Really, I just dont understand it! Most of them like playing mind games and I can never really get a for sure answer whether or not they are interested...What do I need to do to bring forth the answer a little quicker? I met this girl that is very flirty and always gives me a hard time...nothing serious but more of a flirty hard time...Is this a sign?
2007-09-11 02:53:11 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe this girl thinks the same about you; in that she sees you as being flirty but nothing more serious. Maybe she's intimidated by your good looks and charm and playfulness and has already decided in her mind that you wouldn't seriously consider someone like her. Girls also wonder if they are pretty/smart/interesting enough and may have doubts as to their worth, just like guys!
You do not need to have a serious &/or sexual relationship with every girl you like, you can just like some of them and admire and appreciate them for making the world a nicer place to be in.
One thing that you can do to keep your part of the world pretty and enjoyable is to let the girls know that you appreciate them just as they are, so that in the garden of life there will always be a splendid bouquet of beautiful people.
Thanks for caring enough to ask.
2007-09-11 03:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you can never really get a "for sure answer", what question are you asking of them?
Some people aren't so quick to show their feelings about someone until their doubts are erased. Maybe this girl is the same way. Don't rush things; just be her friend first. What's wrong with being a good friend with her? Nothing at all! If you try to push it, then you just might lose her for good.
Be patient, and learn to take things as they come to you. You have many years in front of you. Your teenage years are your learning years, as well as your yearning years, but don't let your feelings take over your good sense.
Let her know you're interested, but don't drool all over her.
Good Luck!
2007-09-11 03:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sacrificial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirty is good likely smily faces that wink is 4 sure a sign. A hard time well she has to keep you interested and be a pain in the butt. maybe she is an attention seeker and just finding ways to gets yours. Hard time is good since nothing in life comes easy and if it did you would of lost interest by now.
2007-09-11 03:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of people (male and female) like The Saint. If you don't want to play games, don't, it's that simple. If you play the game back it just keeps it going. Ask the question, if you don't get an answer move on, eventually the girls will get the idea you don't play games and won't do it.
2007-09-11 03:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't the only ones playing mind games.
Everyone plays mind games! That is just the way of the world.
When anyone gives you their true feelings they ar vulnerable and no one really likes to be vulnerable. Especially if they are not sure of how the other party feels.
2007-09-11 03:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Kia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play back and don't straight out ask...
Girls will always cling back if there is a mysterious seduction, not if they feel they are in control. By asking wether or not they are intested, they are immediatly given control of the relationship because they know you are interested with no other girls in the picture.
2007-09-11 02:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being flirty and giving you a hard time, is a definite sign of interest.It shows she likes you, but has a mind of her own too. I would go fo it!
2007-09-11 03:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kristi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all blame "society". They don't realize that THEY are society. They rely on fashion mags & shows to tell them what to wear, they allow the cosmetics industry to tell them they NEED make up or they will be ugly and unattractive to the entire world. They claim that this is a man's world but they simply won't take responsibility for their role in society. They pick and attach themselves to players who use and abuse them and then call nice guys "jerks".
2007-09-11 02:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, the girls are only as difficult as you make them or allow them. Takes two to play the game so your either playing or your time out, you decide! Why are you making things so difficult!
2007-09-11 03:01:08 · answer #9 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking about teenaged girls, then i can say they are a little wishy-washy sometimes. if you want to go out with a girl or get together to do something, then just call her? I think that would be a good start to finding out whether she wants to see you or not.
I'm sure there is a 'right girl" for you out there... take your time... and take care.
2007-09-11 02:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋