OK, I have been with this guy for over 15 months now and we have never met. We met through a mutual friend of ours....he lives in VA and I'm in CA. We both have made arrangements in the past to meet but unfortunately other things came up. He has been battling cancer for years. We love each other to know end but the other day I told him that if we dont meet within the next 4 months I might want to date. No serious relationship but more of a companion to go and out with here and there. I am a single Mommy of a three year old son and he has a daughter as well, which lives with her Mom. My question....how much longer should I wait to finally meet him in person??????? I'm willing to wait forever if I just knew it would happen one day or should I move on and let him do the same??????? I'm so confused at this point and I'm getting kinda lonely at the same time.....
2007-09-16 07:30:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I would be very cautious. It is very weird that he has not made any real attempt to meet you in person before now.
15 months is almost a year and 1/2 ! Even if he had cancer he would have at least wanted to meet before now. Sorry to say but I think he is lying to you and wants you to believe the reason he hasn't met you is because of his cancer.
Have you seen him on cam, spoke to him on the phone and also spoke to him while viewing him on cam to make sure he is the same person?
There are lots of people on the internet who use fake pictures.
If you haven't even seen him on webcam He is probably married or some obese hairy back old pervert sitting at his computer with his pants down.
If you have been communicating 15 months and you also haven't even seen him on cam there is definitely something fishy! I think you should forget him but if you want to hold on...hold on for ONE more day...if you don't at least see him on cam...chalk it up as a lesson learned!
Don't wait for some mystery person that is only playing games, leading you on and putting you off. Focus on your son and live your life...life is short !
Ok from your other questions there is someone else also using your account or you not only have boyfriends but girlfriends too and for someone that will wait as long as you have to for a guy that you supposedly love and has cancer you are also torn between him and his friend?
Did you mean to spell... lunatic?
2007-09-16 07:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by maryv2013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love...although I will admit you are connected emotionally and mentally. I think you have to consider a possibility that he is afraid to meet you or else he has been lying to you and now is afraid you will discover the truth. So to put this situation to rest you need to make arrangements to see him and don't let them get cancelled. I would hate to see you dragged along emotionally. And I certainly hope you haven't been played. Either way, if he is not receptive to meeting you or keeps having excuses, time to move on.
2007-09-16 07:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you need to meet up. Organise something soon. You may feel differently then, or it may be the beginning of something great. If he's battling cancer he might not feel well enough to travel. I think you should go to him, but make sure you're friends know before you set off.
2007-09-16 07:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 06:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by tanton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ivtlc04 ? The problem with long distance loves is, people need people. For happy and sad times. So follow your heart, I personaly need to be touching the one that I love.Children do need two hands on parents !
2007-09-16 07:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a plane ticket for the weekend?? Come on you are not a teenager who her parents borbid from goin to another state to see someone. You are an ADULT and can decide for yourself...and if you want to see him that badly just buy a damn ticket its not that hard!!!
2007-09-16 07:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you have to try to meet him and also try to say to him the truth
2007-09-16 07:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow youve never met..let him go
2007-09-16 07:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋