I like this guy whos kinda like the big man on campus at my highschool. He wants to hang out but hes kinda full of himself so I want to play hard to get to make him want me more. How do I do that ?
2007-09-13 19:14:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard to get girls have good, clean character and high principles. They have values and lots of self-confidence. They know their self and know their weak points and flaws, etc. They don't demand anything from their b/f but still they don't compromise their integrity. They are fun and easy to be with. They are a challenge to a guy (which he secretly enjoys, immensely). Hard to get girls are full of mystery; other girls say to themselves "Humph!! What's she got that I ain't got?!! Send me an e-mail hon...... I'll tell you lots more; there's so much more to say on the subject.
btw, from the above posts, it's clear to see that none of these people understand the concept of "playin' hard to get" in any way what-so-ever!!
2007-09-13 19:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play hard to get. Guys really don't like that kind of girl. Guys want an open and strike forward girl. Not a person who holds back and waits. In other cases what I'm saying is that if the guy doesn't like you give it up, he's not worth your tears or love or care or beauty or personality. go for a guy you've known for a long time and see the eye contact you see in each other. Looks don't matter its the heart and personality! They maybe hot but still go for the nice guy. If you had to choose between a hot guy who cheats alot and is the crappiest boyfriend ever or a okay looking guy who's great and loves you for you and won't look at another girl unless you say so. Go for the guy who loves you better than he does. Heart is something a guy or girl should play with. Both males anf females have emotions that aren't supposed to be played with. Love them and make sure they love you back.
2007-09-13 19:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been a player, I hate these games and I don't think men like them either!! What is the point of playing hard to get really if you think about it?? Once you got him that will be the whole object of the game and then you don't need him anymore. I would just let things progress naturally, and if you are meant to be together you will be, otherwise what would you want with a stuck up idiot, who is so shallow, that he only cares about pulling chicks with his looks?? Sorry to be so blunt!
2007-09-13 19:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by piano19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he has to notice you so you can play. Wear your sexiest clothes and then hang out with the other guys. He will think you are easy. When he connects, give him the cold shoulder. He will be challenged, thinking you don't find him as attractive as the other guys.
2007-09-13 19:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sinta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hard to get" is just an excuse for being too chicken to take a risk for romance. BTW, why on earth would you want to date a guy who is "full of himself"? You are heading for a heartbreak there.
2007-09-13 19:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol do what my ex ole lady used to do,, talk to everyone around him and be nice and go out of your way to not talk to him much,,, it a real male burner, tee hee, but remember too there is always much more pretter ladies out there for a guy too.
2007-09-13 19:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at highschool ?! nice...be frank to him thats enough
2007-09-13 19:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rip Van Winkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him and if he asks u out pretend u don't want to, that kind of thing
2007-09-13 19:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by babybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sexy in disguise like you know you want him but he don't know that......basically, stay away from him...more reason for him to go to you
2007-09-13 19:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give him attention. especially if thats what he's use to. be distant, but nice, but dont jump at him when you see him or talk to him. its all a game so make yourself unavailable. good luck!
2007-09-13 19:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by BBONKERS 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋