ook this is very serious, so i met a guy around a month ago through a mutual friend and we have been talking on the phone for around 2 weeks straight now and he seems like a pretty nice guy so far. so yesterday we were on the phone and he was like he wants to see me and stuff and he said how he has expectations for the first, second, and third date. and i asked him what it was and he was like "well im sure u wont agree cuz most girls ive been with dont agree" and im like "just tell me" and he was like okay and he said that on the first date he wants the girl to show him her breasts, then on the second date he wants the girl to give him head, then on the third date she goes over to his house and its bang bang( u kno what that means)..anyways i definately do not agree with this and i told him that..but now i dont think i trust him anymore cuz he sounds kinda fishy..what do u think or how would u respond if u heard this? advice please..thanks
2007-09-11 04:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of this guy NOW!!! He is only after sex! If that is how he thinks about dating then he is not going to be serious about a relationship. He's is just putting out feelers with girls so he can find one that will agree with him and give him sex right away. Lord only knows how many girls he's gotten to agree with him then had sex with them then dumped them. Move on! I wouldn't even speak to this guy anymore! Fishy? He sounds like a real creep! There are a lot of nice respectable men who will treat you good and not want only sex. Take your time and wait until you find the right man for you. If a man truly cares about you and loves you then he will wait for sex until you are comfortable and ready. Tell this guy you are talking to to get lost, hit the road, take a hike and so on! Another thing you may want to consider is that if he has sex that early in a relationship then think how many women he has been with already! Do you want to be with someone like that? If you do then please use protection because you will be having sex with everyone he has had sex with. Be safe!!!
2007-09-11 04:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tatangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your right about feeling like you don't trust him! and trust your instincts too b/c from what you describe, This guy sounds like a PERVERT. He doesn't seem mature & he has no respect for girls. It sounds like he's just looking for a girl to have sex with. Tell him your NOT that type of girl & that if he expects these nasty things with you, he can take his perverted azz somewhere else.
Seriously, DRAW THE LINE. You don't want to be with a guy who acts like that (expects nothing but sex). If he can't respect you or treat you like a normal person, then he has no business talking to you. Never, ever get involved with a guy who initiates sex on the 1rst, 2nd & 3rd date, especially when you just met him. It's NOT a good sign.
2007-09-11 11:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask you friend that introduced him to you if she would trust him and tell her whats going on.
if you do decide to go on a date with him make sure u go out and maybe end it early and i would say dont go to his place or let him in yours or something to see what he is really like. if he does like you, he wont care about his expectations on the dates
2007-09-11 11:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by rat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if that's truly what he insists on, I'd respect his honesty, but I'd probably just say, "ok, good luck with that one" and let him go on his merry way. I'm not saying whether I would or wouldn't do any of that, but if it's EXPECTED, no, I don't want to go there. I will not do what I'm not ready to do.
2007-09-11 11:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a Pig
2007-09-11 11:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋