There's this girl I like and I have told her how I felt last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. However, as time goes I feel that some things have changed, and she sometimes shows some interests. But yesterday, for the first time in few months, I saw her talking to this boy who likes her too! They were talking about a bowling plan, and they seemed to talk more than usual (they also talk like five months ago but it ceased). That guy and his pals ask her and pals on a bowling plan, but the first time they declined. The second is cancelled due to a clashing schedule though. She seems to talk to him more though, but she also tries to evade him sometimes and I don't think she makes any attempt to be with him. I'm a more shy person and hence I can barely start conversation, although sometimes she would teases me, but today we were having a group dinner, and I seem to be more quiet (also due to the shock yesterday) and she rather grumbles asking more people to speak more. She also teases me and laughs at the comments that my friends made about me. And she also talks to her friend about me (one of her friends is really angry with me, I don't know why), I think it's like asking her to forgive. But I DIDN'T start a conversation, although a couple of times she show some interests, like teasing me and helping me a lot.
And now I'm thinking of 'asking her out' by texting like, "Hey, let's watch ... movie some day..." and see what goes on. Would it work? Is it too late? But looking at her talking to him and his friends about the bowling plan - somehow it rather stops me from chasing her? It seems that she talks to him more and more interested - but she doesn't seem to want to spend more time with him! But, besides the moment when he starts a conversation, she doesn't seem interested in him. Does she like him or a 'just friends'?
2007-09-13 19:49:39 · 8 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone changes. What happened one year ago when you told her how you felt about her is probably not something she is sure you still feel.
Women love to be appreciated and cherished. If you really like her still then express yourself truthfully.
Whether she sees "him" as just a friend or more than a friend, is that the question that's really on your mind?
Or is the question really - will she see "me" as more than just a friend?
Go ahead and ask her out. Why text her, just ask her.
2007-09-13 20:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by whtdoido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 10:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? the best thing for you to do is to ask this girl out-once and for all. then tell her what you feel.wether she accepts you or not is no longer the issue. the point is, you came out of that shell of yours! if she rejects you, at least you know what she really feels even if it hurts. but what if she accepts you? then it's heaven, man! so, stop wondering and make your move.
2007-09-13 19:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not depend your reaction onto her action. Step up and ask her out. Make the move.
2007-09-13 20:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Eiann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk as i know a girls mind is sometimes a scary place but dont text call and ask if she wants to catch a movie sometime and if she says yes make sure you dont scare her away by getting to involved before the first date make sure you dont cancel on her rearrange your schedule if you have to:}
2007-09-13 20:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bull ****. this girl is a lousy ***** understand that . she is just using you for her pasttime . move on there are so many young girtls waiting for you.she does not deserve you.
2007-09-13 19:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by nagarajan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont text her and ask her. Ask her to her face, it always turns out better in the end. :)
2016-04-04 00:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question is f-ing long dude, what the hell, I wont answer your question because you suck.
2007-09-13 19:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋