ok i like this guy how should i impress him im not a girly girl i wear black and heavy sweaters and stuff should i show more skin to see if hes interested? and i kinda notice he looks at me as i pass him down the hall everytime so do you think hes interested or not
2007-09-11 12:09:51 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Courtney, it real doesn't matter. It doesn't. I know, I know it would mean the world to you to have some guy worship the fact he can even talk to you, but thats not love. Thats just an overly-romantic pseudo-relationship that well only get you some lovly heart breack, which would be mixed with even more bad feelings for yourself. Highschool is not the place to make life-long "sexual" relationships, so if you think you have to be more... sexy for him, your failing yourself. What it needs to come down to is the level of communication and I'm sorry neither one of you is actually ready for a relationship until your ready to talk honestly about your feels, which neither one is, your both contempt with just playing eye games with each other in hopes that the other feels the same..... not good, and doesn't make the best relationships. See the attraction is really just a nice baby step, then theres the love, another small baby step, then comes the big steps, hence, honestly, trust, understanding, compassion, passion, and that wonderful bond known as companionship. So unless you guys can have some sort of relationship based on something other then the sexual attraction, or the hope for something more, don't do this to yourself. I've been there down that, and I've seen others do it, want to know how many successful relationships come out of highschool? NONE! Its COULD of happen about 30 years ago but those hippies and there free sex, and those yuppies and there darn drive for money and sex status.... well were their kids, and have you ever heard of that saying "sins of the father" I'm not even religious and I see the truth to that....
2007-09-13 08:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
If black and heavy sweater is your thing, then continue to wear this.
Every man is not into skin, especially if it's his woman doing the showing.
If he likes you with your skin covered up, then why change that?
Smile at him when you see him looking at you. Give a little wink too. That'll blow his mind!!!
2007-09-19 07:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Courtney,
It's all you! Course he's interested.
Be yourself. Don't change for anyone!
Best to you!
2007-09-19 11:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he want's to see more he's looking for a booty call ??? be careful
2007-09-19 11:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by goodguyhals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋