We were really good friends and than started hooking up. He is 15 years older than me, im 22 and hes 37. We have done a lot of things sexually but when it comes down to having sex it just wont happen !! physically he just seems like he cant do it, is it because we were good friends or what is going on!
2007-09-12 14:10:50 · 2 answers · asked by hiltonheadsteph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should see a doctor. Men that age in good health can get hard with about 5 minutes of foreplay and stay hard enough to finish, 5 minutes later. If they are hard or not in the 30 minutes before that, when they are working towards your two climaxes, doesn't really matter. He's got another 10 - 15 years before he needs Viagra, again if he is normal.
2007-09-12 15:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comes down to two possible factors his physical or his mental state. Could be health wise it just doesn't happen, but he's young enough that, that be a sign of something potientally dangerous. Mentally could be any amount of hang ups, chances are thou he knows the hang ups, but hasn't communicated it honestly with you. So it comes do to ether a doctors visit, or some honesty between the two of you, of course there is the chance that he could be lieing to himself about the cause....
2007-09-12 21:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋