boyfriend troubles?!?

Question

ill give u the general overview..
we dated for 2 years..and fell in love really quickly
we have broken up times before this and both of us have said this was the end for good but we have gotten back together everytime
this time, its been over a month and were still both saying that and we still like argue and part of me still wants to get back together
from knowing that this has happpened more than once..what do u think
we'll get back together or no

i know its bad to fight..but there is obviously something between us that keeps pulling us back together everytime

Answer 1

From your past history with him, you might get back together, but unfortunately, I don't think it will last. Keep in mind there are other guys out there! You owe it to yourself to check out what else is available, you might meet that perfect guy you've been dreaming of!

Answer 2

You said that there must be a reason you two still keep getting back together, but then again, that means there's also a reason you two keep breaking up. Just take a long break. Give it a month or so, and if you two still feel the same way about each other, go for it! But if you find out you're better off without him, well, then more power to you.

Answer 3

I know exactly what your going through. I have been with the same guy off and on for a little bit over 2 years. We break up and say the same thing we wont get back together, but when we see eachother all our feeling take over. We always got back together. So more than likey you will get back together with him whether it be tomorrow or a month from now... Goodluck

Answer 4

You need to change whatever is causing you guys to fight all the time and break up. You're repeating the same cycle without analyzing what's wrong with the situation and trying to fix it. You guys are just repeating the same things without doing anything to make it better. If it can't be fixed or one of you guys isn't willing to change, then don't get back together. And if you fix it, but then end up breaking up again instead of sticking it out and trying to work it out, then don't ever get back together again. it's a waste of time.

Answer 5

No! definitely not! It sounds like though you two are both really attracted to one another, you guys just can't make it work well enough. Think about whatever it is thats constantly causing the problems and maybe try to sort it out, but for the most part, it might be best to just clear your head and finally move on as hard as it is

Answer 6

Nobody here will tell you what is going to happen. You will be the one making that decision if given the choice.

Now... do you want in the long term be with someone that you keep fighting and breaking up... sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

Find somebody you can have a nice relationship with and you dont have to worry about these things.

Answer 7

Yes probally, but I would'nt because he might start thinking that he could break up with you anytime he wants and still get back together with you. Basically using you. Unless he is the kind of guy that would not do that kind of thing. Hope this helped!

Answer 8

that just happened to my good friend!...she didn't let them be together even though she did cry and she does miss him she just couldn't take it and she thinks it might be better for the both of them..they still talk and they're still friends. maybe ya'll are just on a longgg break lol. i hope you two get back together if thats what you want. you control if you get back with or not

Answer 9

Sounds like he's already hooking up with another girl. A month apart is plenty of time for him to get over you. Sounds like your gonna have to go back to the pond.

Answer 10

No. I know what it feels like to want them back, to think about them day and night. But its honestly a phase. You have to go through with this. Try to not forget but try to be busy. Obviously its not working out, and i know you know that, you shouldn't waste your time trying force a compromise.