We are both is our late 20's, and she lives by herself, but her mother comes to visit every single weekend. ( a 2-1/2 hour drive) My GF doesn't seem to want to confront her or upset her, but I can tell that her mother can sometimes upset her. She calls all the time, and always wants my GF to check in with her when she gets home, etc, etc. My GF doesn't have her own car, and she doesn't make a whole lot of money and says she can't afford car insurance, etc. So she is still on her parents Insurance, and driving a car in her parents name. She uses things like this as leverage to get her way and guilt my GF into doing what she wants. My GF thinks she is threatened by her relationship with me, and that she gets upset easily when things (like plans) change. Her mom doesn't have any friends, and I get the feeling her and her Husband aren't happy. I don't know what to tell her to do. I like her mother and father, but It would be nice if her mom just backed off once in a while and let her be.
2007-09-12
14:12:14
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anarchistgoblin
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