I have a friend who, everytime she gets drunk, will hang all over guys and act all flirty without any intention of sleeping with them, then acts all stupid when they expect more from her. (Even though she likes the attention and sometimes they even buy her drinks.) I, on the other hand, will not act flirty towards a guy unless I plan on sleeping with him becuase I don't like the unwanted attention from a guy who I am not attracted to and I only let guys buy me drinks who seem like they do not expect anything from me. She does this all the time. Like she needs to feel validated by a man showing her attention but she does not sleep around.
True, I am more promiscuious than my friend is but at least I dont hang all over any guy who shows me the least bit of attention.
Which behavior do you think is worse? (By the way, I always wear condoms)
2007-09-16 20:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by snowbunny_luv_420 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh trust me I gets attention but if i am not interested i dont play along
2007-09-16 20:46:02 · update #1
I'm NOT THAT PROMISCUOUS,,,but if i see something i like...why not?
2007-09-16 20:47:44 · update #2
You don't have to justify your desire to have sex by saying you wear condoms. Its cool that you do, but you can do whatever you want.
And I don't find either of you inappropriate. But she's obviously unhappy. And you are much more in tune with yourself. I have a feeling underneath it all, your friend isn't happy at all.
2007-09-16 21:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm to tell u the truth i think ur behavior is worse no offence to u or nothing but she may hang all over guys yes but she isnt sleeping with them she might actually find a relationship someday where as u wont becuase u go for looks and sleep with a lot of men if u havnt herd guys dont like that
2007-09-17 03:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own idea of what things should be like. she has not right to judge you, nor do you have a right to judge her. She probably just needs attention. No harm done if she is not sleeping with them for attention. It is all in fun.
2007-09-17 03:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think her conduct is what they call "prick tease."
I don't see anything necessarily wrong with promiscuity. As long as we consider the same conduct acceptable in men it is rank hypocrisy to condemn it in women.
You're advertising (by flirting) but you deliver (with guys you find acceptable). She's advertising something that she has no intention of offering.
2007-09-17 03:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your behavior is more inappropriate. regardless if you use a condom, you can still get a disease... sorry. you are sleeping with people you do not even know. the way she is acting is like every single flirty chick acts. which is normal. who cares if they buy her drinks.... she is smart by not sleeping with them... srry hun!
2007-09-17 03:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by lc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find you both inappropriate. Why not grow up and be real. The world and your place in it does not revolve around liquor and/or men's attention to you. The sooner you grow out of this phase, the happier you will be...
2007-09-17 03:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Honeyface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you're jealous of her, b/c she gets all the attention. what's the big deal, the girl's just having a good time! it's not like she's gonna take them home and sleep with them, so why not? and if you're a "friend", then why are you putting her down like this?
2007-09-17 03:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by lilith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honest to goodness... urs is much better.. i like ur behaviour that ur friend.. to me she's a little bitchy like a slut (forgive me for saying that word) anyway.. it think she has a personality adn attitude problem that she needs to face... and i think that she'll be in a lot of trouble in the long run... that she'll realize in the end.. that what she's doing is not worth her life...
2007-09-17 03:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your behaviour is good...
Your friends behaviour is not acceptable...
She is accepting free drinks from guys and allows them to..
She is playing with them ..she is a p*** tease and a cheap.
I would respect you anyday becasue you only flirt when you mean it.
2007-09-17 03:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is equally wrong in different ways but personally what ever you can live with is what is right for you
2007-09-17 03:45:06 · answer #10 · answered by twojustbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋