Im 20 and shes at the least 15 shes in the 10th grade and Im in college
She's a blue belt in my karate class and Im a black belt, Im sure shes just handling this professionally or maybe I could be wrong, We've been getting really close I think, um sometimes were arguing during break or teasing each other or making fun of one another And after class alot of us stay after and do Jujitsu well last week her brother had to miss practice and me and Her did Jujitsu after class and it was just me and her and we wore ourselves out to the point of when one of us tapped we rested on each other..lol and there were some awkward moments as usual in that but yeah. A couple of times before she was tickling me with her feet and then it stopped for a while and now well we got in each others face you know like that What!? look yeah I was like this looks wrong she said you have no idea I can't just turn what im feeling, and no idea why she acts like that and I know its illegal for me to like her arrgh
2007-09-13 20:20:29 · 29 answers · asked by dudewheresmycar86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It has nothing to do with sex either..Im noticing alot of the answers have to do with that! I'm waiting till I get married for that.
But what about the way shes acting toward me there was answer about if she felt scorned she might say something..well wouldn't she feel scorned if I just started being cold to her?
2007-09-14 06:04:17 · update #1
You are an adult man interested in a 15 year old girl. She is a minor, under aged for you and you have the potential to get yourself into a LOT of trouble. Stay clear of her for now, be friends and wait til she's 18 or older. If this is a relationship meant to be, then the time wait will be well worth it.
2007-09-13 20:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear1957 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not illegal for you to like her, it's illegal only as far as sex goes. I personally don't see age as anything but a number, unless one of the people involved is too young to understand fully what is going on around them. Immaturity of a child cannot cope with a relationship with a grown 20 year old man. On the other hand, this girl is 15 years old, only a few years away from being an adult. I doubt she is very immature. Look, is there a chance for a real future with her? If not, forget it because it isn't worth losing your freedom to a jail cell. If you do see a future, just wait it out. Things will fall into place as it should.
2007-09-14 03:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth a 20 year sentence and be marked as a sex offender for the rest of your life? The answer is no. Just forget it. You need to break off any connections as far as feelings go. Wait three years, if you still feel the same about her (you probably won't), but if you do, then try it out. If you don't feel the same, then you will be very glad that you ddin't do anything stupid. The government made laws for a reason.
2007-09-14 03:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A whole lot of nice guys have really messed up their lives being in situations just like yours. Do yourself a favor and close your eyes for a moment. Think about the feeling you would get when the police knock on your door, imagine hearing the click of the handcuffs around your wrist...standing in a court room and having the judge as "How do you plead?"
Knowing you will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life, whever you go...knowing there are people who dedicate their lives to making the lives sex offenders miserable--if not dangerous...
Be a MAN in this situation. Put some distance between the two of you. Go to a different class, find a different partner. She is just testing out her sexuality and attractiveness....she doesn't know what she is doing and you think that she means it...
When you don't see her for a while, you will realize how silly and dangerous it was.
Good Luck--DON'T DO IT.
2007-09-14 03:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by joellemoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude... I was in the same situation. Well I was 19, but close enough. My friend looked me in the eyes, and said hey... Some people are probably going to assume you're a creep, but if you look back, are you gonna be more pissed if you try, or if you don't try?
He was right. We've been together for 6 years. She's 20 and I'm 24 and age stopped being an issue a long time ago.
2007-09-14 03:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Shitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Youre the adult here, she's just a kid. its up to you to make sure nothing happens. You must let her know she's way too young for you two to have a relationship.
Make sure you're never alone with her, if she feels scorned she may make up lies about what you did to her etc, and you'll be in trouble anyway so dont be alone with her.
shes just a kid. If my 14 year old daugher had a guy of 19 after her i would wonder whats wrong with the guy that makes him go for girls rather than women!
Be a man and steer clear of dating children!
2007-09-14 03:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I am telling you 2 words. JAIL BAIT! Be careful. 15 y.o. girls have a tendency to run their mouths, "OMG- I'm dating a 20-something." I know, becaues I used to be one. I liked them older too. If her parents found, you would be totally screwed. Not to mention the law would bite you in the bum. I would sevre all ties. For your protection. Legally, she has NO say. Be very careful. You do not want to be branded as a "sex offender." If the cops found out, you would be. At least you pointed out the problem. In some states, wait till she is 16. That would depend on the state. Good Luck!
2007-09-14 03:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by ellienix05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uummm..first off, lets just pray that her parents dont have one of these yahoo answer things, as well as any law inforcements..naw but on a real note it seem like u really gotta thing for her. and honestly if she is mature enough to handle the sistuation then talk about with her. age is only realy a number, i mean im 22 and im dating a 36 year old. (god damn,i didnt realize 14 year difference..oh i gotta call him) but yeah sleep on that and if she is worht the risk..then go for it..u wouldnt be the the 1st to date someone younger. jus take into consideration that she's not legal either...
2007-09-14 03:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by loveairy06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth be spoken... this is illegal! I am 22 and i date a 33 year old man so i know what you're going through! But, i was 20 when i started dating him, so it was legal at the time. Point: My best friend was 16 and fell head over heels in love with a 19 year old guy, I thought they'd get married, eventually. she told her best friend who told her best friend who told her best friend who told her mama who ran into the boyfriend's mama at the grocery store and threatened to sue... Long story short, my friend got convicted at 19 and just got out of jail on good behavior... he's 28 now, and without that love, she's now married. Be careful, cause you really never know who's gonna run their mouth
2007-09-14 03:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Beth H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sherlock.... She's 15. Can you spell J-A-I-L B-A-I-T????
If you feel the same way about her in 3 years, fine. Until
then, back off. She's going to get you into trouble and she
deserves the time to develop her own interests and sense
of self on her own.
I'm not saying that you can't be friends from afar- but you
need to back off and wait. Have some respect. She's in 10th
grade. Can you spell S-E-X O-F-F-E-N-D-E-R R-E-G-I-S-T-R-Y? You're probaby a nice guy. Do yourself a favor and just
keep your relationship at arm's length. If it was meant to be,
it was meant to be.
I married a guy who was 8 years older. So did my sister.
But, we were all in our 20's. Wait. There's still hope.
2007-09-14 03:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Linda S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude unless you want to go to jail, then stay away...yeah you guys probably do have "serious" feelings for each other but can you really have a relationship with someone still in high school?! Get with a girl over 18 unless you want a big convict named Bubba practicing his moves on you
2007-09-14 03:27:09 · answer #11 · answered by Smiley Bright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋