Singles & Dating - 11 September 2007

& how long after dating should you get engaged, & how long after being engaged should you get married? Sometimes people say it's not good to move too fast in a relationship, but I've heard how happily married couples have gotten engaged off 1st sight.

2007-09-11 13:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

or 5th time, "Why do you love me?". You've answered this question before but she simply can't remeber what u said; and everytime this question comes up she says, "I promise this is the last time I ask."

2007-09-11 13:02:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please be as honest as you can.

Do you really appreciate it?


DO YOU EXPECT IT? Like if you had a guy friend who didn't hold the door open for you when you hung out would you say something? What if he didn't hold the door open some of the time? This is a guy who you hang out with in groups.

2007-09-11 12:59:18 · 78 answers · asked by lend322 4

i am the kind of girl that has ALL guy friends and very little girlfriends but my boyfriend has gotten rid of all of my guyfriend one by one in a whole year! and now all of my friends hate me and him and i'm not allowed to talk to guys unless my bf knows them and "trusts" them...how long is this going to last!?!? bc we made ayear yesterday.

2007-09-11 12:58:33 · 22 answers · asked by girl 1

What do you like when it comes to girls' hair? Do you like it long or short, straight or curly? What texture/styles do you like? What's your favorite hair color?

I've always wanted guys' opinions on this!

2007-09-11 12:46:53 · 8 answers · asked by Victoria 3

Theres this guy and he's the most annoying, perverted person ever and he likes me. He kept saying those lame things like "Is it hot? Or did you just walk by" and its annoying! I got off the bus today and as i left he said good bye sweetie and i screamed at him saying he;s a perv. Can you guys help me find a nice way to make him stop talking/annoying/liking me?? PLease Help!!!!!

2007-09-11 12:44:19 · 1 answers · asked by jbxaddict 2

my bf wants to have sex i want to but what if i get pregnant that would stink help please should i yes or no

2007-09-11 12:42:05 · 25 answers · asked by Michele B 1

ill give u the general overview..
we dated for 2 years..and fell in love really quickly
we have broken up times before this and both of us have said this was the end for good but we have gotten back together everytime
this time, its been over a month and were still both saying that and we still like argue and part of me still wants to get back together
from knowing that this has happpened more than once..what do u think
we'll get back together or no

2007-09-11 12:35:01 · 20 answers · asked by charlotte 1

So I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a while.

We love eachother no doubt. Like, I know for a fact we do. And we have had sex before. My dad tricked me and told me to tell him when I'm ready so he will get me birth control. When I finally told him he said no and told my mom and they both wouldnt allow me at his house.

So I stopped talking about it to them and my mom now lets me go over. Since my boyfriend knows I can't take the pill we are 100 percent safe. Meaning he wears a condom and he pulls out before he gets off.

The thing is I am still very paranoid because I now skipped my period. I know that I am not pregnant but now that I have had sex and I am almost 16 I think I'm old enough. I've said everything to "I need to be 100 percent safe. no kid" to the fact that "my period still isnt regular and its been over 3 years" but, nothing will do it.

I know I can get them on my own and I can pay for them but, my mom was like mmhm and whose going to drive you? I'

2007-09-11 12:33:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE... only serious answers!
I'm interested in finding out what men find attractive in a woman (and don't focus on looks, because, really, what can you do about those? And for the record, I'm told I'm attractive, I have a nice figure, and I'm in my early 30s).

I have a HUGE crush on a man who seems out of my league intellectually. I'm not stupid, by any stretch, but I definitely don't think I'm on par with him.

I'm a caring person, I make him laugh, I'm pretty, and probably smarter than average... But how do men rank these qualities in order of what attracts them to a woman? I mean, if I can't hold my own in discussing world events, is that a big black mark? Do men even care about that? Or do men PREFER to feel a little smarter than the woman they're with?

Feeling very insecure... help!

(And again, don't bother responding if you're just going to say, "Big boobs!" Get your 2 points somewhere else.)

2007-09-11 12:26:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year we used to talk sometimes. I used to have the impression that he kinda liked me. I actually like him for who he is, he's not just some idiot like the guys I've fallen for in the past. but he's in none of my classes this year and we never get to talk anymore. And he has a girlfriend, so I don't really expect it to go anywhere anyway. I don't think I should do anything about it, I should just forget about it, and how do I forget about him? thanks!

2007-09-11 12:18:21 · 1 answers · asked by 77684 3

just turned 38, and I am panicking that I will not be able to attract younger women anymore. Give me some hope and encouragement!

2007-09-11 12:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is in all my classes. he seems to be from michigan. what kind of girls do michigan boys like? and what do i say to him? need help. and also his best friend sits with me in science. p.s. i'm in 7th grade.

2007-09-11 12:11:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i like this guy how should i impress him im not a girly girl i wear black and heavy sweaters and stuff should i show more skin to see if hes interested? and i kinda notice he looks at me as i pass him down the hall everytime so do you think hes interested or not

2007-09-11 12:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney 2

when your with that special someone, and you guys are watching a movie, and someone in the movie farts, like say, your watching wild america, and then the fart part comes up where there dad is singing and the dad farts, what is your reaction?

2007-09-11 12:03:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok..... there are two guys that i've been involved with off and on for about a year and some change with (not at the same time). the first guy was my first at pretty much everything: my first real boyfriend, my first at sex, my first to bring home to my parents, my first love, etc... well we fell off for a while and i gave him his space because he was doin things i didnt approve of. the second guy i met him while i was givin the first guy space. he's a good person, but for some reason we jus cant keep a relationship goin. but we both like each other. he looks at me as marriage material... they both do. but now my first is back in the picture and tells me that he wants us to work at getting back together. but i kinda want to see where things are goin to end up with the other dude. i started kinda late in life and am new to bein in love and havin 2 dudes. so who should i pick and what should i do?

2007-09-11 11:42:34 · 1 answers · asked by dria4eva 1

my situation is that ive been going out with this one girl for about lil over 1 1/2 years, i broke up with her about 3 months ago b/c she broke my trust, literally found out about a bunch of lies that she had told me, talkin to another guy behind my back and completely lieing about it, basically caught her slippen and uncovered alot of other lies that she tried to cover up repeadly, even using the line "i put that on everything" all the time..

well 3 months later, we start talkin again and now we r going back out.. might be a dumb move for me.. but i cant trust her anymore.. how do i do it?

is it wrong me for me not believe every word she tells me now..

she kicks it with All guys and its prettty hard to not get some thoughts of lies and scandalous stuff happening behind my back, and im not the type that would do it back or do it just b/c i think she is.. so its kinda hard for me..

"a relationship cant work without honesty" is a quote i tell myself..

2007-09-11 11:39:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy at school who likes me, and honestly, he kind of disgusts me. We're in the same group of friends, so he sits with us at lunch. He keeps trying to sit next to me, or as near me as he can. It's very annoying. Even if someone's bag is on their chair, he'll move it and sit there until the person comes back and kicks him out. He also kind of clings to me in gym, and in World History, he keeps flirting. He knows very well that I have a boyfriend and that we're just friends. I made it clear. The only reason we're "friends" is because of mutual friends and classes together. I'd rather just not ever talk to him. How can I get him to stop liking me?

2007-09-11 11:37:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear he likes me and wants to ask me out . He pulled my shirt and saw my bra and i pulled it back up and got red cause I was embarresed .I am not like really chesty and I am not flat either . (I am 34B btw) . My "friend" started calling me insecure . I know he is a virgin . He always flirts with me . I am a freshman in highschool. I don't want to flash him . But I know he wants to ask me out is that so he can get in my pants or is it because he really likes me . (He didn't pull my shirt that low on purpose i just backed away it went farther down and he walked a little when i got it back up)

2007-09-11 11:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by curious.asker 1

Me and my fiance have been through a lot this summer are are really rocky to say the least. We nearly broke up all summer. We live together and he left for days at a time b/c things were not good and we were fighting a lot. Anyway... we agreed that we would try to work it out and if we feel the same way in 30 days, then we break up. I'm just finding it so hard to put my best foot forward in working things out when I'm so sad that we may not end up together. We have been together for 11 years. I can't picture my life w/o him. I never thought it would come down to this. He doesn't seem to be making ANY effort which also really upsets me but if I say anything he gets really mad. Any advice... what should i do?????

2007-09-11 11:31:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. Well things have just gotten worse in my life. I'm very young, a teenager. And a lot of times I just can't find a reason to get up, and try to make something of my life. I know I'm young, and I won't know exactly about what I want in life, but I'd like some advice on why to live. See, my sole purpose for this last decade and a half of my life was to look for this "soul mate" i thought i had. But of all the people in the world, would I really find that one person meant for me? I know I'm looking for a fairytale, and now that I know that, I don't see why I would keep on trying just for me to end up dying alone with a very lonely existence....help, advice please. Ive never heard a success story of true love, the ones ive heard are in fiction books....can you give me advice and tell me why you live and love?

2007-09-11 11:31:13 · 4 answers · asked by Caboose the vechile destroyer 3

Today the guy I like found out that I'm stalking him by searching for his name on the internet and looking at his pictures (not actually following him around, appearing behind every corner he's in, etc.) He was telling me things about his self that I already knew and he was surprised...well he asked if I am stalking him so I admitted it. He just smiled and continued our conversation which lasted quite a long time. As the day ended I said bye to him and he winked. I guess he wasn't creeped out, was he?

2007-09-11 11:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by Chained 1

I just went to an interview for a professional entertainment company-and by professional entertainment I mean fully naked stag party professional-. I'm wondering if I should do it because of my boyfriend.

Should I accept this job? I saw it in the paper that they will train but the guy that I interviewed with(the owner) says I just need to grow out my hair dye it back my original color(which is dark brown), gain some self-confidence and tone up my body. I'm okay with that much dancing in front of guys and what not. What's got me worried is the photo shoot. They do like completely nude shots, lesbian things, masturbation. I'm okay with the dancing part, I just don't know if I should because of my boyfriend and because of the photo shoot.

The more and more I think about it, the more and more I want to do it. If I were single it wouldn't bother me so much but because I'm dating someone, I'm worried about what will happen to our relationship. Some of you might flame me but i need advice.

2007-09-11 11:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1

Have u ever felt that u just dont belong to this world? Like u werent meant to be a part of this world. I mean, ever since u remember, rarely anything has gone right? You always end up hurt and stressed, no matter what u try to do? No ,I'm not being dramatic, this is a serious question. Need serious answers. Thanks in advance.

2007-09-11 11:22:21 · 1 answers · asked by trish 3

My friend told me how this guy tried to make out with her, but he didn't want a relationship. They knew each other for YEARS, & it seems like all he wants is 1 thing from her, but he gets into relationships with chicks he barely knows & then breaks up with them after 3 or 4 months. If he's attracted to my friend, then why does he just wanna get in her pants? Why does he just wanna be friends with benefits with her, rather than having a long term relationship?

Why do people rather have long term relationships with people they hardly know, but they just want a 1-night stand with people they know a long time. I know they say that it would ruin a friendship, but what if this guy was to become the daddy & have to pay child support? That friendship would be over.

2007-09-11 11:21:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 11:03:25 · 8 answers · asked by Ryder 1

My girlfriend lives a 1000 miles away and she has been hanging out alone and smoking pot with this other guy. She tells me that they are just friends and I trust her, but I can't help being extremely jeolous and bitter about the whole situation. The more I think about it, the more frustrated I get. I love her sooooooo much. I've told her how I feel and she just reassures me that it is fine. I don't want to shound like a over-protective jerk, but I think that I should be her number one and not Brandon.

2007-09-11 11:00:22 · 1 answers · asked by cooltyler2001 2

i need more, what can i txt my man to let him know of my intentions later...? yes THOSE intentions......

2007-09-11 10:24:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok,quick question...
Ive liked the same guy since 6th grade,and Im now a 10th grader.

All I want to do is admit my feelings for him,because I think at one time,[almost a year ago and maybe now cuz Ive caught him looking at me]I think he might have liked me too.

I didnt have the chance to get with him though,because his friends got him with some other girl.

He broke it off with her,and Ive caught him looking at me a few times...and I want to admit my feelings.

But his ex wants to work things out with him,and shes constantly up his butt... =(

Should I keep in my feelings or tell him[his ex will HATE me,if I tell him and we start talking or something...]

So tell him or wait?

2007-09-11 10:24:09 · 1 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4

okay 2day these older guys asked me if i've ever slapped a monkey, and if i want to to ask 4 there number and call them. idk what it is. do any of u guys 14-17 know? that was the age group...anyway im sorry to have to ask this question but im 13 and not really used 2 the whole high school stuff. thanks ♥ (????)

p.s- i think its about drugs or sex or violence, but ijdk....

2007-09-11 10:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Rollin' 2