Well, I started dating this girl a year & 3 months ago and it was pretty much love at first sight. Everything was perfect & things moved really fast but she & I both loved eachother very much. Recently she got a job which is ruining our relationship cus she has no time for me nemore. I showed up at her work one time mad & since then she claims she's scared of me. Thurs. night everything was perfect, she was asking for kisses saying she loved me. After not having heard from her for 4 days I decide to meet her after work to say Hi. She sees me and starts freaking out running away and then calls the police on me. I am so confused, everything was fine an next thing i know cops are called on me? I love her so much & want to get back with her but I am angry, hurt and my trust has been betrayed from this. I have been letting my mom and her mom try and communicate things since she is too immature to talk to me herself. Should I get back w/ her? If so, how should I go about getting her back?
2007-09-16 07:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by Jae L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just try to be friends with her, til she trusts you again she may not she is scared. And when your scared of someone you don't want to be with them. So you need to take this slow, if she will even talk to you, you may have to move on. I know you don't want to hear that but being afraid of someone is hard to get over, I know been there, afraid. So take things slow don't force yourself to be with her you will push her away more. Trust takes a long time you have to show her by calming your temper or getting help for it....Good Luck....Dianne
2007-09-16 08:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dianne L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother to try to repair a sinking ship? This chick sounds bipolar. Leave it alone and move on.
2007-09-16 07:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she will come back to u(if she really loves you) maybe she needs to know that she could loose you...
2007-09-16 09:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she's just crazy...
2007-09-16 07:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Olive 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋