Singles & Dating - 16 September 2007

Well, I started dating this girl a year & 3 months ago and it was pretty much love at first sight. Everything was perfect & things moved really fast but she & I both loved eachother very much. Recently she got a job which is ruining our relationship cus she has no time for me nemore. I showed up at her work one time mad & since then she claims she's scared of me. Thurs. night everything was perfect, she was asking for kisses saying she loved me. After not having heard from her for 4 days I decide to meet her after work to say Hi. She sees me and starts freaking out running away and then calls the police on me. I am so confused, everything was fine an next thing i know cops are called on me? I love her so much & want to get back with her but I am angry, hurt and my trust has been betrayed from this. I have been letting my mom and her mom try and communicate things since she is too immature to talk to me herself. Should I get back w/ her? If so, how should I go about getting her back?

2007-09-16 07:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by Jae L 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 9 months. He is a really nice guy he buys me just about anything I want I also love him. However there is a problem with our sex life it is awful. although he goes down and all that is great .but when he is hard everything is great when he is in side but after 2 min he comes. and it is not pre becasue alot of it is in the condom. We have gotten in agruements about this and he said it is not me its him what could i do to help him stay up longer. Serious answers only please!!!

2007-09-16 07:36:30 · 4 answers · asked by cute1 2

OK, I have been with this guy for over 15 months now and we have never met. We met through a mutual friend of ours....he lives in VA and I'm in CA. We both have made arrangements in the past to meet but unfortunately other things came up. He has been battling cancer for years. We love each other to know end but the other day I told him that if we dont meet within the next 4 months I might want to date. No serious relationship but more of a companion to go and out with here and there. I am a single Mommy of a three year old son and he has a daughter as well, which lives with her Mom. My question....how much longer should I wait to finally meet him in person??????? I'm willing to wait forever if I just knew it would happen one day or should I move on and let him do the same??????? I'm so confused at this point and I'm getting kinda lonely at the same time.....

2007-09-16 07:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been persued by men since jr.high.But I'm really friendly and ougoing,so me being nice to guys I'm not sexually attracted to at all has given them the impression that I will want to date them.I don't believe you should ever date somebody unless you are attracted to them from the beginning in some way or another,otherwise you just string the guy along while trying to force an attraction(have seen this happen to my nice but not attractive guy friends too many times).So now I'm 21 and have never dated,yet I always have guys comming after me, just not the ones I'm attracted to.Should I just get it over with and date guys I'm not sexually attracted to at all,or try persuing the kind of men I'm attracted to?(although I believe men should do the persuing).Before you call me shallow, could you REALLY imagine kissing or ******* a person you have no attraction to?(not just once either!). I'm also really shy around hot guys,but super friendly to guys I feel nothing for.

2007-09-16 07:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 07:18:05 · 6 answers · asked by Violet 4

This boy said he liked me, but then went out with someone else, we stayed close but he kept saying to me how he still loved me etc etc.

Long story short they have broken up, and i have been hearing things about him saying mean things about me. So now i hate him, but ever sinse hes been talking to my friend and asking does she still like me, and has sent emails and tried to sit by me but every time i moved. And he has been talking to my friends about me asking to talk to me, telling them to get me to be friends with him again.

What should i do give him a chance and take things slow, because i still really like him.

2007-09-16 07:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always says flirty comments to me, he invited me over his place one night(i had to refuse though)he is the local bartender and i did not want to be just another night tohim.he yelled i love you to me one night when i left,but i just kept walking out.ive ben playing hard to get so he will ask me out.he has not,just flirts a lot and makes comments,

2007-09-16 06:51:08 · 5 answers · asked by kelly k 1

Okay so i decided to ask this friend of mine to homecoming btw i'm a guy haha um and homecoming... is like... 3 weeks--ish away i was gonna ask her... soon like this week. i was planning on like getting a little plastic ball and like saying catch and on the ball it says like" Will you go to homecoming with me?" and check list "yes" "No" "Maybe so" how does that sound? i'm doing it cause she's like really into sports like soccer and stuff so tell me whatcha think

2007-09-16 06:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by Spicey 3

2007-09-16 06:42:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

for starters he is the local bartender.he asked for my number a year ago,he always flirts with me,he yelled'i love you'one night when i was leaving.he will give me a hug when he sees me in there or say hello to me.he never called though,so i started talking to his best friend,just on the phone,we cuddled in bed one night(his bf and I).but i still like him not his friend.so he still flirts with me except when his friend is around he acts like he hates me,why? is he even interested?

2007-09-16 06:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by kelly k 1

what do you look for in a girl like should she be sexy or flashy tell me?

2007-09-16 06:30:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been wanting to break up with my boyfriend but I cant beacause I think that I'm stuck. Everytime I try to break up with him I fall right back in love with him. The basis of me wanting to break up with him is that I find him talking to females on the phone and I found a small piece of a condom wrapper on the floor next to his bed. He swore up and down that his brother has sex with girls in his room sometimes, so like an idiot I believed him. The other thing is I think that I have womens' intuition and that sometimes I get this gut feeling that he's cheating on me and it's really strong. But my friends think that womens intuition is stupid and doesn't exist. I don't know how to end the relationship.

2007-09-16 06:25:58 · 4 answers · asked by Noodles 2

2007-09-16 06:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

he is very over protective and i don't know if it is a good thing or a bad thing! can u help me?

2007-09-16 06:16:01 · 12 answers · asked by witty 2

the last time we went out I hopped out of his car and accidentally left my cd collection in his car. When he dropped me off he said he would like to see me again. I didn't hear from him for two weeks so I finally gave him a call at which point he tells me he's sorry but he's just not interested but would still like to be friends. He lives at a distance and I have asked him three times to send me my CD's.
I am a huge music lover ! It took me years to buy my collection not to mention lots of money and I would really like my CD's back!
Its been months now and still NO CD's !
Any ideas on how I can get him to finally send me my property? What do you think about this guy? Bad enough that he lead me on but keep my cd collection too?! What gives? I found out that we have opposite tastes in music ! Did he suddenly change his mind and taste in music too?

2007-09-16 06:11:15 · 11 answers · asked by maryv2013 3

Tell me I'm cute but I just can't go out with you?

2007-09-16 05:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by Adam B 3

boys around the age 17/18
i know girls to do too but im talking about boys!!!!

2007-09-16 05:39:05 · 19 answers · asked by iloveit 1

should I continue contacting his family that I've befriended through him? p.s. I dont want him involved with us either...and YES, I have moved on

2007-09-16 05:35:41 · 14 answers · asked by MexicanTlingitVisayan 2

question was what can you tell a girl to make her know she is special?

2007-09-16 05:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend has been sending me messages saying luv ya...does this have the same meaning as i love you

2007-09-16 05:33:43 · 21 answers · asked by dmckne1 1

Ok u people helped me choose out a guy in my other question but if u dont kno he is in 12th grade his name is DaMas and he is very polite. He e ven asked my brother promission to ask me out. But im in the 9th grade and im 13. Now what do i do?
I'm going to say yes to him but he lives in hartford and i live in another town the only reason he goes to my skool is because his parents dont want him in the violence down there. but what can i do. i dont see him in skool and if i do its only for a few minutes. What are some good places to go on a date.

2007-09-16 05:30:30 · 16 answers · asked by ☆ ♥ Lil Ms. Sunshine♥☆ 2

if my boyfriend and me are taking a few days apart from eachother, not talking or seeing eachother.. and he has me blocked on msn so we cant msg eachother, should i block him also? or should i leave him to where he can msg me if he wants to talk? he wanted the break, not me. i feel like i should block him so he doesn't know what i'm doing, which is nothing sitting here.. and so he wonders and maybe calls me bc if he sees im sitting around doing nothing then he will just be like okay i can do this a few more days, but if he sees im not even online he might be like hey, she doesnt wanna talk to me either.. whats up with this.. u know how guys are, i cant explain what i mean very well.. sorry. but should i block him too? until were done this little break? or leave him unblocked..

2007-09-16 05:30:03 · 4 answers · asked by New Beginnings? ♥ 1

So basically I'm in college now and I've set this "rule" down for myself where basically I can't jerk off anymore.

I'm just wondering if there are any positive/negative effects that may come of this.

Thanks

2007-09-16 05:19:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is the local bartender, whenever im in there i can see him stare, but he never really talks to me, and when i try to talk to him he seems like he hates me,we have eachothers phone numbers buit we never call eachother,we have sent eachother myspace messages about getting together and have not gotten together, so its almost akward seeing eachother,but i still feel like he hates me?

2007-09-16 05:10:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of 5 months, we were together every day, very happy together, I was never happier with anyone else. But I found out when I went away twice, he called my girlfriend and asked her out to eat dinner and watch movie. He also asked her if she is working when he is going on a business trip. (she is flight attendant). How he got her number is when she was at my house and he was there, he took her number from her cell phone without anyone's knowledge. I had suspision that my friend and him were flirting at my house that day so I stopped talking to my friend and had huge fight with my boyfriend. My friend told me this one day and I broke up with him. He says he is terribly sorry and his intention was not cheating but to fix my friendship with her.

I love him terribly and I was so happy. He says he feels terrible and will never happen again and it was mistake. Would you break up with him? Please help. I am in a lot of pain and it hurts.

2007-09-16 05:09:46 · 41 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

Do you think it's wrong to go out with a guy when you know that you won't sleep with him till you're married..but you don't see yourself married to him?
What would you call two people in this situation - they're dating? they're friends? they're just hanging out?

2007-09-16 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright heres the story. Whenever my mom wear her workout pants (black stretchy and tight) I just can't help but stare at her butt. Its just so jiggly and round, and I would really like to grab it. I'm 15 years old. Is it wrong to get turned on by her butt, even though it's only when she wears her workout pants?

2007-09-16 04:51:07 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend of almost 5 months and I broke up yesterday and it's absolutely killing me! What can I do to not feel so bad?

2007-09-16 04:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any non-white girls out there who are really into white guys for their looks, etc... and not just for their money or because their tired of men of their own race? i'm just curious because it seems asian, hispanic, and black women who date white guys only want their money and don't really love them or date them because they are "tired" of men of their own race. I'm not saying its always like that, but it seems 50% of the time it really is. What do you think?

2007-09-16 04:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by Dusk 6

bad days,bad moments.there is a girl 'R' who tried to hurt me with another friend and here i am angry and its wrong 2 be but that what happened.i fighted with here in february because she wanted 2 take my boyfriend so i told her that i dont like cheaters.so she told him and all the drama happened.but last month i sad well i will forgot about it and i called her and i was nice and i sad in my mind i'll forgive her because we were friend.but now in RAMADAN like she's trying 2 hurt me by talking behind my back.so i did the same and talked my best friend cz i was sad and i needed 2 talk 2 somebody.i lied 2 'R' and told her that my life is great this year(but its not).but what makes me sad that am i eveil?am i bad?if devil arent here why im feeling like that?im afraid honestly i dont wanna be bad and i dont want GOD to be angry because i lied and i hate what im having in these days?tell me what to do?i dont want RAMADAN 2 pass with me being bad and eveil and not the way it suppose 2 be.HELP

2007-09-16 04:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous