well first of all my name is brittany (duuh) and my bestfriends name is kayla and her boyfriends name is greyling but we call him grey for short. well before kayla met grey she had NEVER benn kissed before and she hadent had a boyfriend in 5years. well me and her went swimming one day and we saw him and kayla said he was ugly and i thought he was cute and nice well later on they talked and they started going out. she had already told him about her love life and he has already given her kisses ans stuff like that..but what he dont know is that IM INLOVE with him. i mean im older then kayla.. im thiner,im prettier. and i have a begger and better personality. and he is already inlove with her but im inlove with him and she always talks about how they are a perfect match when i get him better then she does.. she even thinks hes cute now.. but what do i do if im inlove with my bestfriends boyfriend? im too scared to tell him how i feel cause im scared of crying myself to sleep every night..
2007-09-15 21:38:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont mean to be stuck up but she is and she thinks she is all that.. all i do is put mysef down every day.. for once i really said somthing good about myself but i need help cause i dont know how to tell him how i feel.
2007-09-15 21:41:08 · update #1
I think you should let Grey know how u feel, let him decide who he wants (which will probably be you) and then let your friend know
2007-09-15 21:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just A Couple Of Words DONT DO IT! Dude There Is PLenty Of Dudes In The Sea.....And Thats Ur Friends BF AND She Hasnt Had A Bf In 5 Years If You Shouldnt Ruin That! And Shes Never Been Kissed.....Just DOnt Be Selfish Ok Think Of Her Not You!! If Your Even Thinkin Of This Your Not Her Best Friend!
2007-09-15 21:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that will be the stupidest thing if you are going to tell grey that you loved him since from the start. come on, brit, there's so much guys around and you don't need to break your bestfriend's heart (if you are a real friend).a stupid reason to end up your good relationship between kayla. as you said, you are pretty and have a good personality to try to move on and i think just give a nice distance between kayla and grey for a moment, okay. go girl..........there's a lot for you out there.
2007-09-15 22:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by President Of D' Clan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all sounds very Juvenile! Do you care how this might hurt your friend or are you that selfish? How would you feel if your trusted friend did this to you? And everybody knew but you...........think about that for just a minute. Your making it out to be some sort of competition with Kayla. Making yourself sound better and seem better somehow. She can't be that bad if he is involved with her. Sometimes thinner, prettier, and sneakier doesn't always win! If you do this you may never be trusted by another friend EVER! They will think you might do it to them.
2007-09-15 21:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, hun, it lookz like u shudn't be callin kayla ur bestie!Seriously..if u think that ur bestie stinks personality wise...then there's sumth really wrong. Envy maybe or is coz u think that she's self-obsessed?? But hey it looks like she's the intimidating kinda person who goes on &on about herself.... U gotta realize dat u went wrong when u didnt make the move first & implied that u weren't in2 Grey. I think after dat Kayla saw it as a "go". And don't blame her for going about her reli wid her boi...she's in love & she wants everyone 2 know it! What u gotta do now is figure out whether ur negative feelings 2wards kayla is out of resentment & envy coz of her reli wid grey or is it coz u really feel like u & grey have a connection??Also, ask urself what ur gonna get out of telling grey..u cud lose the both of them...
2007-09-15 22:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by dana_mwah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your case is like a beatle nut cut from both the sides with end results nil. Get your self out of this confusing state of mind. Go on a holiday or a small break away from everything that concerns them your friends get a peace of mind give a thorough thought which is important as to what u exactly u want and mean by the life u r leading with the outcomes of the same. It is entirely your decision exclusively.
2016-05-20 23:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about Grey. There's millions of other cute guys in the world! Don't tell him at all. Let Kayla be with him. But, if you still wanna tell him, tell him. What's life without risks?
2007-09-15 21:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope english is not your first language. You neglected to say that Kayla is smarter than you, and do you want to know how I know that? You think in love is one word! That does it for me. Go to bed child and get some sleep. You need not worry about trying to ruin your friendship over something like a worthless crush. I also think they should sterlize you so that you do not produce any offspring as stupid as you are.
2007-09-15 21:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by LUDWIG WITTGENSTEIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know thers two sides here well thers the guy ou love and the girl that is your best friend if she is really your best friend dont make the mistake of breaking her up and go with that guy you dont even know if that guy likes you and a whole lot of problem will come youll have to deal with the broken heart of your best friend on yiur concious and the fact that if the guy does like you youll loose a friend ok if the guy does go out with you do you think it will ve forever and if he ends up living you then you will have no friend no boyfriend get another guy for you there loads not like him but youll find one
2007-09-15 21:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by librian sexxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with him. You're in love with the idea of having a boyfriend, and your friend has one, so... You project your feelings onto her relationship.
Don't tell her or him how you feel. If you must, distance yourself from them. No good can come of you trying to move in on him. Find an available guy instead.
2007-09-15 21:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good. If you were really her friend you wouldn't want to rob her of her happiness. Besides,if he chose your friend 1st why would you want him?
Find someone new. That's the best I have for you. Be a good friend and move on. I'm sure there are plenty of people out there who will like YOU.
2007-09-15 21:47:13 · answer #11 · answered by peanutrocks92078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋