and be good at it? best tips? thnx <3
2007-09-12 12:40:56 · 23 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why you have to do this? just act normal..think it's cute but if you get overboard it kills
just an advice:
if you do those thing he might as well think that you're not interested in him (this is always come as 1st thought, more less try to rethink).. not so many people like to be played around and get confused.. they got something else to think about (job, study, problem arises)..if your guy is not into games you gonna loose him faster than you could imagine..don't be a burden be a helper
try ask those who does those things..did she/he get married happily in the end? is she/he is happy now? they suffer more actually..
something to share:
once n i like this girl.. at first she talk to me but then suddenly she act like she don't care..not replying my text and ignoring my call..walk away ignoring me..i think she enjoy doing it that but i don't (actually she overdo it)..everyone has their own limits and when it got too much they exploded.. at first i do the chase but after all the confusion I stop calling or text her.. after one month she start calling me asking why i didn't call her anymore said that she's been waiting for my reply..i lost interest in her just because i feel that i can't trust her anymore..try to give her a chance but then she did it again (yay)..right now i don't care if she likes me or not, to me there's a 'better' person out there for her..
2007-09-12 13:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by •°¤*♫*¤°•fisco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to play 'hard to get' is to flirt and be friendly with the guy but not too close. Let him go on the answer machine several times before you speak to him and if you regularly see him out, show him that you like him by talking to him and being friendly but surround yourself with other male and female company as well. The best tip is simply : don't be overly available and NEVER appear too needy or interested. Nobody likes a needy person and the same goes for friendships of the same sex. Needy people are energy drainers and take more than they give. If a guy thinks a girl is needy or easy, there's no challenge in the whole thing. Good luck.
2007-09-12 12:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One word: Don't. A lot of guys just get pissed off and stop dealing with you if they think you're playing games with them. Just be real. You don't have to be obsessed with them or whatever, but just get to know them without messing with their heads. If you do happen to find a guy that chases after you more because your playing hard to get, he's prolly desperate and thats not the type of guy you'll want to date.
2007-09-12 12:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best tip is not to. It's dishonest and no way to begin a relationship. It reinforces the idea that all girls play games, which I personally resent. Be real. Then you can expect the same of him. But if you play games, don't feel justified in complaining when/if he ever lies to you.
2007-09-12 12:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, playing too hard to get will keep a lot of guys from trying.
I'm sorry, but most of us guys just don't get the games.
2007-09-12 12:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now This is my forte! All my friends are so damn easy, and Im the only hard to get one, and trust me it turns out really well in the end. You cant just say things to make you hard to get, you have to think it. Don't settle for anything less than the best of your selection. Turn guys you dont really like down. Dont call guys (my friends do that and the guy they like thinks they are stalker and he asked me out) wait for them to call, and if they dont, they are not interested. (Your to good for them) and my number one rule do NOT NOT NOT, sleep with them, until marraige....well maybe(what im trying to say is dont get drunk and give bj's, and have sex!) . Dont makeout on your first day of going out. You have to make him want, and work for you. Tease a little bit, like if your bf, or crush says something erotic to you, then say something like "mabey", *wink* and walk away. Good luck!
2007-09-12 12:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, me being a guy. i dont really like it when a girl plays hard to get, or at least really hard to get. if done wrong it can make it seem like the girl isnt interested at all. so if you do decide to play hard to get, dont completely ignore him, make it show that your interested, without making it seem like you really like him. just make him work hard, to a certain extent. cause a lot of guys dont like to work hard, although i think all good relationships require some work.
2007-09-12 12:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by TJ S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like you would with a guy that u absolutely had no interest in whats so ever but still wanted to be nice. For example just talk to him only if he talks to you. dont make too much eye contact, but still seam available, u dont want to make him not interested in you if he know that you want nothing to do with him.
2007-09-12 12:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by no regrets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks u out say lemme think about it and wink, flirt w/ other boys they get jealous, and it depends on ur rep to if uve gone out with a bunch of guys u should be good 2 go Hope this helps!
2007-09-12 12:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by kaylaaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys have too many other things to worry about than a girl that plays games. just make him a sandwich and let it be known that you like him and you got him.
2007-09-12 13:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋