Singles & Dating - 13 September 2007

i really hope he doesnt see this!
i dont know how to handle the situation with him. I felt like i have known him so long. usually he is so cocky he laughs and stuff but i have pretty much given up on getting him to show any real emotion. he has never even told me that he loves me even though i know he is crazy about me like i am about him. anyway somehow the topic of rape came up and i revealed to him that i was raped when i was younger. He was like "oh" and got real quite and just acted kinda normal but wierd. 2 days went past and he was just always really quite. then he just huggd me really hard when i was making him a sandwich and i noticed his eyes were water i was like omg was wrong and he said he couldnt believe someone would do that to me because i was so nice such a caring person. i thought it was really sweet and knew for sure he really loved me but the problem is he wont do me anymore, he says he doesnt want to hurt me anymore..now what?!?!

2007-09-13 06:38:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, jst some help...we've been together for 2 years...i want to get him something so he can remember me wen he is away...something not very mushy but very sweet...and at the same time..creative...ideas guys? nothing dirty plz! merci

2007-09-13 06:32:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anne 1

Ive always wanted to know this,hope you dont mind me asking.

2007-09-13 06:21:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would you know, if you girlfriend is istill virgin?

2007-09-13 06:20:53 · 39 answers · asked by ian_eureka 1

I'm curious about what guys really think about a girl (high school age)with teeth that stick out a lot.

2007-09-13 06:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by Sandy Y 1

There is this girl in one of my college classes that I want to approach. The thing is, I don't know what to say. And to make it worse, I only have this class once a week with her.

What should I do?

2007-09-13 06:17:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone tried to introduce this lady and myself so that we can see it the relationship can progress to a marriage. I was unable to attend on the day of introduction. Eversince, it has been difficult to make a date with the lady. She always says that she is busy. Also, she once said that it was my fault that i did not make the appointment for the day we were to be introduced. What do I do? Is she playing hard to get? (ladies please help?)

2007-09-13 06:16:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. I have this boyfriend of over 3 yrs. he is great!!!, but has a few bad traits!! But i just recently started back to school. I meet this guy "T" and he seems really sweet. Me and him have gotten to know each other pretty well within the last few days. I mean we know a lot about each other already. But he has a 6 mo old daughter, that he loves to death. and he said that his babys mama is cool with him dating other people. And yesterday (wednesday) i took him home from school, and we got to know each other a lil bit more (not in that way)...but he was talking about going on a date. I was wondering what yall thought and whether or not i should go. I mean i would technically not be doing anything wrong. but im just 21 yrs old. Should i date this guy since he has a child and i have a boyfriend? or should we be just friends??

Someone pls give me some ideas...i need help

2007-09-13 05:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by **Christie** 2

I really Love this girl but due to some misunderstandings she is not giving me her full attention like she used to give.. And i dont really really know what to do now but this is really killing me emotionally because i keep thinking about her everyday.. I just dont know how to tell her that am sorry and she should forgive and forget so that we become lovers like we used to..

2007-09-13 05:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by eric D 1

I do .I think it would help a lot

2007-09-13 05:48:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-13 05:43:40 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother's girlfriend is completely obnoxious! When she comes over she always makes fun of him in front of the family, like she thinks it's cool or something. She isn't very attractive and when they go swimming I want to throw up a little in my mouth. They are always fighting over something petty and what-not. She will throw a fit and leave, but the next day it's like nothing ever happened!

I don't think they are right for each other. But my brother won't hear it. What should I do about her?

2007-09-13 05:42:19 · 52 answers · asked by tricy 1

I have never got it.
I have never cheated on anyone because if I have that proves I cant love them so I wouldnt be with them. but thats just me

2007-09-13 05:40:47 · 29 answers · asked by April 3

i lent US$350 my BF when we were nice, and 1 mth later he dumped me. returned US$100 already,and promised the rest in 3 months. in the 3rd month, not cleared he paid all, he borrowed again, US$ 70, and now, 6 months later, there is US$ 80 which I dont intend to ask back from him anymore, we lost contact,and now, he return TEXTING me, asking for help to borrow US$ 500, because he has involved in drugs for 2 months.. and he has realized his mistake for 2 weeks never use it anymore.
1.or should I tell his mother about him,
2.or should I just walk out of his life do not care at all about him?
I dont think we can be a couple again, but I do care about him.
(PS : he has been saying rude words to me during the time after we broke up, he didnt appreciate me caring about him, he even told me about his new crush which i think it was very improper to talk about new GF to your ex GF)
some one told me "If you still care about him then tell his mom" but I am worried that he'll b angry to me

2007-09-13 05:28:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

gets raunchy as well, dont want an affair but nights are lonely and really fancy some erotic e mailing with ladies, have tried some sites that ask you to register free then want some cash to carry on, i just want some free sites that are genuine, any ideas

2007-09-13 05:20:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been noticing a pattern of behavior in this woman I have been dating for a few weeks now.

Whenever we see each other at work she will sometimes say hello to me. Other times she won't even acknowledge that I am standing right there or holding the door open for her. She rarely, if at all, starts a conversation with me. I usually have to be the one who starts it. Then there are times that she chooses to barely acknowledge my input on conversations.

But whenever we go out she will talk to me and start the conversations.

It almost seems like at times she is interested in me, then at other times she doesn't seem to care too much. We don't have a really serious relationship going but we are definitely dating.

Is this a game that she is playing that many women play or no? Or am I just thinking about it too much?

DISCLAIMER:Nothing I have said applies to every woman in the world. So don't get all pissy and defensive. If you do, don't bother answering.

2007-09-13 05:09:24 · 21 answers · asked by Cameron 3

i've got a crush on a new student in my school. He's absolutely my type! My friends often see him stares at me all th time. But, 2 weeks later i heard he just had relationship with ma fella's sister.

So many situations that force us to meet each other.
For exmple, we both had to sing a song for school's party, so we were having so many days of practising our song.

When the party was about to started, i changed my clothes and i wore a pretty gown that was obviously not my style.
Then he called my name outloud (which he was so faraway from me) and he said i was amazing.

After our show, i already prepared an sms to him. i said:

'Hey, uno what, i hate that i love you.'

He didnt reply.
He replied it on the next day.

He said:

"...And i hate the fact that i can do nothing bout it. I'm sorry.."

What did he mean? does he have a crush on me??

Well, once he talked to me, he said he didnt like his new girl, cos she's so ****** childish.

2007-09-13 05:06:07 · 8 answers · asked by TaraAulia 1

I have friends that perform oral solely because their guy likes it, some who don't like it at all and refuse to do it, and some who enjoy performing it. There aren't more of one preference than another so this is why I ask...

Which one do you fall under?

2007-09-13 05:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by sexynsmartxoxo 2

Recently a friend of mine dumped a man, who she had known for 6 weeks, really liked UNTIL the first time they had sex, he suddenly howled like a dog!

She thought there was something wrong and jumped off, only to realise he actually made that noice because he came, she was shocked and practically dumped him the next day!

I actually found this halirious but any of my previous lovers just quietly grunted or gave a little moan, we have never heard of a howler before, have u?

2007-09-13 04:55:50 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

my m8 has told me she lied to her bf bout having a misscarriage, she said it just came out to his sister when she was saying his other sister is pregnant,
my friends wants to start trying for a baby next yr but her bf 4yrs younger than her (19) said he doesn't want them for bout 5 yrs,
she has just lost her grandad and its his funeral 2moro. i'm unsure what to tell her
she is on about packing her things and leaving him going back home cause she thinks he would never forgive her
she thinks she should just give up
any suggestions?

2007-09-13 04:54:37 · 1 answers · asked by destiny 1

I know that a lot of guys from the US seek mail order brides from places like Russia and various parts of Asia. More often than not, these women are just looking for a ticket to the US. Are some of these guys so delusional that they actually think that these women are marrying them, because they LOVE them?

2007-09-13 04:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by tangerine 7

Let's say you didn't have hardly any friends at all, you have no connections, not much close friends, there are not much people you hang with, etc... you are just socially disconnected you are as lonely as the planet Pluto. Where are the places that you would go to try and meet women?

2007-09-13 04:52:52 · 1 answers · asked by Ryder 1

2007-09-13 04:43:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd had a bad day with my family and was feeling low. My bf picked up on it when we were lying in bed and asked me what was wrong and offered to give me a hug. So I started explaining what my crazy uncle had done and how bad I felt, I hadn't been talking that long at all when I asked him something and he didn't respond. He'd fallen asleep! I poked him and eventually he woke up. I was really hurt. He apologised and turned on the light, but I don't knwo what this means. Doe she just not care about me at all? Why would you ask someone to tell you something and then fall asleep while they're telling you!?

2007-09-13 04:37:20 · 25 answers · asked by Katrina W 2

How many of you would "settle" for something thats just OK in a relationship, because of circumstances? How many of you would NOT settle, because they want to have that TRUE LOVE? I settled, and now I am doubting my choice... should I have waited it out for my one true , or did I make the right choice because there is NO such thing as TRUE LOVE?

2007-09-13 04:26:16 · 13 answers · asked by c_leoo 4

her ex, that she never truly got over, just died. she needs to be alone so she can grieve. i need to be with her terribly, how do i show that i'll be waiting around until she's ready to be with me again?

2007-09-13 04:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Tyler B 1

2007-09-13 04:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-13 04:16:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

well long story but im gonna type it anyway
well this guy said that my boyfriend and my best friend acted like they were goin out. and that they will make a cute couple. i got so upset. i mean they always flirt with eachother but they had no idea now im hurt what should i do? they know whats goin on and they both take the fault and are tryin to fix it but i cant get over it im too upset what should i do?

2007-09-13 04:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by martha s 2

OK . I used to fancy this guy but i DONT anymore . However this mate of his thinks i do . Know tht mate of mine ahs gone and told the boy . Im really scared cause im reckon his going to come up to me and ask me whether i do or not . I really scared and i really dont know what to do ..

PLEASE HEELLLPPP!!!!! IM DESPERATE !!!

2007-09-13 04:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous