now im all paranoid?

Question

Look, i dont care how old i am, like many of you will most likely say "youre too young to think that" and the truth is i dont care.

But im all paranoid right now because of my girlfriend. I mean she changed my life....she changed it drastically for the better....
And i dont know what id do without her, i feel lost just thinking about losing her.

to you this is just gonna sound stupid and unmeaningful, but to me,, im sitting here putting emotion into it just so it can be passed and never read.

But recently somethings happened, and some dude has come between me and my girlfriend, i dont get to talk to her half as much as i used too, and when we do talk its like shes different.

I fell in love with this girl and our official anniversary just passed, but i cant help but feel im losing her.

I was the bigger man and decided to step down and let her choose whats right because thats all i want.....i want HER to be happy no matter what

My Q is....Whats going to happen? with us

What do you think will happen, will the one girl ive ever loved leave with some dude?

I have 1 fear in this world.... and its losing her

im in no mood for bullsh*t right now, all ignorant and negative comments shall be discarded fools

Answer 1

we dont know what will happen i hope everything works out for the best!

It depends if you KNOW her well enough to know she really loves you or that she wouldnt leave your or cheat on you!

and if you dont KNOW that then take the time to realize how lucky you were that someone came into your life and did it some good. just because she changed your life for the better doesnt mean shes the one or that you should forever praise her.... i hope you get what im saying good luck

Answer 2

I can't tell you whether or not your girlfriend is going to leave you for this other guy.
The thing that I can help you with is realizing that if you lose her, life will go on. You have to accept this fact right now, or else you're going to crazy when that day comes (and, I hate to say it, but it probably will come). Your life will probably be full of meaningful, fulfilling relationships that eventually come to a close. This is just a normal part of most people's lives.
It seems funny, actually, that humans would want to get so attached to each other knowing full well that some day we may break each other's hearts, but you learn a lot about yourself when you're in a serious relationship. It may be excruciatingly painful when it comes time to break up, but you do move on with a better sense of self (even if it takes a while).
Breaking up is inevitable - realize that now and be ready for the change. If the girl is too self-centered to see how much she's hurting you, then maybe it's even (gasp) a good thing that you get of out of this relationship. You deserve better, and I think that deep down, you know that.
I realize that you love her, and I am not going to tell you that you are too young to be feeling this way - I feel deeply in love (or so I thought..?) at 16 and thought that if my boyfriend ever left me, I wouldn't be able to go on. Well, a year and a half later, we did split, and it was tough. Very tough. But it has now been almost 4 years after the fact and I am doing much better. You may have heard this before and you may not believe it, but time heals almost everything.
If you and your girl break up, you will be okay! Surround yourself with a strong support system: friends, family, whatever. If you don't have that, take up a hobby. Write your feelings. Read books. Take long walks when you're feeling so depressed that you don't even think you can open your eyes. Drink lots of water. Remember that eventually, things will turn work out in the end.

Answer 3

Hon, no one has a crystal ball that can tell you what the future holds.

Everything that happens to us is a lesson in life. Sometimes it is just wonderful and other times it is very painful.

What you have to do it is learn from each lesson and go on.

I would honestly say, you are probably smothering her a bit.

Your tenseness is very strong, even in your letter, you sound desperate.

It is honorable that you want her to be happy no matter what, but think for a second, is that truly what you are feeling or is it just words.

If it is not words, then I would say this relationship has taught you the true feeling of being close and caring, OK, love too.

When your young, you could have several of these relationships before you find the one you settle-down with for the rest of your life.

Take only the good from the relationships and just throw away the bad.

Good luck.

PS watch dirty dancing, how do you think she felt at the end??she learned to love..

Answer 4

No one can tell you what is going to happen to your relationship. I can tell you that I have been there. I know what you are going through, I have been there a few times actually. I know that i am not that old either, I am 24, but I can tell you that your heart will swell and break before you actually find the one that you are meant to be wwith for the rest of your lives. Sometimes though you have to loose one or two people that really mean something to you. That doesn't mean that someday they wont come back because they might but always know that if they don't it is very possible and likely that you will find something better than what you have right now. I am not saying give up, nothing like that at all really, but I am saying that if it doesn't work out between the two of you there is life beyond the brake up. Trust me I know. Good Luck

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I think you should talk to her about your feelings lately, how you felt like loosing her as you said. Its but fair for both of you that you sit and talk about your relationship and where its going. Maybe you have miscommunication thats why you happen to talk not as much as you do before when your relationship is just new. Guys should know girls wanted to be courted everyday like not loosing interest in her. I called it consistency in giving her attention. Maybe the new dude makes her feel shes interesting and alot of maybe... but you wont know unless you two sit and really talk and make up for the lost times. Relationship is giving time. What will happen? That depends on you and how you look at it but whatever happens im sure you will survive. Cheer up!

Answer 7

Unfortunately, that happens quite often and you again have to be the "bigger guy" and let her do her thing. Who knows, maybe she will find that the grass isn't always greener on the other side like most people think! Or it could be she just needs space! BUT don't give up! Tell her exactly how you feel...ask her..."am I being paranoid or what?" Only she can answer your question!

Answer 8

Find a way to get through it. Hate to say it, but it wont be the last time probably. Worst feeling in the world, dont let it hold you down too long or your hurting yourself worse than her. I wasted a year of youth whining over a girl, saw her not long ago and she`s a dog now.

Answer 9

Start working out. Make new friends, find a new girl.

She's obviously interested in someone else. You should be too.

If you obsess over it, it will ruin every relationship you have going forward.

So let her be. You move on.

True, its nasty having to go through heartbreak. We all know.

The worst one is the first one. After that, the sting isn't quite as bad.

She's been trying to fade out of your life and so you're fear is increased tenfold.

Face it. You can't make a girl love you. And think of it this way. If she's into someone else now, that means SHE's changed not you.

Be that as it may, you might ask her if you've done anything to her to make her want to ignore you.

But I wouldn't push her. Women are pretty weird. When they're on a manhunt, they can get ferocious.

Answer 10

sad to say but honestly,..yes, there could be the possibility of you being left by your girl for someone else.

but this isn't the end of everything. yes, you can leave your life without her. Shame, instead of thinking of the sad thing, you should be praying and be thankful that a girl, once in your life, came past you and change your life...for the better...

it is right that you should be asking for her happiness,, coz everyone deserves it.

now, dont think that you arent happy....maybe now but not until someone knocks you off that road of life and captured your heart.


God knows whats best for you, and obviously she isn't the best, for if she is the right one then most likely she should be their by your side....you just have to cool yourself for a while and enjoy life....sooner or later, God will send down his angel to meet you and she could be that ONE>


a stanza from DESIDERATA:

Be yourself, Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all arridity and disenchantment
it is perrinial as the grass.


Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gently surrendering the things of the youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to sheild you in sudden misfortunes....\




My dear, take a deep breath, listen to the calm soul within you...
cry for it cleanses the soul but dont forget to be back to the 'real world'

Youve got to keep moving on, or else that change that she made will be of no use...

It is still a wonderful world. strive to be happy!


Talk to Him. Say your heartaches, surrender your worries.
He'll take care of it. He loves you as much as I do.


Godbless!
COntinue life! Love and be loved!