well i have a friend that everytime i have a boyfriend she always seems to have that boyfriend as her best friend. and today she made my boyfriend sit next to her i mean how can i play with her head. i mean i want to get bak at her to mess with her head? what should i do??
2007-09-12 12:59:22 · 25 answers · asked by martha s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop trying to fight fire with fire, it will never work.
Bitches never win. That's that.
Be the better person and let fate run it's course; it'll be much more satisfying and you'll be a better person for it.
2007-09-12 13:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by forever1apple 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this, but the best thing that you can do is treat her how you would want to be treated. I mean she obviously has a self esteem issue if she has to befriend your boyfriend to try and make you jealous. She needs that attention, she loves that attention. So, you feeding into that by giving her more attention and trying to mess with her head is only going to give her what she wants. I would just pay it no mind and that will be what will really mess with her head because she'll wonder why you don't care. People do things just to get a reaction out of you, they like to see you upset or atleast get some kind of response, so when they're not getting that satisfaction it bugs them more than anything. You will be the bigger and better person by just being nice to her and not letting it phase you. She's accomplished her main goal; getting to you. Don't let that happen! Good Luck!! <33
2007-09-12 20:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what the best medicine of all is to do is act like it does not bother you one bit, I mean it......she wants you to get angry, mad, upset, just anything, and if you act all happy and nice and go over to her and your boyfriend and say you two getting along great, that's nice, I'm glad, it will totally freak her...she wants and lives to make you miserable......don't let her do it to you........the nicer you are the more she will wonder what you are up tooo.....see she will think, why is she being like this,..what has she got up her sleeve....and then she will start making her own bed and doing things to savatage herself and you won't need to do a thing but sit back and watch and laugh as you see her little world fall apart, ....why make her cry...believe me, I've been in situations like this, and if you give them time to play out and you are the nice one, it all plays out and in your favor, karma, karma always comes back, and you don't want it to come back and kick you in the but, let it kick her in the but and under her feet....it will happen, and probably at the time when she is least expected, when everyone is around, and you won't have a thing to do with it, and everyone will see what trash and slut she really is...and then she's out for good, and alone....and known as the ho....so just take your time and be patient....you don't need to make her cry, or get up-set, she's doing this on purpose, and look at it this way, it's your boyfriend, not hers....and if they fall for her, you surely don't need them in the first place if they are that easily swayed...so she is actually doing you a favor if that happens or has happened...let them be friends...believe me your boyfriend will think you are totally cool about it...and she'll mess up one day and say something negative about you, or something, and you only say sweet things, and it will backfire on her....good luck
2007-09-12 20:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty immature for BOTH of you. You need to make a serious decision. Either tell her that you are threw with her as a friend until she changes her behavior or try not to let it bother you so much. She probably just wants the extra attention and while it is annoying, you should be comfortable enough with your relationship to allow them to sit next to each other without it being a threat. But dont act like a nasty 5 year old.
2007-09-12 20:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by nawailohiloi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stoop to her level. Your friend is dealing with self esteem issues. She is craving attention. You didn't mention her boyfriend. Just so you know, she didn't MAKE your boyfriend sit next to her, unless I some how missed in your recounting that she "held a gun to your boyfriend and MADE him sit next to her". Since this behavior clearly bothers you, have a serious talk with your friend. Also, you might want to have a talk with your boyfriend, he shouldn't be putting other women ahead of you, and thats basically what he did by sitting next to her, instead of next to you.
2007-09-12 20:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by grace95838 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life of your own. She is obviously not your friend. Don't lower your own standards by getting down to her level by trying to play with her head. No boy is worth that.
2007-09-12 20:04:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Create a fake e-mail account under your boyfriend's name. E-mail her and tell her how annoying she is and that you can't stand the fact that she's trying to move in on her best friend's man. She'll get so pissed and probably won't bother your man anymore either. It's evil, but I hope this helps!
2007-09-12 20:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just stop being friends with her. If you make her cry, your boyfriend may think you are a b**** and break up with you.
2007-09-12 20:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your friend, and she's doing this. Ditch her.
She's not worth it.
Don't mess with her head, thats just mean.
Answer my question?
2007-09-12 20:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about it and explain the situation to him. Maybe together you can come up with a plan.
2007-09-12 20:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋