I cant seem to have a normal conversation plus i find it hard to control my urges....like i make suggestive comments before i even tell the guy that i like him. I am insecure too and i'm unable to love myself. I think i'm ugly and stupid. Ive a lot of hidden resentments and anger as i was raped when i was 8. I'm so depressed and i cant go on like this anymore.
2007-09-11 02:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly sweet heart no man can love you if you cant love yaself what you need to do is go into therapy i might notknoe exactly whats going on with you but i knoe what ya goin thru my sista got raped when i was nine years old...so just knoe that there has to be somebody out there that loves you for you and who you are and nothing will eva change that i doubt your ugly cuz no body is ugly and why should you care you have to knoe that wat doesnt kill you makes you stronger even through it is hard the past is the past and we shouldnt linger in our past but grow from it make positive changes and you know you have to look at yaself every morning and remember that you are beautiful you are intelligent and any man will be more than lucky to have you hey just email me please i'll be more thanhappy to help you out babynena53@yahoo.com
2007-09-11 03:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be fully aware of all your shortcomings...that's half the battle! Take some time to figure out what's happening when you do and say the things that you abhor and try to gradually rein in your urges; you aren't so different from other people that get a little drunk and get louder and increasingly slobbery as the party wears on!
Do yourself a favor and warn the guys that you're becoming interested in that you tend to be a little agressive and are a little touchy when you feel threatened; that way, when you start to go off on them for no apparent reason, they'll know to pull back or change the topic to avoid a full-on tirade! Good luck...
2007-09-11 03:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need counseling, you should talk to someone, a minister, psychologist, family etc, and talk to thim about your feelings, and pain. When your in counseling share everything that you have been through, and stay away from trying to get a guy to like you, or seeking a relationship. You seem to be searching for love, or support through guys, which maybe something that you are lacking or feel as though you are lacking at home. You have to first love an appreciate yourself, before anyone else will. Don't give up, talk to a counselor, think positive, and begin to mend your heart, and emotions back together again.
2007-09-11 03:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 09:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question?
Seek professional help. If you don't love you, why should anyone else? Get some self confidence and self esteem and then other areas of your life will begin to fall into place.
Good luck!
2007-09-11 03:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a psychiatrist.
2007-09-11 06:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by gamermic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im soo sorry that you feel this way. but at least you know your problem. guys like confident women andim very insecure as well. but i dont let them know that
2007-09-11 03:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by halo1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need pofessional help.Good Luck
2007-09-11 03:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Maphondo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you should seek professional help. :)
2007-09-11 03:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see your gp, and commence antidepressants for a year or so
2007-09-11 03:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋