What should I do and who should i pick?

Question

ok..... there are two guys that i've been involved with off and on for about a year and some change with (not at the same time). the first guy was my first at pretty much everything: my first real boyfriend, my first at sex, my first to bring home to my parents, my first love, etc... well we fell off for a while and i gave him his space because he was doin things i didnt approve of. the second guy i met him while i was givin the first guy space. he's a good person, but for some reason we jus cant keep a relationship goin. but we both like each other. he looks at me as marriage material... they both do. but now my first is back in the picture and tells me that he wants us to work at getting back together. but i kinda want to see where things are goin to end up with the other dude. i started kinda late in life and am new to bein in love and havin 2 dudes. so who should i pick and what should i do?

Answer 1

By even asking this question, proves how little you love both of them, so it doesn't matter. Enjoy your innocents with this because in the end you really don't understand people, this world, are your place in it. Just bouncing around finally enjoying some attention, so heck do whatever there being foolish for dealing with you. Sorry to be so rude, but if your not close enough to ether of them to make this choice yourself, then you are not close enough to make a choice morally. So enjoy shallow footing around with your heart and theirs. Don't be two offened this is standard behavior for our culture, and they all pretty much do whatever they want, is it right? no is it love? yes, but not true love. Are you doing them or yourself any favors? heck no. Is their a better way? Yea. Well you figure it out before you hurt yourself or them? Nah... no one really does, so just enjoy the attention!