How do you let go of someone you love who still loves you back?

Question

This girl and I fell in love a couple of months back. It was simply bliss. The problem was that she just got out of a 7 year relationship and she wasn't over her ex bf. She ended up leaving me to get back with her ex to work things out. After getting back with her ex we still kept in contact with one another telling each other that we still loved each other. We would secretly get together just to spend time with one another. But we recently agreed that our little secret rendezvous and talks on the phone were not right. So we both decided to let each other go yet we're both still in love with one another. I'm letting her go because I love her and I want her to be happy, but it's very difficult to do so knowing that she loves me just as much as I do for her.

Answer 1

Sometimes, love just bites. The best thing you can do is pick up the pieces of your broken heart, and try to move on, and eventually find someone else to love. The girl may love you, but she chose another man to be with instead of you.

It's gonna hurt; I won't lie. But you have to keep going, and just hope and pray that she's happy where she is...

Answer 2

I feel your hurt, I've been there.
You've got to get out of the house, go running, do anything that will take your mind off your girl.I've already told this to 1 person today but it works so I'll tell you.
Go help other people.
Call community services. There are a lot of people out there who are worse off than you, be some bodies arms or legs, just do something for some one else and it's going to make a big difference in you. Trust me it works.
God bless.

Answer 3

She may love you but she chose someone else to be with! Do not contact her! Only if she leaves the other guy and gets in touch with you should you consider whether you want to try again.