Why do I attract married men?

Question

I tend to attract them at my work (which is, at a bank). But I am very aware of their status and don't flirt with them. I am in my twenties and look younger than my age (baby-faced to say the least). I am not interested in dating them at all! One of them even asked me for my phone number (which I refused to give him), and after he realized I found out he was married, he began to act angrily everytime he came into the bank, even sitting down at an empty employee's desk before getting up and storming out. Does being vulnerable-looking attract these types?

Answer 1

Some older men tend to look for younger babes to reassure themselves that they are still attractive. Baby it is not your fault.

Answer 2

Are married men attracted to young single women? Why do they cheat on their wives? I'd say the more messed up person in the situation would be the man. Some women are just immature and like these things-- not all, or most women for that matter. Most women are smart enough to know that if a guy is going to cheat on his wife, he won't make a very good mate. Just because the skank population stands out more, doesn't mean most of us are like that. That's not even close to being true.

Answer 3

Married Men will always have an attraction for younger girls (in their 20s that is)

If you think about it.... If a man is married and has kids.... his sex life isn't probably like it used to be. his wife is aging and probably becoming less attractive and more of a "mom" in his eyes.

So, when they go to the bank to make some transactions and see a beautiful young girl on the other side of the desk all dressed up.... their attraction kicks in and "fantasies"

If I were you, I would simply look at it as a sheer sign of flattery. Laugh about it, and move on about your day :-)

Answer 4

Yup... you probably look too young to have any common sense, so the old goats are flocking to you.

I would suggest getting a cheap-o wedding band set... or asking your mom to let you borrow hers... and wearing that at work. Something like that can provide a nice-enough barrier.
Have an official short cover story for the local nosy customers.
This will help you maintain professional demeanor.

Answer 5

These men sound like pigs, I think your doing just fine. I doubt it's the fact that your attracting married men because your vulnerable. It's mostly because these men have no morals and lack the ablility to have a strong commitment with their wives. Stick to your guns and these guys will go away.

Answer 6

The world we live in is filled with "dark" we have to fight to be in the LIGHT!
You are a young person and you attract them only because they are not really human beings...they are acting like animals...thinking with the body not the brain! We all need to understand few simple things if we want to have a Real Life!

Answer 7

Possibly, men like that are always looking & will hit on just about anybody,any place, anytime. Next time give them the banks phone number, seeing as at that moment that is your number. I hope you told your boss he hit on you & how he behaved later, in case he tries to get you in trouble, cause he just may do that so you don't tell his wife on him.

Answer 8

No, just being a young, attractive lady in an office with a bunch of mid-life crisis, unfulfilled dreams, married-the-wrong-gal men puts you at risk for that.

Answer 9

Maybe your baby face gives them the impression you are easy pickings and when you reject advances they take it out on you. Since they will be angry anyway next time anyone of them asks for your phone number say...no give me yours and I'll call your wife and see if she would like to come along with us for whatever your planning.

Answer 10

yes, married men are attracted to vulnerable-looking ladies. coz they are commited so they want some1 they can play and ditch, they take advantage of yo vulnerability. i know better, biliv me! been there too!. im proud that u r not entertaining them. Way to go girl!!!