I have been wanting to break up with my boyfriend but I cant beacause I think that I'm stuck. Everytime I try to break up with him I fall right back in love with him. The basis of me wanting to break up with him is that I find him talking to females on the phone and I found a small piece of a condom wrapper on the floor next to his bed. He swore up and down that his brother has sex with girls in his room sometimes, so like an idiot I believed him. The other thing is I think that I have womens' intuition and that sometimes I get this gut feeling that he's cheating on me and it's really strong. But my friends think that womens intuition is stupid and doesn't exist. I don't know how to end the relationship.
2007-09-16 06:25:58 · 4 answers · asked by Noodles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. I caught my dad cheating on my mom and it's been effecting me almost my entire life!
It is hard to even confront him, much less tell him the truth that I don't trust him, and need to be away from him. It's like you have all the evidence in the world, but you still NEED the confession! You want your bf to come forward and admit to something. yeah, I understand. Just don't count on that happening.
I agree with miss singora. You have to do something RIGHT NOW.. about it! Plus, maybe you have done something that is not right to him...? no judgement, I just know people tend to stay in situations, because of their own withholds.. anyways, I would come clean with your boyfriend, and stop all the drama.
2007-09-16 06:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Gina D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST THE GUT!!! intuition + reasoning = rational thinking!
Your stuck between what you know you should do n what you want to do. The solution: WILLPOWER. You can leave him. You dont need a cheating man or a possible disease!
2007-09-16 13:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not "stuck" unless your feet are nailed to the floor! I have found women's intuition to be very accurate! How to end it? Tell him, "I'm spending too much time wondering if you're cheating and I don't trust you. I trust my gut and it says I need to move on, so....."BYE!"
2007-09-16 13:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
txt him tht u wanna break up!!! that way u dont acually have to talk to him! or leave a voice note from ur cell that way ull dump him in ur voice but he wont be on the other end so u can't fall back in love
2007-09-16 13:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by * 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋