Singles & Dating - 15 September 2007

im 13 almost 14.
i know im young, but i want
that "guy" i can fully trust, i can have his back, and he can love me for me. i have been single for a long time, but it hasent worked. am i ugly or what? i dont understand. i have the personality,confidence, and humor.

here are pics of me, and what ethnic do i look like??

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2007-09-15 10:08:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

according to some films that lovers after they broke up, became friends instead. but my own experience, i was friend with my ex at the first place, we just broke up, but until now,i still cant accept that we return to be friends, i mean we broke up because of long distance, nothing special, definitely no cheating.i feel terrible losing him thou i was person wanted to break up with him. i wanted to keep a great relationship with him like a normal friend, cause he seems like a part of my life and i really want him to enjoy every single there. but i dont know, when the real moments come, i cant even talk to him, all our old memories just keep rushing back..what do you think? do u still keep a close relationship with ur ex?

2007-09-15 10:06:17 · 1 answers · asked by monroe 2

i was reading a question about why kissing isnt safe and people said because you can get mono. what is it?

2007-09-15 10:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Obviously I don't want to be a prostitute! Why does he look so friendly? He's got a constant smile on his face!

He's given me his card with his name, date, signature and kisses on the end.

He is a pimp, how shall I say no? HE doesn't speak much english!

2007-09-15 09:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Which one sickens you worst?

2007-09-15 09:47:01 · 5 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4

We have been together for 11 years/engaged for 7 years. I am 26/he's 28. We argue a lot. I want to save money for a wedding/honeymoon/house and he spends it all and then some. He has racked up $15K debt w/o my knowledge. He's not sure if he wants to get married b/c of the fighting and he feels unfulfilled and bored. He wants to smoke pot basically daily and wants me to be ok w/ it. He's been leaving for days at a time when we argue. He says he just does not want to compromise anymore. He says he really loves me which I 100% believe but he is just really confused. We broke up today and he's moving out. I'm keep our apt and he's going to stay w/ his mom for a few months to save money. We decided that if we both realize breaking up was a huge mistake within a few months we could get back together. Maybe some time really apart and on his own he will realize what he has lost see the grass is not greener on the other side and be ready to spend his life w/ me. Anyone ever go through this... ?

2007-09-15 09:39:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok if you anwered my otther thing message whatever im going for the guy who i like cuz i feel like it and im not a slut for likeing him even though he has a gf he gives me hugs so thats love lol

2007-09-15 09:36:52 · 10 answers · asked by ailna's in love 1

my ex and i are not in touch alot but we check in with each other once in a while, to say hi. he was mad when he found out i was pregnant, and last week, he was asking how things were going with the pregnancy and doctors etc. I found out yesterday that i am having a boy, so along with all my other friends, i text him to say that i was really happy and that i´m having a healthy boy. I know that we are not together, but he hasn´t even replied to say that he is pleased, (this would be the polite thing to do), and considering that he was asking me how things are a week ago, why is he blowing hot and cold??

2007-09-15 09:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been almost 2 years since I left my cheating ex. Now I'm thankful to be happily engaged to the most wonderful man. But ever once in a while, a thought pops up and makes me wonder why did he do it?

To spare you with the detailed story, here's the specifics:
- we're both between 24-27 yrs old
- I helped him financially while he before and after he went out of the country to teach English. He ran into some trouble overseas, and I was up 24/7 supporting him, helping him.
- I later found out he had been cheating on me in the US and Asia. I told the girls here, so he still blames me for ruining their friendship.
- I questioned him, he denied everything. I never told his family members what happened.

He's tried to contact me to see if I was still angry with him. I never responded. I felt so betrayed & minipulated-

How do I heal this pain? should I confront him again? I really just want to move on with life, but am having such a hard time -

2007-09-15 09:32:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 23, parents been divorced about 3 years now....and my Dads new girlfriend is hella fine!!! She's 45 and is seriously gorgeous!!!! But she inappropriately flirts with me, especially when my father isn't around....especially at parties and stuff, she tries to get me drunk. One night we were both drunk when my Dad was away and we made out and did some heavy petting....she does stuff like grab my butt a lot...when my Dads gone she'll come cuddle up in my bed with me....I have mixed feelings, I know its completely wrong and inappropriate, but at the same time I like it....is it alright as long as we don't have sex?

2007-09-15 09:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Clarence 2

I am almost 25, and I plan on having sex soon with my boyfriend /fiancee. I have never had sex before, and he knows it. I would like him to be a little more impressed by the fact that I have managed to put off sex for such a long time (I was very focused on my career and studies). He doesn't seem impressed at all, and I would even think he is a little disturbed by it.

On the other hand I also feel very shamed for being a virgin in my mid 20s and he knows that. So what do you think? Does he fake not caring about my sitation to help me over this embarassing step, or does he not care period.

I know it's a silly one.

2007-09-15 09:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would first like to say that iam not a ***** and I do have values but this is a problem.There was this guy that works in the restaurant next to me and one night when I went to his restaurant with my friend he started speaking to me in my language (spanish)so my friend couldn't understand.As he knew I was going away to Spain forever he asked me to kiss him.We went round the back and just kissed,I loved it ,we had such a connection I was really feeling him.I went to Spain,it was horrible so I came back.That night when I came bck he told me he was married,I played it quite cool but I was pissed off and I told him he was an idiot.He wants to carry on seeing me.What shall I do?I really do like him.Part of the reason why he got married was to be in this country,he has given me his number and he must of felt guilty because he told me straight away,he is always asking my mum about me.Hes just 21,im 19 please help I really have feelings for him and I think he does for me,maybe it is just lust

2007-09-15 09:21:48 · 79 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1

2007-09-15 09:21:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

in April...I cant stop thinking about him..although he's moved on to other girls,but I just keep holding on to something thats not even there anymore...I really just wanna move on and stop thinking,talking,and wishing we were bback together...any ideas?

2007-09-15 09:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by xnanax143 1

i really like this girl and lately she doesn't hug me whenever i c her somewhere like after work or before and at a football game last night i saw her and she didnt there either and she kinda doesnt seem interested in me anymore but im crazy about her and i cant stop thinking about her, and i have no idea what i should do right now cuz i kinda just feel like i am being drug down with her like she doesnt like me anymore and i like her and im the only one trying to put forth effort to try and get a relationship going so i just want to hear some opinions

2007-09-15 09:13:20 · 15 answers · asked by The Game91 1

but it has only been 4 weeks and i dont kno anyone who likes me yet.

2007-09-15 09:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm going out with this boy and him and and his best mate has had a fight bt i think its my fault and i don't no what to do now ? please help me !


thx xxx

2007-09-15 09:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by random.princess 4

2007-09-15 09:05:53 · 21 answers · asked by toeheadtinsmile 1

you can't live without them, and what your feeling is something that you can't explain you just know it's there. In your heart, in your mind, in your body, in your soul..

2007-09-15 09:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He asked me out on our first date and we both had a really good time. He said he liked me "a lot" and was looking to be in a relationship. Yet, as nice and friendly as he is, it seems like he's not even trying. He says he's not busy but I'm still waiting for him to ask me out again (I was the one to ask him last time).

There's a possibility I like him too and I have no qualms with asserting myself/making an effort but I just wish he would meet me half-way. Most of the time I'm usually the one to make conversation and trying to make a connection with him.

Just today I asked him if he still liked me and he said "of course" but then why isn't he showing it? He's clearly not shy and he says he's not busy. I wanna tell him how I feel but I don't want to sound too needy.

What should i do? I don't want to keep chasing after someone who's so wishy-washy and I don't want to feel like i'm making all the effort for someone who supposedly "likes me a lot" but his actions say otherwise.

2007-09-15 09:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by ohsnap 2

well, I gave him a note and he never replied... He hasn't been getting online for the past two days and he's usually on every night. He won't return my calls or text messages. (I wonder if they number he gave me was fake sometimes...) At school, he doesn't even look at me. He's sort of new to the school and a lot of other girls like him. He's pretty outgoing too. I've liked this boy since I first saw him and that never ever happens to me. I always know the guy before falling for him. And this guy... The more I know about him, the more I like him. Anyone got some good adivce? I cant' simply abandon this crush since my shortest crush ever lasted a whole year. My longest lasted two years. The guys I've liked have never none that I like them, but this one might since a lot of people know... I'm like obsessed with him and I cant' help it!

2007-09-15 09:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by wakeofbeauty 1

I've never been more confused about liking someone before. There's this guy who has liked me for about a year now and he's asked me out about 6 times. The first 5 times were during my sophomore year and my response was, "I don't really want a boyfriend right now." I didn't want to go out with him and I was pretty sure I didn't like him. Now, starting my junior year, he asked me again, claiming AGAIN that he really liked me and no one else. At that point, I started to consider what it would be like to go out with him and I'm imagined what it would be like to kiss him and - they've been really good thoughts! However, as good as I feel about thinking those things, I'm not really sure I want to take the step forward to actually go out with him. When I first met him, I severely disliked him and now I'm thinking to myself, "This is crazy! How can you consider liking him - you're not SUPPOSED to like him!" Also, I realized that other guys have asked me out before and I've been able to

2007-09-15 08:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for 11 years/engaged for 7 years. I am 26/he's 28. We argue a lot. I want to save money for a wedding/honeymoon/house and he spends it all and then some. He has racked up $15K debt w/o my knowledge. He's not sure if he wants to get married b/c of the fighting and he feels unfulfilled and bored. He wants to smoke pot basically daily and wants me to be ok w/ it. He's been leaving for days at a time when we argue. He says he just does not want to compromise anymore. He says he really loves me which I 100% believe but he is just really confused. We broke up today and he's moving out. I'm keep our apt and he's going to stay w/ his mom for a few months to save money. We decided that if we both realize breaking up was a huge mistake within a few months we could get back together. Maybe some time really apart and on his own he will realize what he has lost see the grass is not greener on the other side and be ready to spend his life w/ me. Anyone ever go through this... ?

2007-09-15 08:56:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college she said yes and we had soo much fun and i recently asked her to be my date at an event that i have she said yes. she text me every day, we talk on aim. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. if she is upset she text me or im me about it. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? She has told guys that attempted to talk to her she is not intrested in a relationship now.what should i do/say?

2007-09-15 08:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by spurs257 1

I have a friend she is going out with me last 2 years. And we are good friend. And I know she have a BF. Last couple of months I like her lot and we go out every night. How can I tell her my fillings what I need, and this is right to say anything to her what I want to say.

2007-09-15 08:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by s d 1

ahh im having a last minute party. but when every one gets there and your just sitting there. how to you get every one like into the party mood. and what happens if they're bored!! i need help !

xo kaytee

2007-09-15 08:51:58 · 1 answers · asked by katayyy xo 1

omg i have a boyfriend rite now and he doesnt do much.. weve been going out for a couple of months.. hes really nice and everything.. but now it seems like we dont have a connection anymore.. but im pretty sure he likes me... but now theres another guy that likes me (and he told me) and at the same time im starting to have a connection with him.. he always cares about me and we have alot of things in common.... but now i feel really bad that im starting to like this other guy.. is it wrong to break up with someone if u like another in a way? and if i do break up with him.. then how should i say it so it wouldnt be so hurtful to him?

2007-09-15 08:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

you had the choice to either:
win ten thousand dollars
or
go out with your crush and later on in life get married???

2007-09-15 08:48:57 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Blonde and still LOVING it♥ 4

2007-09-15 08:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by kvcreom 4

2007-09-15 08:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by vee.amore 1