Singles & Dating - 11 September 2007

Me and my live in girlfriend are down to having sex only 2-3 times amonth. Is that grounds to breakup with her
We just moved in together inApril. we had sex muxh more frequentlt before. Between her headaches and other incidental things that do not allow us to be intimate more often we are down to 2-3 time s month. She refuses to give me hand release because she thinks it is disgusting. And oral is fleeting and never to completion. We get along Ok otherwise but I have had much better relationships. I have voiced my concern several times but to no avail. Is this grounds to break up with her?

2007-09-11 08:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by bob l 1

ok. so there's this guy that lives near me (and near as in 40 feet). i moved to the neighborhood not too long ago, and for some reason since i first saw him i had a feeling he had an attraction to me (fyi, im an "intuitive" person). anyways, so this year school started, and ive seen him go from his bus to his house the first few days. then later on him and his friend started taking the sidewalk i take, only going towards me (like in the opposite direction). the first few times i didnt look at him as they passed me (and he did), only from the corner of my eye. but yesterday, i looked directly at him, and the sun was in my eyes so i was squinting and i may have looked mean, like i was scowling at him. and so today i didnt even see them going to their houses (they probably took a different direction or something) and at lunch, he sat sideways so that his back is to me (he doesnt sit near me, like two tables down and on the other end, but still). and also he didnt go up into the lunch line

2007-09-11 08:25:49 · 8 answers · asked by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3

2007-09-11 08:23:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am still in love with my exboyfriend and we have been broken up for over a month. he wants us to see other people before we decide if we wanna get back together. i love him more than anything in the world. when i see him, my heart falls to the floor because i kno that he isnt mine. we made out yesterday and he said he loved me. i talked to him today when he brought me home from school and he says that most of what he said yesterday was because we were in the heat of the moment. if i could have one wish for the rest of my life, i'd wish that he and i were together. i miss him so much and it kills me to think of him with someone else. what can i do to make the pain go away? what can i do to make him want me again? what should i do if he never wants me back?

2007-09-11 08:17:06 · 22 answers · asked by lil_brown_eyes_hottie 2

This girl and I fell in love a couple of months back. It was simply bliss. The problem was that she just got out of a 7 year relationship and she wasn't over her ex bf. She ended up leaving me to get back with her ex to work things out. After getting back with her ex we still kept in contact with one another telling each other that we still loved each other. We would secretly get together just to spend time with one another. But we recently agreed that our little secret rendezvous and talks on the phone were not right. So we both decided to let each other go yet we're both still in love with one another. I'm letting her go because I love her and I want her to be happy, but it's very difficult to do so knowing that she loves me just as much as I do for her.

2007-09-11 08:12:37 · 3 answers · asked by DFlow 2

Okay so I'm a freshman in high school and he's junior in high school. I like him but i don't know what to say to him. What can I say to him without embarassing myself? We both play tennis but in different seasons. Would that be a good way to get to know him? Thanks so much I really appreciate the answers!!

2007-09-11 08:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by RichieSamboraGirl93 6

Whats on your mind?

2007-09-11 08:02:11 · 18 answers · asked by Alexa F 2

who care if your seeing someone from your job place?...does it really matter who your talking to?..obviously it does if you got people worrying about it everyday?..why do some people think its wrong to date inside the work place?...and if you do why do you have people envying you all the time?....really does it mater?...

2007-09-11 08:00:34 · 26 answers · asked by Redd 2

How do you think a bad boyfriend would act, also do you think if your boyfriend was controling alot and didnt kiss you very much anymore would that be bad?

2007-09-11 07:56:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

so there's a guy i like and he describes our relationship as "we're bf and gf when we're around each other and broken up when we're not." we spent the weekend together but i decided not to talk to him yesterday for a break from each other. we had 2 classes together today. in the first one, there was an open seat next to him but i decided to sit next to my friends...i didn't want to appear clingy. he looked at me and smiled and blushed i guess. he looked up at me throughout the class. in the next class , he asked me to sit next to him but we didn't flirt or anything...it was like nothing ever happened on the weekend. he even left before me instead of waiting like i thought he could. i kinda think neither of us know what we're doing. should we have a talk? any other advice?

2007-09-11 07:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

I'm telling my best guy friend I’ve had a crush on him for about 5 or so yrs now. What words do I use? How do I explain myself? It’s going to be a phone conversation so take that into consideration. I think he likes me back but I’m afraid it will destroy our friendship. What do I say? I’m scared…lol

2007-09-11 07:49:41 · 15 answers · asked by Indgrid 1

2007-09-11 07:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend about 6 weeks - He is stationed in Wilshire so at the moment i can speak to him and see him quite often. The trouble is he is being sent to Afganistan in a few months which he wasn't anticipating! My question is do i stay with him, put my life on hold and hope that he comes home in 9 months or do we finnish things and move on? Either way i will be worrying about him and be praying he is safe and want to keep in contact with him. I just can't imagine being with anyone else when i know where he is and what he is doing?

Anyone been in a similar position who could advise me? Or if you just have a point of view it would rellay help! I'm so confused!!

2007-09-11 07:24:30 · 13 answers · asked by bird_in_a_bubble 1

he just left me,ignored my phone calls wondering wat went wrong with him n if i ever did anything wrong to him....but he never called me back and he never told me why.

he called me after 3 months lost of contact with him
he told me that the reason he neva contacted me was bcoz he was cheatting on me n he didnt know how he would tell me n he thought if he told me why i would break up with him.......which i would.....but he says he stil luvs me as much as he always did.

i met this wonderful guy four weeks ago n i already went four dates with him....but im stil in luv with my ex who already made me suffer enought!!!!....... he was my fiance at the same time the one the only man i trully luved.......i still didnt decide to give him achance cuz he doesnt deserve one..

i would really appreciate your ideas
tell me wat i should do please??

thank you

2007-09-11 07:11:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sahro A 1

during the summer holidays we had a fight because he though i was still hooked up on my ex. Last week at school he pretty much avoided me so i texted him asking if we were cool and what was going on between us. he replied 'You broke my heart but i still cant help loving you'
Whats that suppose to mean? Are we talking or are we not? He doesnt understand at all that i was over my ex long ago.

2007-09-11 07:11:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

it can do posible?

2007-09-11 07:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 07:07:22 · 19 answers · asked by I'm single wanna mingle? 1

You still were in love with someone but you knew the relationship could never work. My ex still calls me to hang out with her and im trying to get over her cause i don't think i will ever find someone else if shes still in my life and i don't want to tell her to quit talking to me cause I think that would really hurt her. Im just really confused as to what to do. We have been broken up for 3 weeks and I don't kno if i will ever get over her at this rate.

2007-09-11 07:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do shy guys, nerds and level-headed guys think of sex as often as the rest of mankind?

2007-09-11 06:56:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it ok?

2007-09-11 06:55:41 · 28 answers · asked by ladydia756 2

2007-09-11 06:53:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 06:52:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u think they dont care about how smart a girl is or how snotty she is, as long as their pretty?

2007-09-11 06:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

! i really like this guy and he found out but hasnt said anything?I tried to get him to say something but he skirted the issue but was suddenly really sweet and nice he always smiles and gets this glazed look in his eyes when he see's me and would talk really soft and look straight in my eyes then suddenly he starts avoiding me when he see's me he gets really quiet and ignores me but smiles and looks at me when he thinks i'm not looking when i say something to him though he always is really sweet and looks either straight in my eyes or down but tries to get away as soon as possible it seems everyone else i know hates him & thinks he's a total *** and i know he is but never to me .. wtf is going on!! frustration grrr

2007-09-11 06:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by LeSha 3

Okay my boyfriend gets mad when I do stuff for my family…. I mean its not like anything bad its just when I am over his house my mom or sister will call and need something and ill run and jump to it… he seems to think they are using me and trying to keep me from him cuz last night I was suppose to go by walmart and get some meat and when I made it half way home my sister changed her mind and said she wasn’t going to cook that…. Well, he got pretty mad cuz I left his house….

He has been taking everything out on me lately, like he is ragging… he makes me cry then he says he is sorry and he loves me he just has a lot on his mind… I love him with all my heart and I don’t want to lose him. Then they other day we kinda got into it because he likes to drink a lot and go to bars and honestly bars are not my thing.. I don’t see the fun in it….. then he told me he was going to stop drinking because he didn’t want to lose me and he knew I would leave him if he didn’t. I told him it’s okay sometimes just not all the time!!!!!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do??????????

2007-09-11 06:25:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

wat does it mean if a girl always wants to hang out with you and is really touchy and flirty and calls you and texts you everyday but she says she jus wants to be friends rite now?? is she screwing with me or playin hard to get?? wat do i do?

2007-09-11 06:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by basketball 1

lets see. i have been with my bf for almost a year. i dont want to break up with my bf but we are going to seperate schools now. i broke up last week but got right back eith him cus i dont think i can be without him. its just that the intial spark that i had for him has started fading. i dont know what to do. he can be mean, and he has a different faith than i do. pease help!

2007-09-11 06:08:42 · 1 answers · asked by Deni T 2

Hi there, I am currently in a Long distance Relationship with a girl who is 23 and i am 24. she used to live in my city but relocated back to her mothers 86 miles away (2 hours drive). shes busy during the week working and we both have weekends but i am a student and i need to work 7-8 hours whenever i like at the weekend...i make my own hours. I plan on graduating and next summer moving near her. I know i am going to find it a bit of a strain every weekend to travel to see her so we agreed we stay over once a week rotational she come here and i see her. our parents are fine with it but our parents are retired. We will not get the chance to do our romantic stuff although things have been done at hers when her mother down stairs. Will she lose interest in LD relationship? I am in fear she will meet some one else as shes is very attractive. We keep in touch with texts and calls and visits...i went to meet her mum last week and saw thier house, we are both keen but how can i secure us?

2007-09-11 06:01:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-11 05:57:14 · 6 answers · asked by monkey's mom 1

I consider my boyfriend very attractive. But almost everyday after he gets home from work he tells me stories about female customers hitting up on him and flirting w/ him at work. Could he be lying just to make me feel how lucky i am to be w/ him? Could all his stories be true??

2007-09-11 05:50:35 · 20 answers · asked by ~JUST ME~ 2