What if someone you were dating/getting to know told you they'd used cocaine and meth..started bragging about what a great high it was and how much they liked it.Would you find them interesting/exciting or would you be turned off?
2007-09-13 23:28:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends if your into that kind of stuff
2007-09-13 23:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. If you know that they used when they were younger and just did it to party, then no big deal, but if they used regularly, then it might be a problem. For instance, when i was younger, i partied alot, drank beer , smoked some weed and did a little coke too, but only a few times and several years ago, and my wife knows this, not a concern for her because i don't do this anymore, so i think it may be a big deal or it may not. I would be the first to tell you that the feeling you get on cocaine is great and makes you feel like you are on top of the world, but as a responsible adult, i know i don't need to do it anymore because its not worth the problems it causes otherwise.
2007-09-14 07:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've never used drugs before then its hard to understand them..... i've taken ectasy when i was younger.... i wouldnt dare touch it now as i've grown up alot, i do alk about it sometimes and i do say how great it was cus at the time it was.... the feeling was good. I havent touched drugs in a long time and i wouldnt even consider going back down that path..... it depends how this prson is saying it, is he saying it as if to try and get you to try it to try and convince you because if this is the case then really you are best off away from them, if they are just telling about their experiences then its fine as long as u know they wont go back to it. If they are talking about it constantly then let them know that you dont find it interesting and you dont want to talk about it.
they do sound a bit immature but try n tell them u dont like drugs.... or change the topic to something else. If it carries on then they are sounding more interested in drugs than you. Follow you instinct... you know whats right and wrong. :)
2007-09-13 23:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by mybabyefe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person was just a friend, I would try to deal with it because friends stick together and I might be able to help.
It also depends on whether the person has quit or is still using.
I dated a guy on drugs and it is not good. He kept trying to get me to join him and his friends. He was not relationship material. He was too busy with his drugs to see his life was falling apart.
It is a definite turn off.
2007-09-14 06:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Alright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a turn off if their bragging about it, So there is always a Chance that they might go back to using again, but in the the end the choice is up to you weather or not you want to stay or go..
2007-09-13 23:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by It's me!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wonder why they need a drug to enjoy life?do they have any clues what these drugs will do to them ? and if they enjoyed them so much what will happen if your with them while under the influence of them. my ex as of last night is in the hospital ,hasnt done anything recently,they checked,from the effects of those drugs his body is shutting down on him .he choose them for 5 years and it fuc#ed him and his life up. they are so mind controling that all you think and want is more no matter what you have to do to get it. he gave up his family and all his pocessions to get more and now he is left with nothing.
2007-09-14 00:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they still do this for recreation. To each his own. You cannot down a person for what they do, you just have to make the descion if this is right for u or not.
2007-09-13 23:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask her if she could score me some cheap charlie and then maybe cain some big fat lines with her before having filthy se,x
2007-09-14 07:22:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess I'd be afraid of having him returning to use them, so that suspicion would turn me off.
2007-09-14 08:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by inka 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would steer clear of them. I'm not into the drug scene, and I wouldn't date someone who was.
2007-09-13 23:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be both maby turn off if they were to cocky about it but do remember it is was there past every one has one its what in the present that matters
2007-09-13 23:32:32 · answer #11 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋