pretty serious and i liked him a lot and he was very sweet and loving - though his flaw was that he was always talking about how his parents divorced really messed him up and how his relationship with them is terrible and how he felt they've neglected him (he obviously has a lot of psych issues - but i still liked him a lot, because i found that we connected on various levels and he treated me well). At the end of the summer, i was leaving to go away to school - he didn't come see me before i left. i felt hurt - i emailed him later to act like i didn't care (Even tho i did) and he got upset at me for seeming so careless. then i wrote back and said "i actually do care and im upset you didn't come see me". he didn't respond back until a month later, in which he asked me how things at school were going and that he missed me (he didn't mention the fight). i miss him a lot and wanna be with him but i don't want him to feel like he can take advantage of me. i wanna make him go crazy for me.
2007-09-13 09:05:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to make him crazy don't send him any email or letter or a text msg. if he really likes you, he will come after you, he will chase you, probably it will take time, but he will come after you. try to ignore him it will make him crazy.
2007-09-13 09:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is a jerk. If you have a fling all summer, then the least he could have done was to see you off. However, because he is selfish, he did not. Also, if he cared about you at all, he would have responded to your e-mail the next day instead of a month later. This boy is immature and you would be a fool to continue putting up with barbaric behavior. He is not going to crazy for you because he wants a girlfriend who is convenient, not a girlfriend he has to work at keeping happy.
2007-09-13 09:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by SuziChi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure how old you are but you should move on. Keep in touch if you want but I truly wouldn't worry about him. He sounds like he has issues and you have only known him for a little while. Just think what sort of stuff will come out further down the line. You are at school and will have plenty of chances to meet better guys than that.
2007-09-13 09:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by brent c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should totally be honest with this guy, but read between the lines (no pun intended), if he has a lot of baggage due to his parents divorce, and he's already treating you in a manner that is not desireable to you, what makes you think he will change?
It's the old saying, treat others as you would have them treat you ... is he treating you the way you would treat him? would you not have stopped by to say bye? would you have waited a month to reply to his email. use your noodle love, and move on with your life.
best of luck to you -- whatever you decide.
2007-09-13 09:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him about how you feel. the best thing about falling for someone is how vulnerable and open it makes you feel. He might also have an issue with saying good bye and give him the benefit of the doubt. My fiance and I when we fight, he will walk away and not talk to me until the next night and pretend nothing happened. Its aggravating, but i've learned to vent my frustration out on exercising.
2007-09-13 09:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by loving life!!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is kiddy stuff. Real men in real relationships have a monitor on your pulse and know if it rises in the slightest. To this day my husband knows before I do if I'm upset or insensed. To everone else he is obvious. The last thing I'd ever have is a guy like you describe. To each his own.
2007-09-13 09:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, seems like time has passes so talk to him and tell him that you guys should hang out sometime. Or, you could be confident and tell him that you like him and if he feels the same way. That way you'll stop wondering and you'll just know. Whats the worst that can happen ? He'll say no and your life will go on or he'll say yes and you'll go out. I would just be upfront Im straight forward like that.
2007-09-13 09:13:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama. Women always play games. Just come out and ask him. Stop being so dramatic. He's probably tired of the **** also, talk to him.
2007-09-13 09:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act as you really feel, dont worry about playing stupid games. If you love him, say it. Tell him you wanna see him and try to meet up. Good luck, have fun.
2007-09-13 09:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should write him, and tell him how you feel about him...he probably feels the same way. Also include little compliments to flatter him a bit...to make him feel like he is strong and manly. If you make him feel good about himself that would score you some points.
Good luck.
2007-09-13 09:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by RatHouseCafe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋