This boy said he liked me, but then went out with someone else, we stayed close but he kept saying to me how he still loved me etc etc.
Long story short they have broken up, and i have been hearing things about him saying mean things about me. So now i hate him, but ever sinse hes been talking to my friend and asking does she still like me, and has sent emails and tried to sit by me but every time i moved. And he has been talking to my friends about me asking to talk to me, telling them to get me to be friends with him again.
What should i do give him a chance and take things slow, because i still really like him.
2007-09-16 07:03:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k so let him think that you like him now and let him sit next to u an stuff but u dont make conversation with him let him make convertsation with you. keep doin that for a while then wen he tells u he likes u agen say well why wer ya speekin to other ppl sayin stuff bout me?
if he tells u fair enough an u can get over that then do wat u wnna do... but if he dont tell you i wud just leave him alone.
Alex
2007-09-16 07:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound real young, I would go out with your friends, if you want to include this boy with that group of friends then see how things go... chances are that if a person messes you about once they will do it all again especially if they think you really like them.
Play it cool and indifferent
2007-09-16 07:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by joepublic101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the mistake you made was listening to other people telling you that he was calling you behind your back, unless you hear it from his mouth then no matter how good these friends are go to the main person and find out if he is saying them. really you`ve answered your own question, take it slow n give him a go if you really like him you have nothing to lose, just don`t always believe wat others say x
2007-09-16 11:39:59 · answer #3 · answered by fezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never take hearsay as gospel. Did he really talk about you or did someone just tell you that to make you mad at him? Talk to him and ask him these questions and see what he says. Take it slow from there.
2007-09-16 07:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an immature boy! Yes, give him a chance to get to know you but dont date him until you are sure he likes you for you.
2007-09-16 07:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by miss_ruby_topaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, i think u should give him a chance, but don't go out with him, start out as friends first, and if u still like him, and he likes u, then ask him out.... ur friendship will tell u whether or not he is trouble
2007-09-16 07:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's giving mixed signals, it's horrible i know, what is the point in trying or waiting? it seems to me that he doesn't know what he wants and if he doesn't know at the start he probably will never know, you don't want it to end with a lot of heart ach and pain do you? just get him out of your life if possible, you will meet somone better who will want to be with you
actions speak louder than words, if he wanted to be with you he would say so himself!
2007-09-16 07:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by SuperChris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shld take time n then only decide as already his last response towards u was not gud. So take decision properly.Gud luck
2007-09-16 07:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u never know maby who ever said he was saying mean things about u is making it up or he could have said it so no 1 knows he likes u well I think u should listen 2 wat he has 2 say then make ur decision after that
2007-09-16 07:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by tracymcd2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the twit b4 he ruins your life baby xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-09-16 07:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by kerrycharly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋