a girl if he's in a relationship.
6. New to town and don't know anyone.
7. Have no money and looking to free load.
There's some reasons... Ya that's men for ya.lol
2007-09-13 07:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main reason a men wants a relationship is to get stability in his life. You can say its mental and physical both. If a men is not interested in a girl and still wants a relationship, its purely physical or you can say he wants to get laid on a continuous basis...lol.....Personally i would rather date a girl to get laid rather than start a relationship...that too a serious one.
2007-09-13 07:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, a lot of guys do this as the physical attraction is great, so they go from there and see later if the girl is nice inside.Girls just see things differently and seek more from the guy then physical, they seek personality first,most of the time.
2007-09-13 07:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by sameasyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in "that scene" I had to at least enjoy hanging out with them, a couple things in common was nice... But, without a spark I never went for a full relationship, I stuck to the dreaded, "just friends" lines...
2007-09-13 07:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reasons women want to start a relationship with a guy. Saying guys just do it for sex is being stereotypical.
2007-09-13 07:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never "wanted" to start a relationship, they just happened. I never looked for a girl, they just popped up and at my age, I even had an old girlfriend come and see me after 22 years. I think we are going to get married now. (Wow, that last line was tough for me to type).
2007-09-13 07:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you get int different types of relationships with men? men are not so much different than women when it comes to relationships. we have the same reasons but not the same order.
2007-09-13 07:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on the age factor.. if you are in your 20's.. just enjoy dating. I have been seeing this issues a lot.. they get out of high school and collage and want to settle down. not enjoying there time in there 20's.
2007-09-13 07:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋