hi everybody I'm really crushing this guy that's really close friends with my cousins the thing is that he's only all over me when he's drunk. When he is sober it hi and bye conversations but when he has some alcohol in his system he dance up on each other and have the best time ever! I remeber on new years I went up to him and said happy new year and he wasdrunk and he french kissed my shoulder..lol Like what the hell? It was hot but was kinda weird I guess..lol Also when he's drunk he tells me how i'm his favorite and stuff...is it the alcohol or does the truth come out when someone is totally wasted? he'll never admit any of this!
2007-09-11 04:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He likes you. But maybe not just you.
The booze will loosen him up and make him brave. He'll remember everything he does as well, like french kissing your shoulder which is totally hot.
Ultimately you want the real him though. He may be shy when he's sober but he's also accountable with no excuses.
Ask him out ... for coffee!
2007-09-11 04:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's a fallacy to think everything people do or say when they are drunk, is representative of how they really feel. Some people are honest about their feelings when drunk and say things they couldn't spit out when sober, some lie, and some just say whatever pops into their head without any regard as to whether it's the truth or not. Alcohol is not a reliable truth serum, sorry.
Apparently he's just very uninhibited when drunk, and that's why you see that behavior. It's not a good indicator at all as to whether he is actually attracted to you or not.
2007-09-11 11:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALCOHOL!
I really think it's the alcohol, but if you really think there is a connection then ask him straight up, If he's into you he will tell you, I mean if you tell him you're into him he has no worries and should be honest. But if he is sober and says he isn't into you then he's really not into you.
2007-09-11 11:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by 801 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are a lot more carefree and relaxed and honest when they are drunk. But beware. Casual drinking is ok, but when someone is always getting plastered, it isn't good. My father started out that way, and he is an alcoholic. It isn't good.
2007-09-11 11:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mommy of 2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the alcohol.
I recently got myself in trouble with a girl who liked me because I'd always make plans with her when i was drunk because I wanted to get with her then, then the next day when it came time to do the plans, I'd come up with an excuse cuz when I was sober, I didn't want to be around her.
2007-09-11 11:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by thuglife 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's the alcohol, honey. It brings inhibitions down and clouds judgement.
2007-09-11 11:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Alcohol is very powerful. When people drink they tend to do things that they would normally do. Try recording him when he is drunk. What a wake up call.
2007-09-11 11:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by msgolf 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he's shy.help him by putiing him in a position where he is the center of attention a lot more.hell open up eventually without alcohol
2007-09-11 11:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by ????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's awful - find someone who likes you when sober.
2007-09-11 11:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by phantom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sadness
2007-09-11 11:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋