my bf wants to have sex i want to but what if i get pregnant that would stink help please should i yes or no
2007-09-11 12:42:05 · 25 answers · asked by Michele B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd have to know more facts. Such as how old you both are, and how long you have been dating.
Assuming you are both of an appropriate age, get on the pill, have him use a condom with a spermicide on it, and take your relationship to the next level.
The odds of getting pregnant while you are on the pill, and he is using a sperm killing condom, are ridiculously small. You are probably more likely to be hit by a car on the way to his house.
But at the end of the day, you have to be comfortable with the idea. If you are not, don't do it.
2007-09-11 12:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your old enough like at least 16yrs old then thats fine but you have to be ready. You will know the feeling when you're ready, like time and place and so on. Having sex should never be planned, its something that just happens. Although it should never be planned, it doesnt mean that you should never be prepared either. Use condoms and if your old enough, maybe try birth control too. Dont be trying this whole pulling out technique because your only playing with the rest of your life if you do that! You have to be careful at all times. Good luck and stay safe:)
2007-09-11 12:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your female chum is fortunate to have a guy that could positioned her excitement above his squeamishness. suggestion: don't be tough. the clitoris is truly gentle. this is not like once you jerk your self off. many adult adult males don't comprehend this. wash your palms first. no woman needs your black fingernails in her. start up with some foreplay- get her worked up sturdy till now you head south. if she isn't already moist, positioned some saliva on your arms. this feels surprising. rub up from the outlet of her vagina as much as the clit. press gently into the clit as you rub down it. make whorls with your finger around the outlet of the vagina- do no longer stick your finger in there till she's orgasmed first. once you stick your finger in, press inward and upward on the area suitable on the front- this is not approximately how deep you pass. she would be in a position to love you for this. and in case you get even braver, you are able to try giving her oral intercourse... yet sooner or later at a time, suitable?
2016-11-10 04:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not the main event; the relationship is. Pregnancy can be a result of sex; but you should'nt look at sex like it's casual drinking. Theres a reason why pregnancy can be a result of sex; (Because it's for MARRIAGE!!!) and that means that sex comes with responsibility.
2007-09-11 12:51:13 · answer #4 · answered by runner45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you really love him. If you're worried about getting pregnant, then maybe you're too young to be having sex. If your parents will agree to it and you have strong feelings for your boyfriend, then I suggest getting on birth control. If you're having doubts though, which it sounds like you are, then wait until you're in love. You'll be happy you waited, trust me.
2007-09-11 12:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex, then take ALL of the precautions. Birth control AND condoms. Go to Planned Parenthood and they will tell you what you need to know and get you birth control and condoms.
2007-09-11 12:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if for whatever reason you are not sure then is not a good time.
all these questions will be super clear to you and what to do when you are ready.
say no. this is not the first time you will feel some social pressure to do something, and the best thing is to start exercising to say no.
2007-09-11 12:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Salmon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously too young for sex; you sound COMPLETELY unprepared. My advice is to NOT do it unless you're totally comfortable and over the legal age of 16. You shouldn't be letting your boyfriend force you to do anything you don't want to.
2007-09-11 12:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's your body, and you'll know when its the right time for you. Don't let him decide what to do with your body, he doesn't respect you enough if he does that. Take that as a sign to pick up the phone and dail 1 800 DUMP HIM .
2007-09-11 12:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you ask ? like that then no you are to young and if you are thinking about sex the best thang that you can use to keep you from getting pregnated or gettin stds this is 110% sure to work so try it there called pants KEEP THEM ON
2007-09-11 12:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋