If you liked a girl, but she had a boyfrirend, would you stop flirting with her if her boyfriend called you and told you to? If you knew that her boyfriend could most definitely beat you up? But there's a catch...would you still stop if he went to a different school and you never saw him? Cause I'm tempted to get my boyfriend to call this guy if it'll stop the flirting.
2007-09-13 08:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows I don't like him and that I've got a boyfriend. I made it very clear.
2007-09-13 08:53:53 · update #1
And I don't flirt back. I ignore him as much as I can.
2007-09-13 08:54:31 · update #2
Ok look. There's not going to be any violence. I'm just saying that my boyfriend's very intimidating, but he wouldn't actually resort to beating him up unless I ask, and I won't. And he's not getting the green light from me at all! I'm nice enough when I absolutely have to talk to him, and otherwise, I ignore him. I also talked to him online and said that I didn't like him like that at all.
2007-09-13 09:03:52 · update #3
I would stop, but a normal guy might not.
If the guy is respectful, he'll stop.
If he doesn't, then just ignore him.
But please, don't let a simple thing like flirting end up with violence between this guy and your bf. There's no need to result to that.
2007-09-13 08:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jewish FiLiPiNo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy again to stay away from you. If that doesn't work (assuming it is happening at school), tell the principal. If that doesn't work, you tell your parents. If that doesn't work, get a restraining order (if all the other ideas have been tried and failed).
Don't get your boyfriend involved- it will just complicate your relationship with your boyfriend. It will make you seem like a high maintenance girl who can't deal with problems herself and will always be looking to him to solve them for her.
Best wishes.
2007-09-13 16:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive made the phone call it didnt help,
why dont you just tell him to f off and talk some crap.
if your liking it but your boyfriend doesnt why is he gonna stop trying to flirt with you. hes getting the green light from the person that matters
2007-09-13 15:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if you didnt tell the guy that's flirting with you that you have a boyfriend you need to inform him. Second if he continues to persue you, you need to let him know that your a women and there's a certain type of respect you deserve. and if he cant respect that your in a relationship. then get your boyfriend on him......just kidding. Let him know that he makes you feel uncomfortable.
2007-09-13 16:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by new2nyc27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to go through life if you constantly solve your problems through violence?
And to answer your question, I wouldn't stop if your d**chebag boyfriend called me. That is some BS. Why don't you stop talking to the guy instead of leading him on? Usually when girls don't like someone, they stop talking to them. That's how we know they aren't interested.
2007-09-13 15:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by ra.osiris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just tell the guy to stop???? and saying "oh I have a boyfriend but know one knows him because he goes to a different school" really makes people think its a fake boyfriend especially if he can most definitely beat everyone up
2007-09-13 15:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by renegadechef9_0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop if she told me to stop in a reasonable manner. Sorry, I know you said guys but I like to flirt with girls, too, when I am single.
2007-09-13 15:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by sd_mex_chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol there is no need calling ur bf... just shut him out and then later he'd loose all hope... dont try to give him any reason to push on.. even the slightest thing would mean a lot to someone who likes u.. a smile for them could mean that ur interesed and just playing hard to get to be bold and straight
2007-09-13 15:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by striker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you need your boyfriend to be the one to tell him to stop. tell him yourself. if he continues to do it then just ignore him and don't flirt back. if he doesn't get a positive reaction from you he'll realize it and move on to the next girl. just don't give him the reaction he's looking for and he'll stop. don't act helpless just because you're a girl. if you want him to stop bad enough, you can do it yourself.
2007-09-13 15:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd lay off the flirting. I wouldn't flirt with her if she was taken anyway.
2007-09-13 15:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋