well long story but im gonna type it anyway
well this guy said that my boyfriend and my best friend acted like they were goin out. and that they will make a cute couple. i got so upset. i mean they always flirt with eachother but they had no idea now im hurt what should i do? they know whats goin on and they both take the fault and are tryin to fix it but i cant get over it im too upset what should i do?
2007-09-13 04:14:26 · 11 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always believed that if a person really is your best friend, then she wouldn't hurt you by going out or flirting with someone she knows means so much to you. She obviously doesn't respect you. You deserve a better friend.
2007-09-13 04:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you're being too sensitive. I get along GREAT with my boyfriends friends to the point where we go on trips together (even if my BF isn't going)...and the joke is that they're my BFs for the day...but thats all it is...A JOKE. Yuo obviously want them to get along because as women we ALWAYS want out BFF and BF to get along great. If they've both apologized, then whats the problem. Stop listening to someone who's outside of the relationship (maybe their trying to sabotage you...I've had it happen to me before). If you trust him, then this shouldn't be an issue. If you dont trust him (or her), then maybe you need to rethink your relationship with both of them. Have you ever had a reason to NOT trust him?
I know that you always hear the horror stories of a BF leaving his GF for her best friend, but every situation is different. Talk to her, talk to him. If they're really your friends, they'll tell you the truth.
2007-09-13 05:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell kind of boyfriend/best friend are they, to be flirting with each other?! Thats' completely uncalled for! Both should know better!
Tell them to both cut the crap already! If they keep up with the act, find a new boyfriend and best friend that respect you.
2007-09-13 04:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a classic case of toddlers rudeness affliction plus woman opposition syndrome! considering that she tries to blow you off besides, basically enable it ensue for now. draw close out with somebody nicer till she grows up a splash. undergo in techniques you're youthful. it is going to take it gradual for her to strengthen out of this. you would be better acquaintances lower back later. On a private notice, a brilliant form of gymnastics females are like this, in my own adventure. they basically embody their own coolness lots that it intimidates all human beings else. ok, gymnastics is cool, and so is all the different stuff she does. and he or she's in all risk a great individual below all that naivete. yet actual now, she's performing like a aggressive B so she should be omitted till she grows up slightly. She needs to realize which you're cool too. as quickly as she does, you will the two experience better. BTW, those adult men, they are whistling at the two one in all you. And it is no longer superb, what they are questioning. So it is no longer powerful sufficient to combat with your bff over.
2016-10-20 00:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to be negative but my boyfriend and best friend were really close and flirted a lot, swore that nothing was going on and nothing would happen. my boyfriend would joke saying he had two girlfriends and i told them that it upset me, people asked me if he really did and if we had broken up b/c he was always with my best friend. month later, i found out that he cheated on me with my best friend. From experience i would tell them how you are feeling about this and try breaking up with your boyfriend until he decides what girl he really wants. If he and you best friend end up together, it was a smart move on your part.......but who knows, maybe y'all need the separation for a while. it would help out. but i hope my advice helps you out. good luck.
2007-09-13 04:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by Heather B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person says something in passing and you take it as gospel and start getting jealous?
Break up with your boyfriend, you obviously don't trust him enough to have a meaningful relationship. Once you break up, stay single for about 6 months while you GROW UP!
2007-09-13 04:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by Takfam 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg im in HATE with my bff too... let things simmer down a bit... he's your boyfriend he WILL come back to you... and hey, u leanrned a leason... dont trust anyone... bff's have a tendency to be like that... like they always want to compete with u... but in the end hun your the one with the guy... and he wants u! i hope i helped <3
2007-09-13 04:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by cus i forgot my name...? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple she knew that he was your man right? so she should have known not to mess around with him whether it was for real or fake,she should have just left him alone but the way i see it is that since she did that she wasn't your friend to begin with
2007-09-13 04:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us women never have real friends.
Your on your own kid.
Never let a friend near any man of your again.
You just learnt the hard way
2007-09-13 04:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple;Don't trust your bestfriend with your man.
2007-09-13 04:18:25 · answer #10 · answered by dee b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋