It hurts!! He said he loved me. One day it happened after only a few weeks of dating him. When I was sitting right there, he stared at a pretty blonde in the sunlight the same way he stared at me the first time he saw me. He stared at other girls all the time. One time at the mall, I noticed a girl walking by who looked flattered and was smiling at him because he was looking PAST me and watching her!!! Men with chivalry and women who don't tolerate this, please comment!! I need to remind myself why I broke up with him...
2007-09-13 18:18:17 · 18 answers · asked by Jess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And No, I didn't care if he noticed a pretty girl. Men are men, they naturally are very visual. The problem was the way he looked. It was the prolonged looking, staring and flirting that hurt.
2007-09-13 18:52:42 · update #1
Good for you! Sadly many guys are pigs, but the majority are not, yet unfortunately they are generally the shy ones. But back to the point, he doesn't deserve to have what he doesn't respect.
2007-09-13 18:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by person22 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I've been thru all that.Except in my case, he actually did flirt with other women in front of me. I told him how much it hurt me and nothing changed. Then I told him that my feelings (love) for him were dying. That was true. Finally, I went out and got myself a fabulous make-over and then I looked like a glamorous movie star. By that time, I had very little affection left for him, if any. I got the make-over for my self...... to boost my self-esteem. He then turned his full attention to me, but I didn't care anymore. I was finally over him!
2007-09-13 18:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by wildflower 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, for men to look at another girl has not as big mean as when a girl looks at another men.
I explain myself, men can watch a hot girl but then look at a fly, i mean they get distracted easily, but when women look at a men, they feel attaction.
He is just a regular guy, not a jerk
2007-09-13 18:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me all men stare, but if they make it so obvious yes it's rude and disrespectful. But heck I look at beautiful women too. I sometimes think its natural, but not so obvious the girl he is looking at is smiling back and staring too. That's wrong.
2007-09-13 18:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it! Just because he sees other pretty girls doesn't mean he has any less interest in you. Just believe me. What is you saw this cute buff blonde surfer running on the beach. You would look at him right? And that wouldn't make you any less interested in him I'm sure, right? So just don't worry about it.
2007-09-13 18:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Tyler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men look all the time, you got to show him who is the boss. Smack his head or pinch him. Why not ask him if he stare at girls, you stare at guys. How does it sound? I am sure he will stop staring. =)
2007-09-13 18:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of almost anyone who says he "loves you." That's shallow and meaningless in today's world. If it's said on a date, you should usually walk out and take a cab home.
2007-09-13 18:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with a quick glance. If the look lingers for a long period of time...u have a problem. Let him look. U look at cute guys right?
2007-09-13 18:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by <~*Megan*~> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok this might not be what you wanna hear but here goes i consider my self to be chivorous but it is male nature to look granted he didnt have to be so obvious and if he was giving them the same look he gave you he might have still been on the prowl but i am a very flirtasoius guy and im sorry but it should be ok tto look i mean whats a relationship with out trust i might hurt at the moment when hes looking at her but just remind your slef that hes with you i mean i might not be your average guy but i take it as a compliment when i see other guys looking at my gurl cuase then i know i got a good one i dont even mind if she flirts back a lil beacuse i know shes my gurl but even if she happins to get with another guy i just let her go cuase it means she was never mine to began with wich you did so keep your head up and dont compamise your morals for any guy they come and they go
2007-09-13 18:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by Terry R 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend tried that one time in the car. Some girls in the car next to us where flirting with him. I smack him silly on the back of his head! WE never had that problem again!
2007-09-13 18:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by latoyaevon 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋