Is this normal?
2007-09-11 03:25:36 · 47 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sexual attraction is part of being human....
loving someone means you dont act on those feelings though....
2007-09-11 03:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by *DiZzLe* 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Sexual attraction is human nature.
It's very common.
However, acting on it is an entirely different thing!
2007-09-11 03:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But because you are in love, you respect that love and do not act on your feelings towards others. When you get married, you aren't dead! If you have hormones, you will always be attracted to others. You just won't have the need to cheat on your true love.
2007-09-11 03:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think to some degree, it is.
I'm recently married and attraction to others has dropped off pretty substantially. It's probably because I'm really in love. If anything, it has just intensified.
2007-09-11 03:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love has no limit. It's yours to give for who you like. It will not end or grow less. You can find other attractive all your life, you're alive are you not? It doesn't mean you're doing something wrong, or strange. It's perfectly "normal" as if anything is normal in life in general. LOVE makes you shine, enjoy it!
2007-09-11 03:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Joanna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a natural thing in women and in men to be attracted to others
as long as you look but don't touch, then i suppose it ok.
Guys usually get murdered for looking at other women in a relationship-this proves women have these feelings too but can probably hide them better!
2007-09-11 03:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. Your in a relationship, not blind or dead. I've been married 7 years and I still get little crushes all the time. What is important is that you see them for what they are and remain faithful to your partner.
There is an old saying that my husband and I practice. "We don't care where we get the appetite as long as we only eat at home."
2007-09-11 03:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Course. As long as you don't cross the line, I mean your other half feels about the same way as you. The only thing that keeps a relationship is the the fact the neither of you two act on the attraction.
2007-09-11 03:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ ~ lele ~ ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is very normal. Even if you're in love, it doesn't mean you wont find other people attractive. The key thing here is to not act upon those urges. Get rid of that lust with the person you love!!!
2007-09-11 03:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sanchez 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Yes. You may be in love, but you're still human. You will always be attracted to other people, it's natural. The key is not acting on your thoughts.
2007-09-11 03:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are human...however acting on the sexual attraction would be inappropriate unless you have an open relationship or haven't declared exclusivity yet so you're both available to date others.
2007-09-11 03:28:48 · answer #11 · answered by . 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋