met a girl 2 weeks ago or so. we've hung out 3-4 times so far. she's single.
1) asked me if i was single the first time we hung out
2) often gets changed and puts on make-up before we go out together, even if it's spur of the moment.
3) seems comfortable around me, but doesn't tell me about other guys ever.
4) told her friend, very near me, she wanted a "long term relationship" and teasingly accused me of eavesdropping.
5) friday night, she went out with me even though i asked her just a few minutes in advance. we didn't do anything, but i put my hand on her shoulder several times and she never pulled away. sits very close too.
6) also last night, asked if i thought she was "crazy," because she's kind of hyper/scatterbrained sometimes.
not sure if she wants a friend or more. what do you think
2007-09-13 08:43:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
can you explain why you say yes or no? best reasoning gets best answer, and 10 points.
2007-09-13 08:49:32 · update #1
I think she likes you and even though you didn't ask, I'm going to give you my advice on what I think you should do next, haha.
To find out for sure, be brave and make a move that can't be thought of as ambiguous. If you normally "hang out" ask her on a date, don't call it a date, but she'll get it if you ask her a few days in advance, pick her up take her to a decent place for dinner and pay, oh and open doors. Then, since she's already comfortable with you and you've hung out a couple times, I don't think trying for a kiss at the end of the date would be a bad thing. Good luck (but like I said, I don't think you'll need it because I think she likes you!)
2007-09-13 08:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by graybear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah dude, she's throwing mad hints at you. The next time you are hanging out with her and other people.. try catching her eye, staring at her.. then imagine her riding on top of you (seriously.. not meaning to be crude.. but you will make a genuine, male and authentic smile).. and when you accidentally make that 'sexy smile' as a result of your mini-daydream.. see if she smiles back bigger than you. If you get a positive look from the stare-down/smile.. she digs you and I would pursue!
Good luck with the catch man!
Hope this helps!
Also, read MAXIM.. it has GREAT tips on these kinds of things.
2007-09-13 15:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by SLaK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...OF COURSE SHE DOES!! well,if shes anything like me (coz im crazy like her) and i do the exact same thing!! so id say go for it! good look but if you want to be sure (from a girl perspective) id say ask her friend b4 doing anything x oh yeah and catch her eye a lot holding dreamy stares look away and do it again you'll see if she fancies you if she smiles and possibly does the same.
2007-09-13 15:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably is interested in romance. Ask her to do something that is just the two of you and hold her hand. and go from there.
2007-09-13 15:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that this girl does like you. You should go for it and ask her out.
Good Luck
2007-09-13 15:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by Livelovelaugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you more than just a friend. No woman worries about getting all fixed up for just friends.
2007-09-13 16:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by T T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the hint Gomer!
2007-09-13 15:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by m_c_m_a_n 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like she wants to be friends and get to know you right now, then maybe a relationship later on
2007-09-13 15:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she seems to want a relationship. And she seems to want it with you. But why don't you just ask her.
2007-09-13 15:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she likes you very much so
lol
i think shes waiting for you to make a move;)
lol
but remember if she wants a long-term, take it slow
thats how us girls like it lol
2007-09-13 15:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋