2007-09-11 04:40:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The men who are bad at sex are the ones who only care about themselves and their own release. The good ones are the ones who take their time, communicate with their partners, pay attention to their partners' reactions, and work for mutual satisfaction.
2007-09-11 04:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she come out? Is she lesbo now?
It's not if your good or bad. Women have a problem with telling men what they want and how they want it. Can't blame the man because he can't tell what she's feeling!
Next time ask the woman what she wants and you will be able to hear a pin drop.
The problem with some women is that they think they can just lie there like a limp noodle,no pun intended, and expect you to make their toe's curl up. Maybe they are to bashful to speak up.
Ladies don't give me the "size matters" crap. That thing you have is only good as you make it and so the same can be said for men.
2007-09-11 04:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by wcs_n_ms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if men in genral are bad at sex then you would lose no matter who your with!! so why would someone want to cheat if blow joe is going to be bad at it too!
This is a lamn excuse she played you!
Men are not bad in bed, some need some direction but unless the women speaks up the men are not going to read there mind and know 100% how to please them.
So women need to speak up! period then men will follow directions and you can be sent off flying back on cloud 9!!
2007-09-11 04:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if men were just generally bad at sex then why would she cheat on u? Did u think about that? What a stupid excuse in my opinion that she cheated on u. I mean did she cheat on u with another girl cuz if guys are so bad i wouldnt think that she would go cheat on u with another guy.
2007-09-11 04:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your ex sounds like a nasty piece of work. Men are not 'generally' bad at sex. You both have to work at it to make it an enjoyable experience. Do not let her make you feel bad or small. Forget all about her and find someone who will treat you with respect and dignity.
2007-09-11 04:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Estrella Brillante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was looking for an excuse to cheat, and this one is pretty lame. Be glad youre done with her. Not all men can be great, but, not all men are bad at sex.
2007-09-11 04:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think most guys are pretty bad at it. we are in too much of a hurry. but, they do get better with the right woman.
but, in your case, she should have told you, worked with you, not cheated.
she was going to cheat anyway, this was just an excuse. and all women say this after they leave you. she will also tell everyone you were "small".
2007-09-11 04:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Men and women have a great capacity to learn. If one is willing to put the time and effort in anybody can become an ideal lover.
2007-09-11 04:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No... I mean, some of them are...but same with women...some women suck in bed, and some don't...she's just telling you that to sound justified in cheating...if she thought men are mostly bad at sex, why would she cheat instead of working on improving things there? Blah... cheating....makes me angry...sorry it happened. <3
2007-09-11 04:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by peacexlovexrocknroll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she said that as a last ditch effort to disable your self-confidence and make you feel insecure. Don't buy it. What turns one person off, is a big turn-on for someone else. Different people like different styles. Just be yourself and know she was being immature and insincere.
2007-09-11 05:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by stellawrenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋