I have been hurt twice in love and it took me years to recover from my broken heart both times and now i've been alone for couple of years and feel happy on my own. I just wanted to ask, is it abnormal or weird in todays world to be alone and not want to have a romantic partner/sexual partner. I am happy but i don't know what others feel about this.
2007-09-11 04:12:17 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm like that right now...Its nice to think about myself for once and not have to worry about anything...I dont care if its normal or not, im enjoying the freedom...
2007-09-11 04:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal. People are staying single for longer nowadays. Personally, I like the company of others, but as for a romantic relationship I'd rather hold out for the right one instead of whatever one comes along. Enjoy your time alone, you learn so much about yourself. It's totally fine to not have a partner all the time! =)
2007-09-11 11:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Vbonics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are probably still hurting. i might not be the best person to answer this question but i'm feeling the same way right now and don't want to be emotionally attached to any man cos i've being unlucky in love more times than you have.
But as much as i want to be alone i find myself still wanting some sexual attention (haven't had any in a little over a yr now since my last relationship broke up), but i don't want to let go to trust any guy again. Simply speaking i've given up on love right now but can't bring myself to have sex just for the fun of it.
What i think (and this applies to me too) is that this is just a phase we are passing through. some of us take a longer time to heal than others; for me it might take 2 yrs, for you it might take 10 yrs or just a couple of months. you never know..
Just learn to follow your heart and your emotions, be alone if you want to and then when you are ready for the world nobody will have to tell you.
2007-09-11 11:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by let'stalk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think. If you are happier without being in a relationship stay that way. You can have a very happy life without a partner. Only you know what is best for you.
2007-09-11 11:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by suzie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Your fine. Take some time to yourself and have fun. If you should ever feel the need to get into a romantic relationship again then know that the option is available.
2007-09-11 11:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Ex: My aunt was single until she was 38. Then she finally met the right guy for her and she is now happily married. Enjoy being single. Eventually, the right person will come along.
2007-09-11 11:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To hell with others.Be happy and be done with all else.Do take your time to think about your future as life without a partner can be difficult though not impossible.
2007-09-11 11:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat! I think that you'll find the person you're meant to be with when you least expect it. Until then...focus being happy by yourself!! Good luck!!
2007-09-11 11:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by geminiqtpie22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋