so there's a guy i like and he describes our relationship as "we're bf and gf when we're around each other and broken up when we're not." we spent the weekend together but i decided not to talk to him yesterday for a break from each other. we had 2 classes together today. in the first one, there was an open seat next to him but i decided to sit next to my friends...i didn't want to appear clingy. he looked at me and smiled and blushed i guess. he looked up at me throughout the class. in the next class , he asked me to sit next to him but we didn't flirt or anything...it was like nothing ever happened on the weekend. he even left before me instead of waiting like i thought he could. i kinda think neither of us know what we're doing. should we have a talk? any other advice?
2007-09-11 07:53:42 · 7 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your bf/gf when ur together and broken up when ur not then you arent really dating. I think that both of you are sorta confused. he might have thought that you sitting by your friends ment you didnt like him that way, and when you guys didnt talk or flirt he might have been waiting for you to make the first move. you should definiatly have a talk. you are confused, and he probably is too. so have a talk.
hope that helped.
2007-09-11 08:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Ask around and make sure he dosn't have another girlfriend? then confront him. He's playing games with you. you need to tell him what you expect and tell him he can step if he can't give you that. don't worry about scaring him off, men love a girl that knows what she wants and isn't affraid to tell them Good Luck and God bless
2007-09-11 15:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by EricaS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in more than just weekend flings, then talk to him...if you are content with things as they stand then go with the flow.
2007-09-11 14:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be quite honest, your wasting a lot of time on this guy when you could be finding mr. right. tell him what's on your mind and try to solve the problem. he kinda sounds like a player somewhat
2007-09-11 15:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by hinderbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of you need to make a move
2007-09-11 14:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by puffa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy the way you are?
if not, you should talk...
If you're happy,continue on....
2007-09-11 14:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i think so
2007-09-11 14:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Moe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋