Singles & Dating - 12 September 2007

i found true loved on him i know he also loved me.. but he cheated me and even let the girl bother me. he's a military men. he said it is just normal for them, for a men to sleep with someone else, and had sex.. but it hurts. i never did the same. i wanted to take revenge but how. i ask him if he love me still and he said yes, and it was just nothing. all i have to do is to accept it. i tried, i am trying but the pain is still here.. i wanted to broke up with him, i tried not not to think bout him bout he occupied my mind. i tried not to think bad when hes not texting but i cannot. i am in deep pain. its my ego. its my pride he step on it. i love him very much but it made me feel sick. i want to let go of my feelings but i cannot. i love him so much that it tears me up inside. we are miles apart. we are separated because of our profession. if only i could find someone to replace him. maybe i'll let him go.

2007-09-12 23:58:26 · 7 answers · asked by sai 1

he buy alot of cosmetics for the face,he eat same like a girl, he like girl friends than his guy friends and most specially the way he act is like not masculine.. i dunno but the way he act is not normal for a guy. am i just thinking to much about him?.. im just just afraid he turns out same like other guys there..

2007-09-12 23:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Kk 2

okay so theres 2 brothers and the older one meets a new girl and they start dating and are together for about six months. then tragedy strikes and the older brother dies. would it be wrong for the younger brother and the girl to start dating?

2007-09-12 23:52:12 · 17 answers · asked by new h 1

And Chris Hansen showed up?

2007-09-12 23:47:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, well I was at this guys (across the street) house because I locked myself by accident out of my own house. He said it would be ok if i came to his, So i did and we hung out. He asked for my myspace and my aim info and i gave it to him. On mysace, the next day, I messaged him saying:

Hey, thanks for letting me come over on Tuesday, it was fun

and my mom actually didn't get mad, so it was cool lol

Then, later that night he replied:

yeah its cool anytime =]. thats good she didnt get mad haaa

Ok, so now what do I say? I'm really bored because today we have a day off from high school... but wouldn't it be too straight foward to ask him if he wants to walk around the neighborhood or something?

idk... what should i send him?

2007-09-12 23:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by guy 1

I broke up with my ex about a month ago, he really upset me and I've dealt with that. He spoke to me yesterday on msn about getting a playstation game back off of me which i will give back to him. I have just started to see another guy this is the early stages tho so don't want to do anything to mess things up. But my problem is my ex wants to see me and personally i don't want to see him as it'll just drag up all those feelings i had for him. I like this new guy alot, I just need some advise as to how to forget about my ex and how to just get on with my life and see how things go with the new guy. Hope this makes sense, my heads a bit all over the place at the mo. Thanks.

2007-09-12 23:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

This will be our first time away together, its a landmark in our relationship, he has booked us into a lovely hotel. I feel a bit, well-- Useless!!!------ any tips on what I could do to make it even more lovely and romantic. All my last b/f were cavemen who would never in a million years do this for me, and I just kinda need some advice

2007-09-12 23:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by staceylovbe 2

my b/f asked me to tell me how i felt and i said i liked himn a lot and hadn't felt this way so fast for someone. he left. text me all that night saying he felt the same. He text me in the morning before going to work saying he would see me later. i have had no reply since. i sent him a text at 11 last night and still no reply. what is going on. do you think it's over?

2007-09-12 23:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by aint got a scooby 3

I need some assistance here. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months now and we live 20 minutes apart from each other which is not bad at all. We communicate everyday with e-mail or text messaging but we don't talk on the phone all the time. Is this bad? I see her about 3 times a week...sometimes less. Please help me figure out if this is good or bad.

2007-09-12 23:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we met almost two yrs back we both relocated from different parts of the country due to work reasons n became very good friends,we started sleeping around a month ago.i know he loves me and i love him too,but am afraid of ruining his happy family.I just want to stop but i dont know how cuz i have to work with him on a daily basis n i just love him.He,s always there for me.Pls advice me

2007-09-12 23:36:01 · 20 answers · asked by cat r 2

i was sexually abused growing up so i never looked at sex like a big deal cos to me it wasnt..it was just this dirty thing..i didnt connect it with love. now im happy with my bf but i always say we f*ck..i never think of it as 'makeing love' cos making love to me doesnt exist. he excepts this but because i dont see sex as being a big deal i go to swinger clubs with him and have even said he can sleep with another woman while im on my period so he can be satisfied...when i think about this part of me says to myself 'what the hell are you doing? are you really ok with him sleeping with another girl? what if he likes her better and leaves you?'. im so messed up in the head..i love him so much and im trying to do what i think is right to keep him happy (like when i let him give it me up the @r$e even though i dont like it) but part of it feels wrong. i know alot of this has to do with my past..i just wish i could see sex like other people..a special love shared between 2 people

2007-09-12 23:12:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get the feeling he thinks it's dirty or something. but this is actually when i feel most sexy and want sex a lot. ok, maybe he "doesn't like it". but i often have sex with him WHEN I DON'T WANT TO,,just to please him. i feel really hurt, like he's rejecting a part of me/my womanhood. shall i tell him i'm jst not gonna see him AT ALL during my period, if he can't deal with it?

2007-09-12 22:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by ellen s 1

Hello guys?Am in a very tight spot n i so much need you help.I don't know how 2 deal with issue i've about a gal am very much crazy about.I meet this girl in the internet about an yr ago n we hooked up.we slowly grew fond of each other n we fell in luv wit each other-atleast i do luv her,but am not sure about her...but she say she does luv me.We have never meet n this is cuz we live very much apart from each other.....like in different countries n different continents.But we've talked so much how we will meet each other after her schoolin.I do luv her so much,and infact i think i've never luved anyone this much.But the thing is she does makes me doubt of her luv 4 ma.She is sometimes very cold 2 me and she closes me out when it comes 2 talking about her family.Recently her father died,but she didn't let me kno about it!I found out about her father after his funeral.This has changed ma alot lately that she has taken notice.She says am not the same.But i don't know how 2 tell her of this

2007-09-12 22:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by steve 1

2007-09-12 22:52:01 · 40 answers · asked by JanJan 7

i been talkin to this girl for 5 months already. seen her about 8 times only cus she lives 4 hours away. im certain she really likes me and of course i like her. i know theres no certain way to keep a relationship good or strong but since this is a long distance one, what are a few things i need to keep in mind as well as she? what do i need to do, what does she need to do? what can and cant or do and the other way around to make this last and work?

2007-09-12 22:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by JV 1

My ex is mad that i'm talking to my other ex. He was like, you loved him more then me. and that he hate me and that he wish that he never met me! what that he** was that? I never loved my other ex!!! How can i make him understand that i still have feelings for him not the other one? Can anyone help ME understand what happend? The guy that i still have feeling for say that he didnt want to be with me! so y is he so mad? And no i didnt tell him that i was talking to the other guy! one of my friend told him that!!! HELP!!! I'M LOSING MY MIND!!!!! Can take it anymore!

2007-09-12 22:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I have been spoiled in my past relationships - with thoughtful men.
My current boyfriend, who I have been seeing for 10 months, has never really done the whole romance thing, which I accept because that is just the way he is. However I started to get a bit fed up because I have been really helping him out the last few months - taking him to work at 5am, picking him up etc, without so much as a thank you really.
I came outright and said to him "I think you should buy me a present or something!" "Some flowers wouldn't go amiss, you hav never bought me flowers"
Last night he presented me with a bunch of flowers and said "whatever you ask me I will do". However I dont' really want to have to ask him to do nice things for me. What do you think?

2007-09-12 22:25:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

1.a romantic kiss
2.a call
3.ask for next date
4.or else?

2007-09-12 22:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by •°¤*♫*¤°•fisco 2

People say that women are clingy, needy and emotional, but in my experience guys are like that. It seems like most guys are just looking for someone to be their mother. The guys that I've dated recently wouldn't give me any space, they were constantly breathing down my neck, calling me and asking me questions like "What are you thinking about?" One guy I was dating got SO upset when I forgot his birthday. I admit, that was pretty horrible of me but I didn't understand why he got so upset. We weren't dating for a long time (less than 2 months) and I honestly wouldn't care if he forgot my b-day. It wasn't like we were dating for 2 years

I think I am just too independent, stubborn and set in my ways? Or are guys just too clingy? Recently I've been called an "ice queen". I don't think I'm cold, I just don't go crazy over someone in a matter of weeks. I can be nurturing and loving, but it takes a while for me to be like that. I don't pretend to adore someone when I really could care less.

2007-09-12 22:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by A.H. 2

2007-09-12 22:18:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 22:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by manar 1

There's a girl I've been talking to a lot at work lately. For several weeks, we've been having lunch together nearly every day, and she and I spend hours every day just talking (when we really should be working :)). I know that I like her a huge amount, and I've told her several times (in passing) that I think she's beautiful and I'm really comfortable with her and enjoy the time we spend together. Despite the subtle compliments, I'm not sure if she realizes that I like her in a romantic way yet. She often talks about how unhappy she is with her husband and about her home situation. She had a pretty crappy wedding, and her husband isn't very romantic or attentive. She seems to talk about affairs a lot (but indirectly, e.g. as stories about friends etc.). She has mentioned that she thinks about having an affair or leaving her husband sometimes. She has no children, which would make me feel somewhat less guilty about things... Should I tell her that I like her?

2007-09-12 22:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by Retro Fluff 1

My boyfriend has always got hot over seeing threesomes on TV and in films and has suggested to me for us to have one. I actually find it quite a turn on and have kissed my female friends many times before but never done anything else. How do we go about this? What are the "rules" of threesomes if there are any? How do you start it all off when all three of us are sat there on the bed!?!? We have a friend who has hinted that she would be up for it.

2007-09-12 22:06:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone once told if you a have Disability at you 50% more
to go out with someone who got a disability then someone who haven't. do you think this could be true

2007-09-12 21:59:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-12 21:44:49 · 28 answers · asked by freak 3

Okay so, me and my friend how is a guy were playing 'punch, pash and partner' he said he would pash me punch someone else and partner someone else.
Now to you what is the most indicator that someone likes you: Partner or Pash?

2007-09-12 21:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a little worried about my ex (we're still friends). I recently found out that the woman he married chose to hyphenate her name with his and I heard that women who do this are, well, to put it mildly bit**es. What do you think?

2007-09-12 21:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by Si S 2

and i,ve been single for most of that time but recently had a sexual relationship with his friend who treated me like ****,it caused a bit of a rift between me and my friend but as always he has stood by me,thing is i do love him but can't imagine having sex with him,sometimes i think shall i just do it and see how i feel and/or risk our frienship even more,i think it's because he's a kind man that im not 'clicking' with him i stay single because i tend to go for men that treat me bad.i was in care as a childmum didnt want me/like me and i didnt see my dad for 17 years and he doesnt bother with me i think thats got something to do with it.he hasnt met anyone either in last 6 years but is round my house 3-4 evenings to watch telly eat drink t etc,what is going on? i live a mad live!what do i do?

2007-09-12 21:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by talks good s hit 6

2007-09-12 21:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by wiiiiam_lee 1

2007-09-12 21:19:33 · 5 answers · asked by karenmadson2000 1