I don't get what is going on! My boyfriend of 6 months did me wrong last weekend. He said he would call me and didn't. I called him and tried to make plans for the next day and he never answered my text until the next night when he wanted to hang out. But because my reply wasn't prompt he said "maybe next week." I was mad but didnt say anything. I was trying to figure out how I was going to handle it. Then Monday at work he shows up sick. I was already mad so I wasn't very nice to him. I wasn't really mean, either. He went home sick and I haven't heard from him until about 30 mins ago. I sent a text at 9 to ask if he was better and at 1:30 he says he's better, thanks for asking.
What is the deal? Is he done with me or what? I feel so hurt by him. I've put so much effort into our relationship and he treats me life this? I don't know what to do. Any help???
2007-09-13 19:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by sweetie_cakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My rule of thumb is to go with my gut instinct. 9 times out of 10, in my experience, when you're in a relationship and you think something isn't right, it generally isn't. It doesn't necessarily mean that something is REALLY wrong, but you can tell a lot about how someone feels about you by how they act/speak/show emotion around you. Its people science.
I assume you're still young and I also assume that you still like him and want things to work. If that's the case, you should ask him about it. Don't do it in an accusatory way, but simply ask him how he feels the relationship is going. You're 1/2 of it, so you're entitled to know, right?
If he is in the least bit mature about life, he will tell you how he feels. If you feel that he is lying, tell him you need a break for a while and wait for him to come back to you.
Keep your head up and be mature about things. If he is worth it, he will stay around and try to work things out. Good luck!
2007-09-13 19:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You relationship is only 6 months old.. that's not a lot of time to know eachother too well.
But do remember this: You teach a person how they can treat you. If he is saying he'll call but doesn't then don't call him back and give it some time before you answer a call of his. Let him know why you are upset but don't make a huge issue unless he does it a second time.
Sounds like he doesn't see the need to make this very serious right now. He probably wants to see you occasionally.
2007-09-13 19:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't apperciate something until its gone, so leave him alone and if he comes back then it's meant to be. I had the same problem but I had to break it off he wants me back but I can't deal with him but If he wants you back afterwards and you can handle it and make sure things have changed lay all the cards on the table and if he really is into you then he would be willing to change some of the things you tell him is wrong or he should atleast attempt to correct somethings. So explain to him that you didn't apperciate him doing those things. Good Luck!!!
2007-09-13 19:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by yopoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, don't be afraid. and upset. Don't think that all the things and matter will happen as you want. If you both love each other, then there is nothing to worry, but make sure that both of you love truly.
And as you wrote that he was sick, may be he didn't replied you because of sickness.
Why don't you directly ask him? Isn't it better to ask him and make the fact clear?
Ok, take it easy. All the best
2007-09-13 19:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by akareem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its simple really if you can leave him then leave him who is forcing you to hang out with a guy who obviously doesn't want to hang out with you. If you can do better then seek a better guy, your current BF is being so ambiguous and he is so evasive you dont want to be with a guy like that, right. Good Luck, I know some guys are just simply jerks I know a couple of them myself but what can you do you cant change everyone, look for someone better.
2007-09-13 19:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by D S♦T♦A♦R♦S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he texts you and wants to hang out, tell him that you have already made plans. It is his loss. He is playing games, and you don't need to be sitting by the phone waiting. Move on and find someone that deserves you, because he certainly doesn't
2007-09-13 19:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him again, right now, and say why are you acting like this, see if that gets an instant reply. If he doesnt realise he's coming off like this - i dunno why he wouldnt but hey hes a guy... - he should immediately reply & ask Like what.... if he doesnt respond at all & just leaves you hanging like hes done before, then you'll know something's up... Good luck!
2007-09-13 19:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it.. Cause the communcation thing is missing.. Maybe you should tell him to sit down and clear the things out why he havent return your calls or text you back.. Dont be angry when you ask him to sit down and talk.. Be calm and ask him whats going on.. And work the things out.. I hope my advice helps you.....
2007-09-13 19:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sakae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i so0o kno how u feel but u so0o need to chill..hes sick not cheating..lol just relax..when he feels better ask him if u could have a day 2gether.. maby ur just in that stage in ur relationship where hes just Sucre..u kno like luvs being wit u but his heart doesn't explode every time he sees u.. u just need to relax cuz if u dont ur gonna end up pushing him away
2007-09-13 19:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by 3.J.Z_WiFi3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are jerks at times just like we are at times to right now hes just trying to establish he's boss stand your ground and let him now you won't stand for it if he leaves good ridence
2007-09-13 19:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by amanda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋