Singles & Dating - 11 September 2007

My new partner is extremely kinky and likes to be very dominate in the bedroom, i've never quite experienced sex like this before and I really enjoy it. The first time we were together he asked if he could tape it, I told him no and he was ok with it, but now his birthday has come and he wants a BJ on video for his birthday gift, i've only known him for 3 months and i'm alittle weiry of documenting something like this, even though I would like to do it for him. I don't want to end up on the internet, even though I truly believe he would'nt do that, I don't trust to many people. What should I do?

2007-09-11 02:25:31 · 22 answers · asked by Steviemercury 2

For anyone who suffers from it, did/do you find it difficult, if not impossible, to give anything to a relationship? Do you feel that you have nothing to offer, and cannot give yourself to someone in a relationship? If so, why do/did you feel that you were not giving enough? Is it just a result of lack of emotional energy?

My ex is the one going through this, although we have little communication because I want to let him have his space. We've been apart for about 7 months now, but I still really care for him and worry. I've told him time and time again that I am always here for him if he needs anyone to talk to or listen, let him know that I care and encouraged him to get help. Should I continue to keep in light contact with him every once in a while? You know, just send an email or something letting him know that I care and am thinking about him? Or have I done enough, all that I can do, and should I just step back and let him come to me? I don't want him to feel I've abandoned him

2007-09-11 02:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by dohnnyjepp 3

Over the past year I became best friends with someone who I felt understood everything about me. We grew very close, and somehow we ended up in a loving relationship -- this was very gradual and step by step and definitely didn't happen overnight. We spent every second together, and the past summer, we went on vacation together. It was amazing, and during the vacation we told eachother we'd love eachother forever and never break up. It was then that I devoted myself to our relationship, and when we returned home we didn't see eachother for a while. When we next saw eachother, he told me that he'd like to "take a break" and just be friends for a while, as he has a lot on his mind. I broke down, and told him this was when I needed him MOST, and disappear now was what i needed least. The next day, he called me and said he'd do everything to love me again, coz when he saw me in pain he couldn't take it. I was happy, but then suddenly on the third day of school, he called me and said that

2007-09-11 02:16:52 · 24 answers · asked by AAA 1

If a man had been turned into a woman or vice versa, would you have seeing as you dont mind they had a sex change.

2007-09-11 02:12:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok ive only gone on one date and it wasnt that good. we only went to the movies and then a couple weeks later we broke up probly cause of that. i wanna know wat the perfect date is so that i can finally impress a girl and keep a girlfriend for a long time. oh and if it helps im 16.

2007-09-11 02:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

The last year I asked a man to lunch and he got mad.

Two days a go another man asked me to lunch and I politely declined.

The first man is a player I found out. The other man I hardly know but he seems down to earth.

2007-09-11 02:10:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3

The reason i feel that i am still a V is because i hate my body and i dont trust men at all! I have had some good boyfriends and bad ones 2 but i just cant seem to give them that part of me. all my friends think i am just scared but there has to be something other then fear thats makeing me pull back...

2007-09-11 02:07:52 · 11 answers · asked by sweetme3331 1

I have a male friend who has not had a girlfriend in a really long time. He has wanted a relationship for the longest time now. He recently met a girl on match.com. He has gone out on dates with her and slept over at her house but he stated nothing has happened yet. When we ask him about her he says she is everything he wants but he doesn't know if he likes her? He doesn't even talk about her physical description either? The only thing he says is that she is in good shape? He rarely talks about her? What could be the problem?

2007-09-11 02:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jenn 2

I am the type of gal that does not "NEED" to be taken care of..... but I must admit I sure like the idea of "my guy" being able to take care of me. For istance.... my car dies on the side of the road.... he comes and rescues me or something frightens me.... he there to "hold" me in his arms. Such a nice thought. Do you want your guy or gal to be able and willing to take care of you although you might not necessarily "need" to be taken care of?

2007-09-11 02:04:26 · 24 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4

One time when we were off he dated and slept wiht someone else and threw it in my face. Him and her tried to remain friends but everytime I found out, and him and I were working things out I would break up with him.
He tells me now he doesn't want anything to do with her. He wishes he never met her. I threw her up in his face alot and he was getting sick of it.
He Told me if I cant trust him we shouldnt try. But I love him so much he is my best friend.
I take my insecurities to him - all my "what if" and he gets so irritated.
I am getting on his nerves asking questions if he has talked to her, etc etc.
Why can't I stop? He told me if it does not stop he is leaving.

2007-09-11 01:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi im from South Afrika 19 White Female.

Im not That overweight and not that skinny im actually chubby. I get alot of complements that im very pretty and beautiful its just my figure. I was born like this and i really have personality im a down to earth person like to laugh and really have fun. But why dont guys see me and always see skinny girls. Ive been hurt alot because i have a soft heart. Do i need to become a B*T*H?

2007-09-11 01:39:44 · 20 answers · asked by Bokkie ogies 2

Did you ever regret your past by meeting me?
Do you wish you could turn back the clock so you would never see, the tradegy of meeting your match and then never being unable to unlatch. Never being or having your mind set free. Only to cause more pain and suffering if tried to let be, only to find happiness when wishing to love even if never have success. And then one day you both finally confess your true love now so perfect, once a mess.

2007-09-11 01:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

=P

2007-09-11 00:56:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this boy he lliked me we use to be eneimes in 4th grade and we like each other we went out for a month and he actually relized that i was the girl from 4th grade .hesays he don't know wants to be with me since we hated each other unless i GIVE IT UP. WHAT SHOULD DO STAY WITH HIM OR GO BACK TO THE SEA!

2007-09-11 00:51:40 · 23 answers · asked by SPONTANEOUS SYDNEY 2

im 21and i have been dating my gf for over a year now and everything is great, but when we first started dating i was like 30 pounds over weight. well sence than i have lost all the weight and gained a lot more muscle, needless to say for the first time in my life other women are comming on to me and liking me more. my gf is not the prettyest girl in the world she is just average but its her personality i love so much, well for the past few weeks i have been having strong feelings for other girls, not emotional feelings but sexual feeling, i dont want to date them just do them. But i know if this were to happen it would destroy my current relationship and i dont want that. and with these othere girls comming on to me its making this thing a whole lot harder. Should i worry or what should i do????

2007-09-11 00:28:10 · 18 answers · asked by joshua d 3

a 17 yo guy gets asked out by a random 22 yo girl that just walks right up to him and says "your cute, do you want to hook up some time or see a movie?" at a university information night.

what are your opinions about this? does that ever happen? is he b*s-ing?

2007-09-11 00:16:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

orr a girl friend?

2007-09-11 00:12:44 · 7 answers · asked by emma r 2

was out 2 nights ago and was in great form, had eaten plenty, had a few drinks, drunk, but ive had more plenty of times so i know thats not the problem. but totally out of nowhere i have an hour or two gap in my memory and next thing i know i was a fair distance from the club i was in with a total stranger helping me put my shirt back on. next day i was told id been aggressive and violent towards my girlfriend and friends, was paranoid without any reason and generally acted totally out of character. ive never done anything like that before, ive even kept my cool when a guy was trying to kiss my girlfriend in front of me. so can anyone tell me what could have been put in my drink to cause that and if i should be worried about my health now? i was being in no way careful about my drinks by the way so it would have been easy for someone to spike one.

2007-09-11 00:11:47 · 3 answers · asked by James K 2