okay in the breakfast line this group of guys (one of them I liked) come up to me and one of them touched my arm and goes its squishy. I was like quit. and they r like no, its squishy, even the guy I like get doing that. and then he pointed to my chest and went are those squishy? I was like no!!! Ya, and in the hallway they are yelling hey squishy, and I'm like I don't want anymore nicknames!! and then they start calling me bl0w j0b!!! And at lunch today they are like come here squishy, i want to feel u. I was like no!! And they kept bugging me!! I know do not like the guy anymore, and what does all this mean? It was so freaking annoy- and no, I can not go to the teachers as that would make me look bad, and they probably wouldn't get in trouble. So anything else?
2007-09-12 12:27:55 · 20 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont worry just slap him if he touches you. Otherwise ignore them ...
2007-09-12 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means they are jerks and complete losers who have no respect for women. Next time they do it turn to the closest guy walk to within a hairs width of him look him in the eye and then drive your knee into his groin and say well at least we know they are squishy and walk away.
They won't report it to the teachers as they would have to admit to what they were doing.
Violence rarely solves anything but in the case of these guys its the only thing that would get the message through
2007-09-12 19:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age, but I am assuming these guys are around your age. So this means, if they are around 15 years old they are really 10 because guys mature so much later than females. They are little pervs who are probably still questioning their sexuality. If it gets too physical you should tell ur principal-this is a form of bullying and if your principal is smart enough he will put a stop to this. It is sickening that many males believe that women are objects for them to play with. It's another thing when a girl is throwing herself at a guy and disrespects herself like that. But if you are just going about your business and these CHILDREN keep messing with you, please tell someone. It is wrong.
2007-09-12 19:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by sally_that_girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sexual harrasment and you have a right to tell someone about it even if you like one of them he has no respect for you to be acting like that towards you i would WARN them if they dont stop you will report them if they keep it up do so.
******* is not a name a women should be call and squishy is just a way yo touch you in places you dont want to be touch by making it a game and you are no joke to be play your feeling are real.
2007-09-12 19:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not make you look bad. Do not let people harass you because you are afraid of what they will think. They do not care what you think.They sound like a bunch of jerks and you do not have to take that. If they do not get into trouble and it continues you need to tell your parents so they can intervene. Nobody has the right to harass you and please do not take it. You said that it would make you look bad. Would you rather that they continue treating you like that in front of others. Do not let them intimidate you. Stand up for yourself. People will respect that. Always stand up for yourself. Good luck girl.
2007-09-12 19:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just perverted. :/ But what can you really expect from teenage boys? They're just being immature. :/ I'd advise you to talk to your teacher about this; the boys WILL get punished, particularly if you mention that they called you 'bl0w job' - It's known as sexual harassment. Best of luck hun!
2007-09-12 19:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're immature and are trying to get your attention by bugging you... and its working so your amusing them.. i say ignore them pretend like you dont care what they call you they will eventually get over it... If they walk by and say "hey squishy (or whatever)" just say hey back. They ll see its not bothering you and feel stupid.
2007-09-12 19:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by cdlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this sounds like what one of my friends did last year just ***** slap them as hard as you can trust me they wont ever call u squishy or bl0w j0b again. lol my friend is such a idiot.
2007-09-12 19:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those times you need a 300-pound Big Brother who has 5 of his closest line-backer-sized friends to throw a little of the Fear of God into those lamers.
In a case like this, I'd try to get my girlfriends to pal around with me, and if those guys say anything else, just totally ignore them...but if one of them touches you, it CAN be construed to be sexual harrassment and they CAN be expelled for it.
2007-09-12 19:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, ignore them! If you show you are vulnerable, and not refuse them, they'll keep doing that, I'm in HS, and the guys in my science class do that to me. (Boys never grow up). It means that they like to annoy you, cuz its probably the most fun they get in a while.
2007-09-12 19:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you are probably about 10 yrs old because this is only something a 10 yr old would do.
2007-09-12 19:32:29 · answer #11 · answered by hallock36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋